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People who are in love often have a special ability, that is, they are very good at finding clues that they like themselves in the behavior of the other party, and often ignore the fact that they do not like themselves.
As long as he has a little bit of good for himself, he will forget all the previous indifference to you, and seize that little bit of goodness to magnify into love. In fact, many details can see his true intentions at a glance, but they will only grasp the side that is beneficial to himself.
Very affectionately like each other, very eager to get the same response from the other party, unwilling to accept these things that are not loved, this is indeed everyone's instinct, but sometimes too self-indulgent, in the end can only hurt yourself.
In fact, many times whether a person likes you, the answer is very obvious, in the face of other people's love, we can always maintain the most sober state, can be to the point to make comments, but when it is their turn, the answer is already obvious, but will still find the truth that he likes himself.
He sent a song you like may be a hint, one day you sent him a message from the past, he will be very happy in his heart in seconds, think this is a sign of liking, it is very likely that he just likes the song very much, it is possible that he is just playing with the mobile phone, very casually replied to you, you think he moved his heart to you.
What you know is that if a person really likes you, she will definitely have some positive responses, even if she is a reserved girl, she will express her liking for you in her own way, not without warning.
When a girl is loved, even if he doesn't like the boy, he will bloom a bud in his heart, and they will often have some scruples, unwilling to say their words directly, and always feel that it is too desperate.
In fact, rejection in the adult world often does not need to be very straightforward, and there are already clear answers to some behaviors.
Reply to your messages, always cold, or simply not back
Nowadays, most people communicate and communicate with each other on social software, in this era when mobile phones are not out of hand, if a person wants to reply to your message has already returned, all of a person's attitude towards you is hidden in the way of replying to your message.
In the face of people who have feelings, the message is returned in seconds, the number of words in the reply is reluctant to be perfunctory, and it will not reply to you in three words and two words, let alone not reply.
The moment I receive your message, I will happily circle around the other end of the screen. When replying to your message, you will be careful with words, grasp the words of each sentence, just like completing a very grand thing, and will be extra careful. Afraid that the message he replies to will not attract your attention and interrupt the chat, every message you send will be replied to seriously, and you are reluctant to leave a sentence.
They all say that if you like a person, you are taking a bath, and you will wipe your hands to reply to his messages. The degree of attention that we all know in our hearts, what kind of feelings a person feels about you in his heart, from the speed of his response to your message, the tone of voice can be completely seen.
People who don't like you, he always replies to your messages with two words, and your long talk may be exchanged for his uh oh good. Such perfunctory and cold is actually a full screen of rejection.
Stop making excuses for him, and don't look for evidence that he likes you from one or two seconds back messages. Her refusal was already evident.
Never agree to meet, try to refuse your offer
Of course, chatting across the screen can indeed close the distance between two people and promote the integration of each other's emotions. But for a person who really likes it, this way of chatting is really not fun at all, far less than sitting face to face and chatting, and it makes people feel kind and warm.
Two people face each other, you can see his eyebrows dancing when he tells an excited thing, you can see through what his mood is today, and you can also comfort him in time when he is emotionally lonely.
No amount of sweet words on the screen is as good as a simple greeting when you meet. The person who really likes you, he will not be able to control the desire to see you, that deep lovesickness, only seeing you can be dissolved.
There are many interesting things in life, and we all want to experience it with the person we like for the first time. Newly released movies, newly opened dessert shops or two people walking on the street, and you will feel a great warmth in your heart.
Simonpova said: I long to see you, but please remember that I will not ask to see you, not because of pride, you know that I have no pride in front of you, but because it is meaningful for us to meet only when you also want to see me. "
If you like a person, you can't wait to see him, but only if two people want to see each other, such a meeting is meaningful. If the other person always tries to refuse your offer and never agrees to meet, it is enough to show that she does not like you at all.
Don't want to bother you, always keep your distance from you
In fact, when girls like a person, there will be many ways to hint at each other, and one of the ways that many girls often use is to take the initiative to seek help from boys, in order to pull in the distance between two people.
For example, let the boy help him move things or repair the computer, or offer to let the other party drive himself for a ride.
These small methods are very practical skills, in the process of asking for help, two people have more contact opportunities, more conducive to mutual understanding between each other, unconsciously feelings will be heated up.
No matter how strong the girl will have moments of need for help, she hopes to have a shoulder to lean on, this is for sure, depending on whether she will expose such a need in front of you, if she will not only not take the initiative to ask you for help, but also refuse the convenience you provide to her, then she is rejecting you.
Girlfriend once was pursued by a boy, the boy will take a long detour every day to pick her up and drop off her commute, go to her house very early in the morning to wait downstairs, buy her breakfast, girlfriend refused countless times, said that he felt too much trouble, the boy thought she was embarrassed, still insisted on this, but the girlfriend actually did not feel for him, so he did not want to trouble him.
If a girl is never willing to bother you, will refuse your help, always keep a distance from you, calculate with you very clearly in the process of getting along, and is not willing to take advantage of you, it means that she has no feelings for you.
Many people will be more stubborn when pursuing love, always feel that as long as he does not explicitly reject himself, it means that there is still a chance, but in fact, many times the rejection often does not need to be directly expressed in words, and she has already explained her attitude to you in her behavior.
She refuses in a euphemistic way, in fact, to avoid embarrassment, but if you pretend not to understand her refusal and still struggle to please, then it is a bit uninteresting.
The courageous pursuit of love is worth encouraging, but fun is something we should all do.
Know how to close when you see good, know how to stop loss in time is very critical, do not always get close to each other, but also make the other party feel very bored.