As one of the four ancient civilizations, China has an incomparably deep historical background and a long-standing cultural context. And because Chinese is always implicit, especially in ancient times,
Sincere feelings always need to be cherished and difficult to reveal
Any emotional words are often sent in poetry, and the wind is sent to the Iraqi people. We are familiar with Yuan Shu's deep affection of "once the sea was shipwrecked as water, except for Wushan mountain is not a cloud", we sighed at the loneliness of Su Shi's "thousands of miles of lonely graves, nowhere to say desolate", and the sentimentality and loneliness between the lines of this word made people's hearts shake.
How deep and passionate feelings do it take to keep people thinking about it? How do you get along with each other to make people think back on this life? This is a question that cannot be given a clear answer.
After all, emotional things cannot be characterized and measured by data
。 But because of this, it makes people yearn for infinity, want to experience how wonderful it is to like and miss a person, and also full of longing for the scene of being cherished and loved by one person.
Because of this, many people secretly depict in their hearts the appearance of future companions when their teenage love sinuses are first opened. This is true of all people, ancient and modern.
The Republic of China, on the other hand, is undoubtedly the junction of ancient and modern China, which is both conservative and implicit in ancient times, as well as modern enthusiasm and romance.
Everyone will fantasize about the future partner in their youth, and when they meet their hearts in their youth, they will boldly confess and actively pursue, use love letter love poems to vent the emotions that surge in their hearts, and the unparalleled romance and warm feelings make people shocked. And Zhao Yidi and Zhang Xueliang are such a couple who have stayed together for decades in the chaotic world.
First, the love sinus of the girlhood has just opened
Zhao Yidi, also known as Miss Zhao Si, has published many works, and is a talented woman who is gentle and knowledgeable.
At the same time, she is also famous for being with Zhang Xueliang for decades in the chaotic world
It can be said that she is a legendary woman in modern Chinese history. Zhao Yidi was born in a family with a good environment, and the wealth of her family made Zhao Yidi not worry about survival problems even though she was in a chaotic world, and the most important thing was just to study and find a close partner.
The clever woman struggled with her studies, and the latter problem was solved at a ball in 1927. It was a spring, and Miss Zhao Si and Zhang Xueliang met at the ball. Zhang Xueliang is a young marshal in the northeast, and he is a talent, which is heartwarming. As the daughter of the vice minister of the Ministry of Communications, Miss Zhao Si is comparable to Zhang Xueliang's family lineage, and her style is elegant, which naturally arouses Zhang Xueliang's conscience.
The two fell in love with each other at first sight
, falling into love at a rapid pace, arousing people's envy.
However, when Miss Zhao Si told her father the news, she was strongly opposed by her father. Seeing that countless words of exhortation did not work, his father even locked Miss Zhao Si at home and forcibly severed the connection between Miss Zhao Si and Zhang Xueliang. Originally
Zhang Xueliang already had his wife Yu Fengzhi
If Miss Zhao Si insisted on being with Zhang Xueliang, she was a concubine. Of course, this is absolutely impossible in the eyes of a father, not only wronged his daughter, but also made himself faceless.
Second, the chaotic Republic of China is obsessed with each other
In the face of her resolute father, Miss Zhao Si was very aggrieved, but her strong love for Zhang Xueliang gave her courage.
She chose to elope with Zhang Xueliang.
After arriving in the northeast, Miss Zhao Si also failed to get Zhang Xueliang's external recognition, and even for some political reasons, the two still needed to maintain a certain distance.
Miss Zhao Si chose to become Zhang Xueliang's secretary
, accompany him to deal with various affairs. Until the "Xi'an Incident", Zhang Xueliang was imprisoned, and Miss Zhao Si always accompanied him.
In 1940, Zhang Xueliang's wife Yu Fengzhi went to the United States for treatment because of breast cancer, and the task of taking care of Zhang Xueliang completely fell to Miss Zhao Si, who was meticulous in terms of diet and living.
Even in order to better take care of Zhang Xueliang, she endured the pain of fostering her ten-year-old son Zhang Lulin in the United States
。 Later, because of the war, Zhang Xueliang and Miss Zhao Si were imprisoned in many places by Chiang Kai-shek in rotation, displaced and desolate, but the two relied on each other and always supported each other.
In the years of confinement in Taiwan, Miss Zhao Si took care of Zhang Xueliang, accompanied him to fish and play chess, and the two of them snuggled up to each other through countless painful and difficult times, but until this time, Miss Zhao Si was not Zhang Xueliang's serious wife, because he and Yu Fengzhi had never divorced. Finally, under the pressure of Chiang Kai-shek, Zhang Xueliang sent a divorce letter to Yu Fengzhi, and Yu Fengzhi agreed, and the relationship between the two husband and wife ended.
Miss Zhao Si finally became Zhang Xueliang's wife as she wished.
By this time, she was 52 years old.
Third, at the time of death, I still miss it
With the passage of time, Zhang Xueliang and Miss Zhao Si have been together for a long time, but their feelings have lasted for a long time.
Miss Zhao Si still loves Zhang Xueliang deeply and always does his own thing, even the old Long Zhong is still like this. When Zhang Xueliang was 89 years old, because of the efforts of all walks of life, Zhang Xueliang finally regained his freedom. He took Miss Zhao Si to live in Taiwan, continued the deep feelings of the two, still played chess and chatted every day, and felt the passage of time. Five years later, the two traveled together to Hawaii to enjoy their old age.
In 2000, the 88-year-old Miss Zhao Si was already in a state of death, and no one thought that this woman who had taken care of Zhang Xueliang for a lifetime was actually walking in front of Zhang Xueliang, and Providence made her have to abandon her lover who had accompanied and cared for her all her life. But even at the time of her death, Miss Zhao Si was still thinking of Zhang Xueliang. Physical reasons made it difficult for her to easily say a complete sentence, but she still asked her son to come to her side and said in a serious tone:
Take care of your father for me
。 ”
This was miss Zhao Si's last words to the world, but she still did not leave Zhang Xueliang.
This legendary woman who accompanied Zhang Xueliang for half of her life was destroyed and never found again. This made Zhang Xueliang's eyes red, and he felt deeply guilty, not only for Miss Zhao Si, but also for his original wife Yu Fengzhi, these two women were sincere to him, but he had failed to live up to two pure feelings. And now miss Zhao Si's departure has made him unable to make any compensation anymore, and his heart is full of guilt.
epilogue:
Ask the world, what is love, Orthodox people live and die? Thousands of people have thousands of different answers to this question. And Miss Zhao Si's answer has been embodied in a lifetime. The object of her young admiration was the lover she had spent half her life with, and later became her beloved husband. She has received the true love she has longed for since childhood, and she may feel that her life has been very happy, even after experiencing countless winds, frosts, snow and rain.
Her warm feelings are dependent, and her unparalleled romance is remembered by the world.
The legend of Miss Zhao Si will continue to be passed down.
Since ancient times, good feelings have always been praised. But in this day and age, fewer and fewer people talk about love. The pressure of survival makes people think about love, and the choice between bread and love is becoming more and more entangled. You can't survive without bread, so what love is there to talk about? This is what many people think today. But everyone should know that bread is the food of the body, and the feelings are the food of the spirit.
Don't squander love as fast food in fast-moving times.
Sincere feelings always need to be nourished by the heart.
Reference: "Twilight Autumn Solo Tour of Qujiang"