Some fans broke the news that shen Mengchen and Du Haitao's wedding has been put on the agenda.
At present, the two people have contacted more than a dozen brand owners to sponsor their weddings, and the wedding date is likely to be years later.
This news is not empty, before Shen Mengchen was absent from the recording of "Mars Intelligence Bureau" as a guest, Wang Han helped Shen Mengchen explain:
"She's preparing for the wedding right now, so she's not available."
In this regard, Shen Mengchen did not deny it, and thanked everyone for their blessings.
And now that the book has stopped broadcasting, many people have speculated that Du Haitao has more time to prepare for the wedding.
Shen Mengchen and Du Haitao have been in love for nine years together, during which they have been questioned many times about their affairs and have been questioned by fans many times:
"Why has Du Haitao been unwilling to marry Shen Mengchen?"
"A girl who has been with you for nine years, if you haven't considered marrying her, then don't delay her."
Shen Mengchen complained about Du Haitao on "Listen to My Sister", and was urged to marry by his parents, friends, relatives, and the audience.
And Du Haitao still can't be urged, so far, the rumors of the two people's love affair have been pushed to the cusp of the storm.
In the face of pressing questions, Du Haitao only answered ambiguously on a variety show:
"Mengchen and I have our own plans for the future, and we will do what we should do at each stage step by step."
This answer did not satisfy the audience, and many people felt that Du Haitao did not want to get married and felt sorry for Shen Mengchen.
More people began to advise Shen Mengchen to stop the loss quickly, not to be delayed by the delay in marriage for a lifetime.
And just when everyone was worried about Shen Mengchen's lifelong events, Shen Mengchen sent a photo with Du Haitao and the text "We are fine" to break the rumors.
The whole network broke her heart for Shen Mengchen, how could she be so sure that Du Haitao would definitely marry her?
01
Hacked for years, knowing what you want
Shen Mengchen's debut took a controversial road.
Plastic surgery, sexiness, and cunning, it seems that the words around Shen Mengchen are all pejorative.
Du Haitao is different, the host is from the competition, has been doing green leaves conscientiously in Hunan Satellite TV.
The popularity accumulated over the years has made him deeply loved by the audience.
When the two people first exposed their relationship, they were strongly questioned.
Many people suspect that Shen Mengchen just wants to borrow Du Haitao's heat, increase his exposure, and wait until it is really red to kick Du Haitao away.
Two people whose images and coffee positions are very inconsistent have suffered intense online violence.
To this end, Du Haitao once insisted on it and broke up with Shen Mengchen.
Shen Mengchen, who has long been accustomed to gossip, ignored the misunderstandings of others and took the initiative to untie the knot with Du Haitao, and the two of them survived the difficulties.
9 years of love has blocked the mouths of those who question Shen Mengchen's heart.
Looking back at the private interaction between the two people, perhaps What Shen Mengchen really values is more Du Haitao's excellent quality.
Du Haitao was afraid that Shen Mengchen would be cold enough to prepare hot water for her.
In order to prepare warm water for Shen Mengchen, he would get up early every day to cool the hot water.
Shen Mengchen encountered difficulties, and Du Haitao would coax her to be happy, unravel her, and give her companionship.
In addition to being gentle and considerate, Du Haitao is also a very affectionate person.
When Du Haitao's assistant got married, Du Haitao gave her a house.
Over the years, Du Haitao has been praised by his working partners and friends, and he has been practicing and serious for ten years.
On money, Du Haitao is not the top stream in the entertainment industry;
In terms of resources, du Haitao can't pave more roads for Shen Mengchen in addition to backing Shen Mengchen.
Shen Mengchen was able to fall in love with Du Haitao for nine years, and she truly felt the warmth and happiness that this man brought to her.
There seem to be a lot of formulas for emotional things, the appearance should be commensurate, the academic qualifications should be commensurate, and the family lineage should be commensurate.
But these formulas are merely meant to enter the form of happiness.
A man is not suitable for himself, only when he has really been together can he have the most real experience.
02
Resolving emotional crises requires a strong heart
Shen Mengchen and Du Haitao are together, in addition to the heat being criticized, the most commented on is the appearance of both sides.
Although Du Haitao is thick and honest, he does not conform to the traditional aesthetic.
Shen Mengchen, on the other hand, has high requirements for himself, and his beauty and figure are maintained very well.
Du Haitao has repeatedly developed inferiority complex because of the comments of netizens.
And every time at this time, Shen Mengchen will use ridicule to divert Haitao's attention and confess to Haitao.
He said that he was looking at Haitao's heart and ambition, and did not feel that there was anything wrong with Haitao's appearance.
In the past nine years, Shen Mengchen and Du Haitao have encouraged each other to move forward hand in hand.
Looking back at Shen Mengchen's marriage promotion on "Listening to My Sister" now, it can be described as a very bold move.
It not only tests Du Haitao's loyalty to this love, but also creates heat and topics.
If the direction is good, through the heat fermentation can be negotiated with a stronger brand side, holding a wedding naturally do not have to worry.
If the direction is not good, public opinion collapses badly, which will affect both the work of the two people and the feelings of the two people.
Whether two people can eventually be together for a long time is like a snake eating a square, and the trouble and problem is the block.
Two people can eat one trouble after another together, and the relationship between them will be stronger and stronger.
But if you can't eat the trouble in front of you, it's just game over.
Solving difficulties is inseparable from the mutual help of two people, and one is indispensable.
One person's strength is exhausted on the day, and two people help each other, and the energy can continue to flow.
03
Love and career go hand in hand
In addition to love, in terms of career, Shen Mengchen is also going all out.
Not only the variety show in Mango Station has become an indispensable variety show café.
Can sing and dance, can host, can control the field, can be funny, but also from the host to the draft player, the stage charm is not lost to the idol star.
Today' Shen Mengchen has received more and more work through his own efforts.
At the New Year's Eve party, it has already stood on Wang Han's side, a proper C position.
The work is getting better and better, and the money is naturally more and more earned, and now Shen Mengchen has bought the luxury villa that many people dream of on his own.
Not only does this villa have a super large courtyard and a super large swimming pool, the yoga room alone can accommodate dozens of people for fan meetings.
Live in a villa at home and live in a villa when you go out.
Shen Mengchen previously recorded a dancing video, in which 4 workers cleaned together, and the villa was inquired by netizens for 40,000 yuan a night.
With yan rich and successful career, now she uses her own efforts to prove that she does not have to borrow others to ascend to the throne, only needs a perfect wedding to give love as an explanation.
A woman's career and ability are always the basis for happiness, and there are many things that change, but bank deposits will not change.
The self-confidence that career brings to women can give a woman the heart to deal with the trivialities of the family.
Love is the spice of life, and career is the guarantee of life.
If you stop moving forward just because you find love, you are doomed to wear the label of mismatch for the rest of your life.
And if you want to live in your own hands, you must pay enough efforts, high mountains and flowing water, do not accumulate steps, and there are no miles.
Author | Yu Bing graduated from Beijing Normal University majoring in finance, has been engaged in the financial industry, and then transferred to the media industry for 3 years, a domestic and foreign film and television analysis researcher, good at thinking about life from watching dramas, as well as exploring realistic emotional values from the current situation of women's existence at home and abroad, deeply inspiring many women to marry and self-improvement.