The three manifestations of the heart man, there is no doubt that he is "routine" you

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In the face of feelings, everyone hopes to get all sincerity, and all those who meet are good people.

It's just a pity that this year's affection can't be retained since ancient times, and only routines win the hearts of the people.

If you find that men have abnormal performances in the following three things, then there is no doubt that this is the trick man in the routine of you!

01

Monetarily

The two most important words in a relationship, one is love, the other is money.

Feelings without love are a hoax from the beginning; feelings that do not talk about money are equally untrustworthy.

A lot of scheming men, no matter how crazy they talk about it, say they want to give you a better future.

However, all ideas that do not talk about money are painting a big pie; all exchanges that do not spend money are in the white prostitute.

If a man is always very angry with you when it comes to money, and even spends your money often, then you have to be extra careful.

Because this man may just be playing a game called "love" without spending a penny.

He may not really be shy, he just won't spend a penny for you; he's not really overwhelmed, he's not willing to give anything for you.

Such a man is often full of rhetoric, but when it comes to talking about money, he either makes excuses or pretends to be pitiful, making you feel that if you are too calculating, it will appear very materialistic.

As everyone knows, this is just his routine, and it is your soft heart that is accurate.

Teacher Tu Lei said:

"Money is not the only test of true love, but it can measure the depth of affection between each other."

I strongly agree with that.

Men who are willing to spend money for you may not really love you; men who refuse to spend money for you must not love you.

Truly good feelings can not only talk about money, but also give sincerity.

02

Time

Whether a man is serious about a relationship, a very important criterion is how much time he is willing to spend in this relationship.

I very much agree with a sentence by the writer Suzen:

"The most extravagant person in the world is the one who is willing to spend time with you." Everyone's time is valuable, and to give it to you is equivalent to giving your own world to you. ”

Time is the most extravagant thing in the world, and where a person's time is, his heart is there.

Men who really love you, no matter how busy they are, are willing to take time to spend on you;

Men who just lie to you, even if they have more time, will not spend even one more second for you.

Men who want to trick you, although they pretend to be affectionate, always give you little time.

You message him and he never responds; he's always busy when you need him.

In fact, if anyone really takes care of everything, he just doesn't want to spend time with you.

No matter how legitimate the excuse is, it cannot hide the perfunctory truth.

You know, people who really love you, how willing to let you down, busy and idle also want you to love you, eager to be able to stick with you 24 hours a day.

Only people who routine you and don't love you will push around and disappear at any time, so that you can't feel at ease.

03

Details

There is a good saying:

What is really good for you is the details.

People will lie, oaths will be false, but the details will not.

Love is hidden in the details, and the same is true of not loving.

There is a very loving couple around, and their love is not the kind that shows people, but the sweetness written in the details.

Every time they meet, the man will take the things carried by the woman; after buying water and drinks, he will open them and hand them to her first; when it is cold, the man will bring an extra coat, because he knows that women love beauty and are afraid of the cold...

Every time he saw something delicious and fun, he would buy it and take it home to her. Although it is not a valuable thing, it will make her very happy every time.

As long as he had promised her something, even if it was small, he would not forget it.

Really do it: everything has a drop, and everything has an echo. These details of care are actually the best proof of love.

On the contrary, if a man says he loves you, but never pays attention to your mood, does not remember your preferences, and does not care about your thoughts, then believe me, he really does not love you.

Because you don't love, you don't have you in your eyes; because you don't love, you don't care about the details.

Companionship is better than words, and details are better than love words.

Love without details, the appearance is bright and beautiful, and the inside is also full of holes, and as soon as the wind blows, it will fall everywhere.

04

Zhang Ailing once said:

"Whether a man or a woman meets someone he thinks he likes, he will involuntarily give everything for that person, to be unconditionally good to her, and only want her to be happy and happy." 」

Love or not love, the heart is still a routine, in fact, with the heart to distinguish, you can see it clearly.

People who love you, talk to you and talk about money, are willing to spend time for you, love you all in the details;

People who want to routine you, only want to talk about love, not money, don't want to spend time for you, and never care about details.

Finally, I hope that the love in the world will be more sincere and less routine.

Since two people are in love, please treat with sincerity, love can not withstand suspicion, nor can it withstand routines, only by paying sincerity, can we reap long-term harvest.

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