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The fate of man is not dependent on the outside world, but follows his own magnetic field and constantly changes.
American psychology professor David Hawkins said: "A person with positive energy, his magnetic field will drive everything to become orderly and beautiful."
And when a person's heart is full of negative energy, it will not only hurt themselves, but also make the surrounding magnetic field disordered and bad. ”
If you want to be in the company of high people, you must constantly improve your own realm, and if you dream of walking with the wise, you must have the same frequency thinking as the wise.
In this way, constantly improve yourself and strengthen yourself, rather than blindly clinging to the social circle that is snubbed.
People have magnetic fields
Xun Zi said: "In the midst of the pungent and numb, it is not straight; the white sand is in nirvana, and it is black." ”
Meaning: Whoever you are with, you will become someone.
In other words, who you are, who you will attract, think, believe, and meet.
Because there is a magnetic field between people.
Anyone who has watched the French TV series "Untouchable" will be touched by the friendship between the two men in the play.
One is Philip, a white billionaire, who is paralyzed in bed due to a parachuting accident.
One is Dreys, a black boy who has just been released from prison and can observe the color.
Philip wanted to recruit a full-time escort, and due to the high salary, there were many applicants, but none of them were satisfactory to him, until The appearance of Dreys.
So Dres was responsible for taking care of all his food and living, and the two began to communicate inseparably.
On the surface, there is not a single resemblance between Philip and Dreys, and both their life backgrounds and status are basically two completely opposite extremes.
But even so, the two men developed an unstable but rising friendship.
Because there are many things in their bones: sincerity, honesty, humor.
As a result, the magnetic field emitted by themselves constantly attracts each other, keeping each other in step and staying with each other for a long time.
In life, some people see the same thing, and some people don't speculate, which is not related to the external intellectual status AND IQ, but is determined by the inner aura.
When you want something, the magnetic field in your body gives the universe an order, and then the universe works together with you, so at the right time, it is indeed lucky to appear.
Just like the black guy and the white rich man in the play, they are destined to be the people the other is most looking forward to, and then they meet at that moment.
This is not a fantasy, just so-called: the mind and the mind will have an echo.
The love and blessings we receive are all recycling of the demagnetic field emitted to ourselves.
Psychologists once did an experiment:
In two mirror-filled rooms, they placed two orangutans with opposite personalities.
The optimistic, lively orangutan, seeing the "companions" in the mirror are warm and friendly, quickly become a piece of fun.
And the pessimistic, shrugged orangutan entered the room and saw the same kind of people who shrugged their faces and shook their heads and lamented, so it was even more depressed.
The same is true of human beings.
When you are happy, there is laughter all around you, and when you are angry, there is also a sigh around you.
As the law of universal gravitation says: there will be a magnetic field between any object, and although the magnetic field cannot be seen or touched, it has a subtle effect on itself and its surroundings.
The magnetic field of man ends up manifesting itself in terms of your abilities, emotions, and attitudes.
The best magnetic field is the power of thinking
Zeng Guofan said: "The success or failure of a lifetime is related to whether a friend is virtuous or not. ”
This is about the impact of interpersonal interactions on life.
In fact, the world you see in your eyes is attracted by the world of your thoughts, and your ability determines who you will meet, and your thinking ability determines who you will please.
Napoleon Hill, the world-famous inspirational success guru, needed to hire a secretary one year and advertised in several newspapers and periodicals.
As a result, a large number of letters poured in.
But almost all the letters are the same: "I am so-and-so years old, graduated from so-and-so school, and if I can be honored to be selected by you, I will work hard." ”
Napoleon was disappointed by this, and was about to give up when a letter ignited his new hopes, believing that the secretary was none other than the owner of the letter.
The letter reads:
"Honorable: Your ads are bound to attract hundreds or even thousands of cover letters, and I'm sure you're so busy at work that you don't have enough time to read them carefully."
So, you just have to dial this phone with a gentle touch and I'd be happy to come over and help you organize your correspondence to save you valuable time.
You must not doubt the quality of my work, because I have fifteen years of experience as a secretary. ”
Later, Napoleon mentioned this matter and said: "Know how to think differently, can really stand in the position of others to see the problem, consider the problem, and can effectively help others to solve the problem, the world is yours." ”
The strong praise each other, and to become a real strong person, we must have a strong thinking and a magnetic field that attracts the strong.
Because no matter what you're doing, the magnetic field follows you, and your magnetic field attracts people and things with the same magnetic field.
Therefore, the use of empathy is not only a person's cognitive attitude, but also the most powerful means for a person to control the overall situation and achieve the goal.
Many times, what limits your development is not necessarily your talent and INTELLIGENCE, but your thinking ability, whether you can let others find where you shine, you need to plan internally and have an external aura.
The best magnetic field is generated by the brewing of your thinking.
The real law of attraction is effort
Lu Yao wrote in "The Ordinary World":
"When a person's mind is not strong enough to fully grasp himself, he needs to rely on another person who is stronger than himself mentally.
Maybe one day, students will become their own teachers, but at every stage of the growth process, people need to seek guidance that is more intelligent than their own knowledge at that time. ”
Yes, on the road of life, everyone needs the guidance of high people and the promotion of noble people, but they cannot be sought.
There is a saying that opportunities always favor those who are prepared, and if you want to make a noble person appreciate a point, you must work hard.
I was inspired to see such a story on the Internet.
There was a rural teacher who was very good at writing, and one of his classmates who worked in county-level offices said that the unit lacked people who wrote official documents and wanted him to help.
When I arrived at the new unit, I was very busy and tired, often working overtime until late at night, and there were almost no holidays.
However, with the help of his classmates and his own unremitting efforts, his writing level accelerated.
Soon, the municipal leaders of the same department discovered his talents again.
At an event, his outstanding performance finally decided to ask the municipal department to want him, and now he has a home in the city, and he is very good at work.
He said that being able to meet noble people is the result of his own efforts.
If he hadn't written a lot of prose novels in school and had a good relationship with his classmates, he wouldn't have worked in the government;
If you don't work overtime for a long time and work hard, you won't be liked by the leader, and the nobles are attracted by themselves.
Deeply.
When people live, they all hope to meet people who affirm themselves, boost themselves at critical times, and give themselves strength, but there are very few such people.
The reason is that because we ourselves are not strong enough to let others see where they shine, there is no dazzling, it is not as good as your people can not find it, and it is more disdainful to associate with you than yours.
So, you have to bloom and the breeze comes. Only if you are dressed in fresh clothes and angry horses, will someone add icing on the cake.
Some time ago, a photo of Cao Dewang at the annual meeting of entrepreneur development attracted special attention from everyone.
At the welcome dinner, many people lined up to toast to Cao Dewang and beg him, but they were stopped by the staff.
When everyone is busy socializing and exchanging contact information, only Cao Dewang enjoys the food.
Is it that Cao Zong does not need to make circles?
Of course not, Cao Zong shows his difference, because his glass industry has accounted for 70% of the world's share, and there are only a few people who can attract him, and the number of people who are attracted to him is innumerable.
The so-called network is actually a magnetic field exchange of equal strength, you have the ability to pave the way for others, others will shield you from the wind and rain.
Therefore, the noble attracts the noble, the magnetic field is the attraction, and the strong self is always the most important.
The magnetic field on a person determines his life
"If you love, life is lovely everywhere; if you hate, life is hateful everywhere; if you are grateful, you can be grateful everywhere; if you grow, everything can grow."
When a person is limited by the heart, his eyes must be confused; when a person's emotions are depressed, the surrounding area will also decay.
On the contrary, people with positive hearts encounter courage to move forward; people with light in their hearts encounter passion.
When you are in a positive magnetic field, all the good will come unexpectedly.
As we all know, Lincoln is one of the most prestigious U.S. presidents.
He grew up poor, and his father was an illiterate carpenter.
He could not afford to go to school, and when he was herding cattle, chopping firewood, and digging the ground, he always had a book in his clothes and read it whenever he had time.
When he grew up, no matter how hard the work was, he still carried books with him and turned them over when he had time. He has successively nibbled on historical and cultural books such as "American History" and become a learned person.
At the age of 29, Lincoln began to enter politics and was elected to Congress.
In order to grasp the will of the people and enrich his knowledge, Lincoln asked farmers, lawyers, businessmen and other people from all walks of life for advice. He once admitted to the public that his education was extremely incomplete, and everyone was my teacher.
It is with this grounded and humble spirit of accumulation that everyone who knows him respects and is impressed.
In the end, Lincoln deservedly ascended to the top of the political arena.
Throughout Lincoln's life, he was both modest and hardworking, great and low-key, and the magnetic field thus emitted attracted the approval and support of the vast majority of the American people.
What kind of person you want to meet, you must first become what kind of person; if you want to attract what kind of life, you must first have what kind of mentality.
People's life is always full of hope, hoping to be helped by noble people, meeting high people to guide the way, so that unforgettable people remember, in fact, the desire to determine the value of life is to meet the most outstanding and favorite self at some point in the future.
Because with the best self, you will meet the best life unexpectedly.
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