Are you in high standing at home?
A netizen carefully dressed up to pick up her uncle at the kindergarten, and the conscientious and responsible doorman saw that she was very strange, so he greeted her and asked the child who picked you up today? The doorman thought in his heart that it should be his mother, who was busy at work and did not often come to pick up the children, right?
Who knew the child's answer surprised him, the child said that this is his niece, usually because he is much older than himself, basically do not call it so.
Netizens said that there was another time when she also came to pick him up, the teacher asked him, but he replied that he did not know the niece, and finally the teacher and his mother confirmed it clearly after the video, which agreed to let him follow the niece home.
Have you ever experienced an awkward moment when your age doesn't match your generation? Especially now that the three-child policy has been opened, sometimes we see news that mothers and daughters are pregnant at the same time. This will also cause the emergence of embarrassing age differences,
Our generational system has existed for thousands of years and has affected countless people. There is often an invisible force between relatives that brings them together and fully demonstrates the spirit of solidarity and fraternity.
In particular, families with very few surnames have always paid great attention to generational division, and their names will also reflect generational division. In addition to the last name, the second word in their name knows what kind of generation they are in, and if the generation is very low, they will also make jokes about the grandfather or grandmother of a one-year-old child.
Times are evolving, and most young people don't know what generations mean. In order to avoid the embarrassment of generational inconsistency with age, they often call each other by age and will not make too strict generational comparisons.
How to deal with the situation of generational differences
In fact, the best way to deal with such a situation as a generation difference is not to overcorrect and accept a reasonable generation difference. If you feel embarrassed because of the difference in generations, let you take the children who are older than you and are younger than you, and cower in front of their friends, this is the psychological burden they carry too much.
Do not have to take the generation difference as a difficult thing to say, to correct their own mentality, do not need to be in front of the public, to call the actual generation of children younger than their own age, if you participate in a series of important occasions such as family gatherings, you can generously call the actual generation of children younger than your age, let the family members know that you are a person who knows the general understanding of etiquette, in short, in daily life, if you encounter a situation of generation difference, as long as you keep your heart calm, do not be overly anxious, generously shout out each other's titles, There is no need for overcorrection.
There is a reason for the generational difference
There are many reasons for the difference between generations, in our country, we attach great importance to generational division, related to the history of civilization in our country, respect and inferiority are orderly, and there are points for the elder and the young! With the country's full opening up of the three-child policy, there are many couples who have children in old age. There is a lot of news that mothers are pregnant with their daughters, and when a daughter's child is born, she calls her mother's son an uncle, which is the reason for the generational difference.
The relationship between the brother-in-law and the niece may also come from this way
The niece also privately asked the brother-in-law why he did not recognize her as his niece in front of the teacher, and the brother-in-law said that his generation was higher, but he was younger than the niece. None of his classmates had such a high score, and he was afraid that the teachers and classmates would laugh at him after hearing it.
With the continuous development and progress of the times, perhaps the concept of generational division has gradually faded, so has everyone had the embarrassing experience of generational differences? How do you alleviate your psychological state in the face of generational differences?