Often some girls use money to test their boyfriends, "Do you love me?" If you love me, buy me a bag, buy me a watch..." And so on. In fact, from ancient times to the present, the "test" of women to men has never stopped, not only the common people, but also the royal family. For example, during the Southern and Northern Dynasties, Empress Yuan used money to test her husband Emperor Wen of Song.
So what's the result?
Empress Yuan was born into a family of eunuchs, but because her mother was a concubine, she was not valued by her family from an early age, and did not meet her father for the first time until she was six years old.
Yuan Qifei grew up to be beautiful from an early age, and when she grew up, she became the wife of Liu Yilong, the third son of Emperor Wu of Song, who was still a county king at that time, and she became a princess.
Fate was good for Liu Yilong. Emperor Wu of Song's eldest son, the crown prince Liu Yifu, was ousted by his courtiers because of his incompetence and incompetence, and was ousted by his courtiers after Emperor Wu of Song's death, who had not been emperor for a few days. It is reasonable that the second son Liu Yizhen ascended the throne, but he suffered before ascending the throne, and finally the emperor's throne could only fall into the hands of Liu Yilong, who was the lowest in the ranking.
Liu Yilong, the emperor, suddenly came, but Yuan Qifei naturally became Empress Yuan. Liu Yilong had always had the habit of thrifting because of some constraints in his previous life, and after becoming emperor, his habit of slamming doors remained unchanged. Although the Yuan family was a family of eunuchs, their lives were not rich, and they always needed the relief of Yuan Qifei, who was the empress, so Yuan Qifei always asked Liu Yilong for money.
Although Liu Yilong slammed the door, he was good to Yuan Qifei, and would give her thirty or fifty thousand dollars every time, or give thirty or fifty pieces of cloth. Yuan Qifei was also very satisfied and felt that Liu Yilong was very good to her.
Statue of Liu Yilong, Emperor Wen of Song
However, ancient emperors had three palaces and six courtyards, and Liu Yilong was no exception, he had a favorite concubine, Pan Shufei, who often declared that Liu Yilong was responsive to her needs.
Princess Pan Shufei was so favored, Empress Yuan was a little jealous. But unlike the general palace fight drama, she did not frame Pan Shufei, but wanted to test who Liu Yilong was more generous to her and Pan Shufei, and who she loved more.
She sent someone to ask Liu Yilong for 300,000 yuan under the guise of Pan Shufei. Sure enough, Liu Yilong really responded to Pan Shufei's needs, and approved the money without thinking about it. Yuan Qifei, who received the approval, was shy and angry, and when she usually asked Liu Yilong for money, Liu Yilong only gave up to thirty or fifty thousand yuan each time, sometimes did not give money only to cloth, and even sometimes did not give anything, but Pan Shufei had such a large amount of 300,000 yuan, Liu Yilong did not blink an eye and approved it.
The more Empress Yuan thought about it, the more angry she became, and the more she thought about it, the more she felt that she had no face. Later, she began to hide from anyone, especially Emperor Wen of Song. When Emperor Wen of Song learned of this, he also felt sorry for Empress Yuan, and always looked for opportunities to come to Empress Yuan's palace to find her and wanted to reconcile with her, but she said that she was sick and closed the door.
To say that Emperor Wen of Song was really good to Empress Yuan, in order to let Empress Yuan untie the knot, he even sent Princess Pan Shufei's son to apologize, but Empress Yuan still refused to meet. Later, Empress Yuan became depressed and ended up depressed. After her death, Emperor Wen of Song, Liu Yilong, in order to remember her, specially gave her the title of Empress Yuan.
Looking at the history of Emperor Wen of Song and Empress Yuan, did Emperor Wen of Song really have no love for Empress Yuan, which is definitely not.
Emperor Wen of Song began to become emperor, began the road of "relief" to the Yuan family, Empress Yuan asked him for money for ten years, although he "cut the door", but also kept giving, this is not because of love; as an empress, jealous of the harem concubines, but also with a ruse to test the emperor, Song Wendi knew, did not blame her, but also repeatedly took the initiative to find her to explain, this is not love; she said to Emperor Song Wendi that she was sick and depressed, Emperor Song Wen still missed her after her death, changed her name, this is not love.
Unfortunately, Empress Yuan Qifei did not see this, as an empress, she was not tolerant and generous, but to ordinary women in general "doing", jealous and careful, using money to test Emperor Wen of Song, the test results made her embarrassed, just because she felt that the love of 300,000 was much greater than the love of three or five, but the feelings could not be measured in money. If you don't die, you won't die.
Not only Emperor Wen of Song and Empress Yuan, but also in real life, we should also take this as a warning not to easily test your partner, because from the moment of temptation, it proves that you have lost.