China's old home rules

For Chinese, where there is a home, there are house rules.

But nowadays, there are fewer and fewer people who understand. Those family rules that have been handed down are both upbringing and etiquette, and have a good guiding effect on people's words and deeds.

Every subtle body language reveals your information to those around you:

Tutoring, family style, personality, preferences, character.

House rules are the priceless treasure of a family. So, these rules must not be forgotten!

1. Do not take the sleeve pipe;

2. No trouser legs are allowed;

3. Do not shake your legs;

4. No squinting eyes;

5. Do not cross your legs;

6. Do not stir dishes;

7. No chopsticks are allowed to insert the bowl;

8. No tooth flowers are allowed;

9, do not allow the bar to sniff;

10. Do not speak nonsense;

11. It is forbidden to shout in public;

12. Do not put on the pot;

13. Do not eat and bite chopsticks;

14, sandwich vegetables but not the middle line of the plate;

15. Do not allow the spout of the pot to be pointed at people;

16. Do not knock on the bowl with chopsticks and spoons;

17. It is forbidden to pour water or wine with the opposite hand;

18, eating can not purr out loud;

19. Do not press people's shoulders;

20, pour tea can not be poured full;

21. Do not call the elders you;

22. It is forbidden to speak without calling honorific titles or names;

23, eat vegetables are not allowed to be picked randomly on the plate, can only clip the eyes in front of you;

24. Greet the elders before eating, and the elders can only eat when they sit down and say that they can eat;

25. When being a guest, the host can move the chopsticks to move the guests;

26, guests can not sit in other people's beds;

27. Guests are not allowed to enter the room where no one is allowed;

28, stand not leaning on the door, the speech is not high;

29, go home to greet the elders;

30, go out to say a word.

(Source: public account "Poetry World")

People say, "The state has the law of the land, and the family has the family rules." ”

The word house rule seems to have faded out of our generation.

Actually, no, we now call these "etiquette."

Etiquette when being a guest, etiquette in treating others...

So in fact, in any era, the rules are there and we need them to exist.

A person with good rules will make others feel respected.

Whether it is the "old rule" or the "new etiquette", we should pass it on.

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/ Traditional culture