When do you know when you see each other? At this time, this night is embarrassing. - Li Bai
When it comes to love, even Li Bai, who is known for his freedom, is not spared. In the eyes of many people, marriage and love are two different things, love is heaven, and marriage is the grave, and many people want to escape from this "grave" in middle age.
This kind of thing cannot be avoided even by celebrities and celebrities after them. In the past hundred years, if you talk about Chiang Kai-shek, too many people will think of Chiang Kai-shek.
His son Chiang Ching-kuo was a lover, first married a foreign daughter-in-law in that relatively conservative era, and then there was a mistress, and after a lifetime, all three mixed-race sons born to the original match died early, and only one illegitimate son of the descendants was alive, what was his life like?
From "angry youth" to exile in the Soviet Union
Although the positions are different, it must be admitted that Mr. Jiang is also a big man, what does his son look like? Chiang Ching-kuo is Mr. Jiang's eldest son, but his temperament is completely different from his father's, and if you have to find a similar person, it is probably the famous Lu Xun. Because Chiang Ching-kuo is also an "angry youth", but his fame is not as great as Lu Xun's.
In the early years, Chiang Ching-kuo let Mr. Jiang break his heart. When I was in school, because I participated in a lot of turmoil, even if I had Mr. Jiang's face, the school chose to expel him.
Later, he came to Peiping to study Russian, only to be arrested for participating in the anti-warlord march, and of course, with mr. Jiang's efforts, he was released. Mr. Jiang saw that this was not the case, so he sent him to the Soviet Union with a fierce heart.
When he first came to the Soviet Union, Chiang Ching-kuo's life was still relatively moist, but the good times were not long, because Mr. Chiang launched a reactionary action at home, and Chiang Ching-kuo, who was in the Soviet Union, was also affected, only 17 years old, and was sent to Siberia in the ice and snow to serve as a soldier. In other words, exiled.
Love in the snow and ice
As the saying goes, "Sai weng lost his horse and knew that it was not a blessing.". The words of the ancients are naturally reasonable, and the ice and snow of Siberia unexpectedly brought a beautiful love to Chiang Ching-kuo.
When he was a soldier, he came to work in the mountains, where he met a Russian girl named Finna Ibativa Vahareva, her real name is a bit tongue-twisting, fortunately she has a Chinese name, called Jiang Fangliang.
Jiang Fangliang had a similar experience and life to Chiang Ching-kuo, she was originally an aristocratic lady in Tsarist Russia, born into a rich family, her parents were aristocrats, and it was precisely because of her identity that she was sent to a mountain labor camp.
Jiang Fangliang was in a low mood, Jiang Jingguo's mentality was not bad, but it was not very good, and the two down-and-out giants met after each other and soon fell in love. They married in the second year of their acquaintance, and in December of the same year their first son was born.
In 1936, Stalin finally agreed to Chiang Ching-kuo's request to return to China, and he returned to China with his wife, Finna, who had changed her name to Chiang Fangliang.
In Hangzhou, Mr. and Mrs. Jiang made up a wedding for them, after all, after Mr. Jiang, the marriage cannot be sloppy. By this year, Chiang Ching-kuo had been away from China for 12 years.
However, before the honeymoon, the War of Resistance Against Japan began.
Absurd derailment, the third son died early
After all, he is Mr. Jiang's son, and he also has 12 years of "further study" experience abroad, during the War of Resistance Against Japanese Aggression, Chiang Ching-kuo held an important position in Ganzhou, Jiangxi Province, supervising the local anti-Japanese work. During his work, he recruited a secretary named Zhang Yaruo, and it wasn't long before the two were secretly together.
In the third year of working in Jiangxi, Zhang Yaruo became pregnant, and in the first month of the second year, a pair of twins were born, but the Jiang family did not recognize the two children, and they had to follow their mother's surname Zhang, named Zhang Xiaoyan and Zhang Xiaoci respectively.
However, after giving birth to two children, Zhang Yaruo died. The death is very strange, consider the attitude of the Jiang family at that time, you can guess one or two. Zhang Yaruo died, and Chiang Ching-kuo's life returned to its original state.
In 1978, Chiang Ching-kuo became the leader of the Taiwan region, and Chiang Fang-leung naturally became the "First Lady" of Taiwan. Although her status is high, Jiang Fangliang rarely appears in public, although there are servants in the family, she will also personally take care of the housework, like a housewife.
Chiang Ching-kuo died in 1988. Within eight years of Chiang Ching-kuo's death, chiang ching-kuo and three sons born to Chiang Fang-liang died of illness. Later, the maid "Sister Ah Bao", who loved the sisters, also returned to Taiwan, and the two had been friends for more than fifty years, and all this caused a great blow to Jiang Fangliang.
Speaking of Zhang Yaruo and Chiang Ching-kuo's two sons.
In 1996, Zhang Xiaoci died of illness in Taipei, and at this point, only Zhang Xiaoyan was left in the third generation of the Chiang family.
In 2000, Zhang Xiaoyan brought his wife and children and Zhang Xiaoci's widow to Xikou to worship his ancestors and return to the sect.
In 2002, the Jiang family's attitude towards Zhang Xiaoyan changed greatly, when Zhang Xiaoyan was more than a year old, and on the day of the 32nd wedding anniversary, he went to get a new ID card, and the parent column read "Jiang Chingguo, Zhang Yaruo".
However, the Jiang family still did not recognize the existence of Zhang Xiaoyan, because Jiang Fangliang could never pass this pass. Finally, in 2004, Jiang Fangliang died at the age of 88, and Zhang Xiaoyan naturally became a member of the Jiang family, but still maintained the Zhang surname.
brief summary:
In fact, Chiang Ching-kuo's life was very contradictory. He was an advanced young man, an "angry youth" of the old era, and he was not accustomed to everything in the old era, but in his heart, he still tacitly acquiesced that a man could have three wives and four concubines, otherwise he would not carry Jiang Fangliang, who came out of the ice and snow with him, and have a relationship with Zhang Yaruo.
Is there any love between him and Jiang Fangliang? Of course there is. At the lowest point of life, two young people who comfort each other rubbed the spark of love, and it was still a transnational love, and in that era, what a romantic thing!
But why Chiang Ching-kuo still cheated later, the reason for this, probably only he himself knows.
After learning the news of Zhang Yaruo's death, Jiang Chingguo wept bitterly and was heartbroken, he loved Zhang Yaruo. What is the "shelf life" of love? Is it that when love comes to marriage, this "shelf life" disappears?
Facts have proved that even if two people who love each other again, when two people change from lovers to husband and wife, when the two families become one, not to mention whether there is any contradiction, the dullness and habit of life will erase the passion of the year.
In the final analysis, love and marriage are completely different, love is naturally vigorous, and marriage is as plain as water. There are so many passionate years in a lifetime, and there are so many winds and snows.
Time will prove everything, whether a person is really in love or not, time can also prove it.