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To be a man is to serve the old.
Among the Stars of Hong Kong and Taiwan, there is an old martial arts actor Wang Yu. In 1967, with a "One-Armed Knife", he attracted countless fans and demonstrated his super kung fu. The film brought in more than a million dollars in revenue. His company has gained a place in the show business world.
Since then, Wang Yu has been both a director and an actor, and has also co-starred in many movies with Jackie Chan. In the late 1990s, he joined Taiwan's business circle and made a lot of money.
The poet said: "Life must be full of joy, do not let the golden bottle empty to the moon." ”
Wang Yu, who wears a halo on his head, fell in love with several female celebrities one after another, and then broke up again. When the three daughters grew up, they went their separate ways, and the family gathered less and left more.
After he entered old age, he suffered two strokes, his money gradually ran out, and the family's house was sold.
A lot of people think that with money, there's everything. As everyone knows, the greatest success in life is the success of the family.
To be a person, you must have foresight, and when you are proud, you must arrange your future life. "Solo music is not as good as all music", happy families are the strongest backing for the elderly.
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A good family is more valuable than money.
Sukhomlinsky, a famous educational practitioner of the former Soviet Union, said: "The power to build and consolidate the family - is love, is the loyal and innocent love between father and mother, father and child, mother and child." ”
Love, including love and affection. Sincere love can make the family hug firmly like a pomegranate seed.
When you are young, you can buy a lot of feelings by spending money. Rich men don't have to worry about not having a girlfriend; women who are a little worse can make a lot of money.
Friendship is mostly based on money. How much you earn, your own value, determines the number of friends.
Relatives, it is inevitable that inflammation will be attached. As the saying goes, the rich have distant relatives in the mountains, and the poor have no one to ask in the downtown area.
When people reach a certain age, they know that money is the basis for being a person, but they can't buy the truth. There is no decent family, and the bleak ending of the evening scene is slowly exposed.
Only dear and dear ones will not abandon you when you are in pain.
Actor Wang Yu, in order to accompany his mother in Hong Kong, in 2013, he had plans to sell the mansion. When Wang Yu suffered a stroke, his daughters Wang Xinping and Wang Jialu often accompanied him.
Wang Yu, who failed in marriage, fortunately retained the "filial piety" and won back a round for life.
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Family success, everything succeeds.
"The Two of Us" wrote: "Our family is very simple; the three of us are very simple." We have no needs from the world, no quarrels with others, but only to get together, to stay together, and to do what we can. ”
A few simple words, portraying a small family very beautifully. To be able to get together, coarse tea and light rice is also happiness, drinking cold water is also honey.
Home and, karma.
Home is the harbor of the soul. A person who has experienced wind and rain outside, returning home, and resting well, can pick up the spirit and start a better tomorrow.
In poor families, children can rely on reading, win fame, and go to distant places to get rich; middle-aged people can earn money even if they sell coolies, seize the opportunity of development, and let people rise; the elderly sum up their own experience and be good counselors for the younger generation.
A chopstick, gently broken, a pair of chopsticks, firmly hugged into a ball. With the help of external forces, it will never be as solid as the power of the family. As the saying goes, "Tiger poison does not eat seeds." "No matter how vicious people are, they will also show a caring side in front of their families."
Wives and husbands have few misfortunes.
A virtuous wife is a strong backing for men to start a business and get rich. Men are responsible for making money, women are responsible for housework, green leaves with red flowers, horizontal and vertical are beautiful scenery.
Without worries, the family can go out and be full of confidence. Big deal, can't break into the hall of fame, just go home.
The son is filial to the father and the heart is wide.
When Emperor Shun was a child, he was hurt by the poverty of his family and his stepmother, but he did not care at all.
Once, Shun, under the arrangement of his parents, began to dig a well. As the well grew deeper, the stepmother poured dirt into it. Shun had expected it and dug a passage from the side to escape.
When his parents were eating at home, Shun patted the dirt on his body and sat calmly at the table, eating well as ever.
Later, Shun's virtue was favored by Emperor Yao and passed on to him. Since then, Shun's family has also been stained and become better, and the enmity has slowly been put down.
The filial piety of children to their parents is the kindest thing in the world, and it is also an important foundation for the elderly to spend their old age in peace. Perhaps, children can not accompany around every day, but they must be able to feel the "love and concern", and they can also get together happily and harmoniously during the New Year's Festival.
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Conclusion.
Successful families are inseparable from factors such as money, people, communication, direction, feelings, and family style. When there is a conflict in the family, it is necessary to distinguish between the more important and the lesser, and we cannot put money first.
In many families, brothers and sisters compete for their parents' property and turn against each other; parents spoil their children and raise losers; children treat their parents poorly and leave a bad reputation; husband and wife go their separate ways because they meet a third party. But all kinds of things should be reflected on and timely vigilance.
In the "Vegetable Root Tan", it is written: "The change of the flesh and bones of the father and brother should be calm and not intense. ”
When there are conflicts in the family, we must think of the feelings of flesh and blood, suppress grief and anger, quiet ourselves, avoid harsh words, and make things worse. Talk calmly, there is no unsolvable grudge in the world.
The philosopher Immanuel Kant said: "Family relations are based on marriage, and marriage is rooted in the natural complementarity or interconnection between the two sexes." ”
Whether it is marriage or family, it needs to be managed with care. What you want from the family, actively invest in what you want, invest more than get, the family will continue to go higher.
Understand that building a home, working hard, destroying a home, is easy, and it is easy to do and cherish.
May you and I, working hard to make money, sincerely take care of the family.
Author: Cloth coarse food.
Follow my words and go into your heart.
The illustrations in this article come from the Internet.