The allusion of Kong Rong's pear is a story that parents will tell us since childhood, which praises how Kong Rong respects and loves his elders. It is worth mentioning that kong rong after growing up is also not afraid of power and sacrifices himself for righteousness, and this spirit is also worthy of our admiration and learning.
As the saying goes, "the environment can affect a person", as the eldest daughter of Kong Rong, she was also cultivated by Kong Rong to know the great righteousness and understand the advance and retreat. Once, when Cao Cao sent officers and soldiers to surround all of Kong Rong's family and prepare to hang them, some people wanted to intercede for this small girl.
Unexpectedly, after Kong Rong's eldest daughter said thirteen words, she killed herself at the well, and these thirteen words became a sentence that has never been said in eternity. So, what was that sentence she said? Today, let's talk.
Kong Rong and Cao Cao
Kong Rong, Zi Wenju, he can poetry, in the chaotic world of the Three Kingdoms, such a talent as him is the object of the eyes of all countries. Many times, Cao Cao, the tyrant of the chaotic world, extended an olive branch to Kong Rong, but Kong Rong himself was loyal to the Han Room and was upright, and naturally did not want to be with Cao Cao, who "had mixed evaluations in later generations".
However, being born in a chaotic world, having a just and upright heart is not necessarily a good thing, and not being able to protect oneself is one of them. At that time, in the case of helplessness, in order not to offend such a villain as Cao Cao, Kong Rong also had to join his camp.
Kong Rong's personality is straight, in fact, according to the current statement, it is not smooth enough to deal with these people's feelings. Who is Cao Cao? It was the tyrant at that time, the object that haojie in the world wanted to follow, how could it be allowed to be "criticized" by such a small kong Rong?
Contradiction arises in the discord of opinion again and again, and finally leads to the road of no return. In fact, many times, "accompanying the king is like accompanying the tiger" These truths are understood by Kong Rong, but because of their self-esteem, they do not yield.
This led him to be unable to bow humbly and give the best advice to the monarch. It is conceivable that this behavior also marginalized Kong Rong again and again, such as a battle in Yecheng:
The Battle of Yecheng
It is said that Cao Cao attacked Yecheng in the seventh year of Jian'an. At that time, Yuan Shao fell ill and died, and Cao Cao crossed the river to attack Yuan Tan and Yuan Shang, and the two armies fought many battles in a row, and the second Yuan was defeated and retreated and held firm. In this case, Cao Cao pursued it relentlessly, and the dawn of victory was ahead.
In the Three Kingdoms era, although the bravery and good war were a shining point for the army to show off, the human heart was also made of meat, as long as the army in the "control city" withdrew, it was already considered a surrender, which could also protect the lives of the people in the city.
According to such a situation, to fight this situation, just wait for the defeated party to withdraw from the city wall by itself, there is no need to kill it all, this is a secret that everyone tacitly observes and keeps silent.
Usually, when Cao Cao attacked this situation, he would also choose to garrison outside the city and wait for the enemy to surrender. However, this time he did not do so, and when Cao Cao was unable to form an army, he pursued him and broke through the city gate in one fell swoop.
Why? Because Cao Cao already had selfish intentions at that time, he heard that there was a "Luoshen" in Yicheng, Zhen Mi, who looked beautiful and sounded like a yellow oriole, and he had long wanted to include it in the account.
But what he didn't expect was that Cao Pi actually took the lead and took this "Cao Cao woman" who was originally a nail in the coffin into his own account. After learning of this, although Cao Cao was furious, Huangkou Xiao'er actually robbed his father of a woman, but because of his face, he could not take his son's woman for his own use.
Otherwise, it would be a great shame to say it. Therefore, Cao Cao wanted to punish his son well to relieve the hatred in his heart. As a result, the news reached Kong Rong's ears, making him feel that the more he listened, the more harsh it became.
Lao Tzu and his son competed for a woman, or a figure with a head and a face at that time, and it was really unfortunate to pass it out... Under such circumstances, Kong Rong wrote a letter, and quickly sent it out to the station around him, hoping that Cao Cao would see the words in the letter and understand what he should do now.
Instead of being like now, because a woman is going to fall out with her son. According to some historical records, Kong Rong's letter reads: "The King of Wu cut down the King of Wu and gave it to the Duke of Zhou with himself..." Roughly speaking, it means that after the King of Wu defeated the King of Sui, he gave Su Daji to the Duke of Zhou.
Cao Cao was already in awe of knowledgeable people, and at this juncture when he was declaring his victory in the great war, he actually received a letter from one of the best military gentlemen in his account, and he was even more curious about this sentence.
Therefore, Cao Cao consulted the classics, but did not turn to the so-called "King Wu cut down the silk, in order to give himself to the Duke of Zhou" such an allusion. In this situation, Cao Cao couldn't wait to see Kong Rong and wanted him to point out for himself.
Cao Cao killed Kong Rong
On the day of the celebration, Cao Cao quickly returned to the garrison and asked Kong Rong: "Sir, what is this "King Wu cutting the silk, giving the Duke of Zhou with his own concubine", how I searched through the four books and did not find it, what does the gentleman want to tell me..."
Kong Rong's letter originally wanted to satirize Cao Cao for being an old man and disrespectful, and even wanted to fight with his son for a woman. Hearing Cao Cao ask this, he didn't have any scruples, and his words were slightly heavier.
At that time, he probably meant that you don't want a face at all, and it is not worth it to fight with a child for something other than a meritorious name, a woman, and make you so self-deprecating.
When Cao Cao listened, his face was white and red, and Kong Rong's words really hurt Cao Cao's self-esteem. Since he fought the war, no one except his father had dared to speak to him with such an attitude, not only with great disrespect, but also as an insult to the following crimes.
Cao Cao couldn't bear it, for such a long time, Kong Rong did not accept his intentions, and in this battle, he quickly returned with a whip, and thought that the envelope sent by Kong Rong was a congratulations to him and he was happy to be in Yecheng.
Unexpectedly, it was actually Kong Rong who crusaded against his own letter, which disappointed the extremely proud Cao Cao. Cao Cao, who was gray-headed, ordered that Kong Rong's family be beheaded and kong Rong's family arrested on charges of "recruiting disciples" and "attempting to commit misconduct".
In fact, when writing the letter, Kong Rong knew that there might be such a day. Kong Rong knew that he would not be able to escape death, and he did not want to involve his family, so he knelt down in front of the soldiers who came to arrest him and begged them to spare his daughter.
Before the messenger could speak, Kong Rong's 7-year-old daughter rushed up and said, "Don't you see that under the nest, there are eggs again?" After saying this, he picked up the saber that fell at his feet and killed himself, and no one present was not shocked.
The meaning of this sentence is: According to the adults, the whole nest has fallen to the bottom, is there still a complete egg? Kong Rong's daughter's spirit of living and dying together as a whole family and advancing and retreating together is also worthy of admiration by future generations.
In other words, is Kong Rong really just trying to satirize Cao Cao's behavior? In fact, in the eyes of many people in later generations, Kong Rong also did not want Cao Cao to severely punish his son, so as to shake the hearts of the army, he wanted to make Cao Cao's army twist into a rope.
However, Kong Rong, a qinggao person, was not understood and was eventually killed by Cao Cao. What do you think about that?