If Lu Xun is mentioned, I think everyone will be amazed by him, after all, this person is a famous literary artist in china's modern history, and he has left many classic works for us in later generations with his wisdom and thoughts. Of course, Lu Xun's greatest influence on society was reflected in the period of the War of Resistance Against Japan. In that war-torn era, he used his pen to awaken countless sleeping Chinese and inspire people spiritually. However, the theme of the story we want to tell today is not Lu Xun's literary style, nor his thoughts, but his emotional life.
Lu Xun has an original wife, named Juan, but Juan is not a beauty, on the contrary, she looks quite ugly, not only is she thin, her face is long, her forehead and cheekbones are a little prominent, her eyes are not god, and she always looks sick, so marriage is more difficult.
However, although Juan's appearance conditions are not good, her family conditions are very good, and she is kind and virtuous, and she is a good daughter-in-law. Therefore, if she is willing to marry, there are still many options. Therefore, at the age of 21, Juan, with the help of relatives, married Mr. Lu Xun, who was only 18 years old at the time and was still studying.
Juan was probably a typical daughter-in-law cultivated in the feudal society, who could cook, sew, illiterate, and docile, so when she did not pass the door, she made Lu Xun's mother like it very much. Therefore, in 1901, Lu Xun's mother did not have Lu Xun's consent, so she and Juan joined the eight characters and engaged them. However, at this critical moment, Lu Xun received a scholarship to study in Japan, so the wedding did not go on. Probably Zhu An was very satisfied with the Zhou family and also very satisfied with Lu Xun, so he waited for him for five years.
By 1906, when Lu Xun was still studying in Japan, Juan was already 28 years old and could not afford to wait, but Lu Xun had no intention of marrying her, which also made both families very anxious. In desperation, Lu Xun's mother began to use a trick of inferiority, falsely claiming that she was seriously ill and tricking Lu Xun back. Lu Xun was naturally very angry about this, but due to the imprisonment of filial piety, he could not disobey his mother's ideas, and finally obediently married Juan.
However, although the wedding was completed, the gap between the two people was too far away, so Lu Xun left Juan aside, let her stay alone in the empty room, and soon after the marriage, he continued to return to Japan to study. In this way, a woman successfully married the man she wanted to marry, but in the end she was like a bare stick for a lifetime, which was very sighing.
It is not difficult to see from this that in fact, in many cases, "the door is right" is a very correct statement. Of course, the "door to door" here does not necessarily refer to material life, but more to thought. If two people who are not from the same world do not even have a common language and common hobbies, how can they become loving couples?
Reference: "I am also a relic of Lu Xun, a biography of Juan"