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In 2015, a 13-year-old girl tasted for the first time the meal that her mother clipped, the lobster that her mother peeled...
She said happily: "It is really happy to have a mother, there is a lot of love, and there is so much happiness that I can't enjoy it." ”
She is the rural girl who participated in "Metamorphosis": Li Leyou.
Shortly after Li Leyou was born, her mother died of illness and her father was imprisoned, and she and her grandparents depended on each other for their lives.
Because of participating in "Metamorphosis", she met Mother Cui from Dalian, Liaoning Province, and also enjoyed her mother's warmth for the first time.
I thought that when the show was over, the two people would become passers-by in each other's lives.
However, the 30-day program has made them inseparable relatives and mothers and daughters who are not related by blood.
Now, five years later, what is their relationship? Is Li Leyou doing well?
Li Leyou is a Hani girl born in 2003 in Zongla Village, Honghe County, Yunnan Province.
Unlike most children, Li Leyou's childhood was shrouded in loneliness and longing.
When he was more than one year old, his mother died of a sudden illness.
Soon, Dad was sentenced to prison for something.
Mom and Dad were absent from her childhood together, and she had not enjoyed the warmth of her parents since childhood.
When she was very young, she always thought that her grandmother was her mother and her grandfather was her father.
As she grew older, she found that other children had parents in addition to their grandparents.
And she had never seen Mom and Dad.
She couldn't help but ask Grandma, do I have Mom and Dad?
It's okay not to ask, when asked, Grandma was even more distressed about Xiao Leyou.
Mom left early, Dad did not argue, she could not bear to let the child be sad again.
Grandma lied to her about:
Why not, you have mom and dad, they work outside to make money! Wait until you make money and buy you a lot of lollipops back!
Children always believe what adults say.
Li Leyou began to miss her parents and hoped that one day, they would come back to see her with her favorite lollipop.
Relying on these thoughts, she survived one lonely night after another, sleeping without her mother.
Because she misses too deeply, her mother often appears in her dreams, but every time she wants to hold her mother's hand, she either can't hold it or wakes up in a dream...
In the constant intersection of expectation and disappointment, she is six years old.
This year, her long-awaited dream shattered.
That day, she played with the children in the village and somehow quarreled.
One child scolded her for being a child without a mother and said her father was a bad person.
Li Leyou retorted: "No, my parents went out to work, they are coming back, and they have to buy me lollipops when they come back." ”
Before she could finish speaking, the children burst out laughing:
Lying, your mother died a long time ago, and your father is in jail. Otherwise, why not come back after all these years?
They are many mouths, and Li Leyou can't say anything about them.
Feeling isolated and deficient, she ran home crying to the laughter of the children, begging Grandma to let Her Mom and Dad come back to see her.
Grandma knew that she couldn't hide it, so she had to tell Li Leyou the truth.
Li Leyou's world collapsed, and her hopes were shattered.
Grandma reassures her:
Mom is no longer in this world, Mom went to heaven and became a star in the sky, and will always look at us in the sky.
But Grandma's words, Li Leyou did not believe. She couldn't believe her mother couldn't bear to leave her, and she fell asleep crying.
She dreamed again that her mother had returned and was gone.
She kept looking, under the bed, not in the box, not in the quilt, not in the bag, all searched, none.
At this time, Little Leyou did not know that what she had lost, Heaven would compensate her in another way.
In 2009, Li Leyou became a primary school student.
In order to provide for Xiao Leyou to go to school, his grandparents disregarded their elderly bodies and went out to work.
Li Leyou was the only one left in the family, living in a dilapidated house on the mountain.
At night in the mountains, it was exceptionally dark and the night was exceptionally quiet.
At night, Li Leyou did not dare to turn off the lights, she wanted to turn on all the lights to help herself emboldened.
Even so, she felt unsafe, so she tied a rope to the door and tied the other end to her wrist.
If someone pushed the door in the middle of the night, she knew right away.
It felt scary to think about, and At that time, Li Leyou was not yet 10 years old, and she slept every night in fear and loneliness.
Children her age are still spoiled in the arms of their parents, and she has learned to cook, wash dishes, and do housework early, and has been able to support a home for herself independently.
The school is far from home, and Li Leyou has to walk one or two hours a day on the mountain road to school.
When she came back from school, she would go up the mountain to cut firewood and cut pig grass to feed the livestock.
In the large back basket, she often carried pig grass or firewood that was much higher than her.
Because he didn't have money to buy clothes, Li Leyou's pants had been torn through a big hole.
She said:
There is a piece of clothing that has no holes and must be kept for school. Wear legless clothes to school and be ridiculed.
Sensitive and vulnerable, she does her best to maintain her self-esteem.
Having tasted the hardships of life too early, she has understood that when no one has an umbrella for you, you must learn to hold up an umbrella for yourself.
However, life is like touching a blind box, you can't always be frustrated when you touch it, and there will be unexpected surprises.
Li Leyou's surprise came invariably.
In 2014, the TV reality show "Metamorphosis" program came to Li Leyou School to select a rural protagonist who matched the setting of the program.
The theme of the program is to exchange lives between the "problem teenagers" in urban families and the special children of rural families, so that rural children have life goals, and urban children can truly experience the hardships of life.
In November 2014, Li Leyou was called to the playground when she was only 13 years old.
The class teacher told the students that if they were selected by the program group, that person could go on TV and fly to the big city to see skyscrapers.
Li Leyou listened to the heartbeat and his heart was full of longing.
The program team's car entered the school as promised.
There is nothing in the world than coincidence, the casting sister met Li Leyou, who went to the canteen to eat, and was attracted by her smile at a glance.
It is also this smile that is remembered by the audience at a glance when the show is broadcast.
The casting sister and Li Leyou chatted, and when they talked about their parents, Li Leyou, who had just answered seriously, suddenly cried.
After the casting sister learned about her family's situation from the class teacher, she immediately decided to choose her as the rural protagonist of the exchange of life.
Fate is fair, and when you endure the suffering, it will give you some rewards.
This journey of exchanging lives brought An unexpected fate to Li Leyou.
The city boy who swapped his life with Li Leyou is named Cui Jin, from Dalian.
His parents divorced when he was in his 10s and he has been living with his mother ever since.
Mother Cui, who came out of the house, chose to start her own business in order not to let her children suffer with her.
After working hard day and night for several years, Cui's mother counterattacked and became a "rich woman" and moved into a big house, giving Cui Jin a comfortable life that ordinary children could not enjoy.
However, in recent years, I only want to give my children a good material life, but I have neglected to accompany and take care of my children's feelings.
Cui Jin in his adolescence, because of his lack of love, began to become rebellious, smoking, drinking, skipping school, and disobeying discipline.
Cui's mother had no choice but to do, so she signed up for her son to participate in "Metamorphosis", hoping that her son could appreciate the hardships of life and study well.
In this way, Li Leyou and Cui Mama, who were originally 3,000 kilometers apart and had no intersection, came together because of the show.
Li Leyou has not been far away, she is full of curiosity and expectation for everything, and she is a little nervous.
She didn't know if her mother in the distant city would like herself?
Li Leyou, who has not had his mother's care since he was a child, has a deep inferiority complex in his heart.
From Dashan to Yunnan, and from Yunnan to Dalian, Li Leyou traveled for more than ten hours and finally arrived at the airport.
Mother Cui was already waiting there, and the daughter who was about to meet made her nervous and excited.
She said that she had always liked girls, and when she was pregnant with Cui Jin, she had always hoped to be a girl, and as a result, she had a son, and she was a little regretful.
Knowing that Li Leyou was coming, she began to guess what this daughter liked, thinking about what she was going to do for her, where to take her to play...
The more she thought about it, the more excited she became, and she couldn't sleep for several nights.
When she saw Li Leyou, she was shocked by Li Leyou's dress!
He was dressed in thin clothes and a pair of worn-out sandals on his feet.
At that time, the temperature in Dalian had dropped below zero, and the instinct of maternal love made her feel sorry for this little girl.
She suppressed her tears and quickly took off her clothes and draped them on Li Leyou.
She blamed herself a little, blaming herself for not thinking it through:
Don't know your height and weight, so don't buy in advance, you should buy a set of warm clothes.
Li Leyou was a little shy, but the smile on his face was as bright as the sun, and Cui's mother suddenly liked Li Leyou.
Not sympathy, but heartfelt love for this girl.
When he didn't see Cui's mother, Li Leyou was terrified.
Now that I see it, I didn't expect the city mother to be so beautiful and so warm and amiable.
She couldn't help but call out "Mommy."
The moment she was hugged by Cui's mother, thousands of scenes of day and night thought finally appeared, she had a mother, and she could finally hug her mother.
Even if it was a dream, she was willing to stay a little longer.
Looking at the new mother who was driving, Li Leyou couldn't help but call out "Mom" again.
She was so greedy for the time when she could call her mother that she didn't want to miss a minute or second.
Cui's mother asked Leyou, "Did your mother call you 'Youyou'?" ”
Li Leyou lowered his head and whispered, "I don't have a mother." ”
Mother Cui was stunned, thinking that she had heard wrongly, and asked, "What?" ”
Li Leyou whispered again: "I don't have a mother, my mother is dead." ”
After chatting, Cui's mother learned that the thin girl in front of her had been living with her grandparents, and she felt more sorry for her.
She thought that she must do her best in this period of time to let her children enjoy their mother's love.
Mother Cui took Xiaoyou to a high-end restaurant and ordered a variety of delicacies.
Looking at the table full of delicacies he had never seen before, Little Leyou's eyes were a little unable to see.
She was surprised and happy and said: "So many beautiful foods, I am not willing to eat them!" ”
Cui's mother peeled off a large prawn and handed it to her: "This is all bought for you by your mother, you can eat it at will, whichever you want to eat." ”
After the meal, Cui's mother took Li Leyou to buy new clothes and took her to the supermarket to buy fruit.
To Cui's mother's surprise, Xiao Leyou, who was born in the south, did not know many fruits, let alone ate them.
At night, Cui's mother was afraid that she would sleep alone, and she slept with her in her arms.
Li Leyou was meticulously taken care of by Mother Cui and warmed up.
For the first time in her life, she experienced her mother's love.
She felt so happy that a bright smile came from her heart.
Simple daily life, but Li Leyou is difficult to get the luxury.
And When Mother Cui heard Leyou's words, she couldn't help but cry.
She and her husband were at odds, and she did not remarry alone with her son.
Has been busy with her career, too little companionship with her children, the son hates her, does not understand her, thinks that she is going to divorce, and often quarrels with her.
Her heart also needs someone to comfort and considerate, and the arrival of Li Leyou also brings a little comfort to her lonely heart.
The day after Li Leyou arrived, it actually snowed.
Li Leyou saw the snow for the first time and danced excitedly, so Cui's mother decided to take her to skiing.
This may be the happiest day Li Leyou has had since he was born.
Fresh, exciting, and accompanied by her mother, something she never dreamed of, came true.
She laughed happily, as if she wanted to make up for all the happiness she had lost in previous years.
Cui's mother took her to the unit and without hesitation introduced herself to others: "This is my daughter." ”
She saw that Li Leyou did not like to talk, and also taught Li Leyou to take the initiative to greet people.
She sent Li Leyou to a school in the city to study, and Li Leyou was warmly welcomed by teachers and classmates.
Li Leyou saw the campus she had never seen before, the classroom was so clean, the playground was so big, and she could learn dance.
She never thought that she would one day be able to wear a dance costume and dance.
On the day of the performance, she was dressed in makeup and dance costumes, beautiful like a princess.
Although the practice time is short, she still looks like dancing when she is small.
This precious moment was recorded by Cui's mother with video.
Such a daily life, Li Leyou has only seen in TV dramas.
Now that she was in it, she felt unreal.
Cui's mother was sincerely kind to Li Leyou, and she prepared one surprise after another for this daughter.
Cui's mother decided to take her to shoot a set of mother-daughter photo albums, leaving Li Leyou with the most beautiful and precious memories of her childhood.
As soon as the photo came out, the temperament and smile of the two people were like a biological mother and daughter.
Li Leyou read it over and over again, reluctant to put down the photo.
Suddenly, she said, "I really want to take you home." ”
In fact, she didn't just want to take the pictures home, but she wanted to have a mother like that.
The happy time always passes quickly, and when the time for exchange comes, Li Leyou wants to return to Yunnan.
She took her last composition class at school, and the teacher arranged to write "My Mom."
The students' descriptions of their mothers are very specific and vivid.
When she got to Li Leyou, she said she had never seen her mother, and she imagined her mother as "long braids and big eyes."
She said that after coming to Dalian, she also had a mother.
Mom took her to do many, many things she had never done before, and ate a lot of things she had never eaten before.
Her mother gave her so much love, and she had the best mother in the world.
She said to Mother Cui, "Mom, I love you. ”
Cui's mother was moved to cry, and Li Leyou ran off the podium and hugged her mother tightly.
Cui's mother said that from that moment on, she decided that Li Leyou was her daughter.
In the past, her mother was a vague existence in Li Leyou's heart, and now, during the time she lived with Cui's mother, she had the most real feelings for her mother.
She was reluctant to leave, and she knew that with this departure, she would return to the lonely, motherless days she had before.
When she saw her classmates write the word "farewell" on the blackboard, she said that she did not like "farewell" and preferred "goodbye".
Two words, one accidentally leaked out her careful thoughts.
However, even if you don't give up, you have reached the intersection of parting.
Cui's mother sent Li Leyou back to Yunnan, and her grandparents also rushed back to meet him.
Seeing Li Leyou's reluctance, Cui's mother promised to come to see her and take her to Dalian during the holidays.
When they were separated, the two people said that they would not cry, but they still couldn't help but cry after hugging.
In a month's time, the two people established a deep mother-daughter relationship.
Watching Cui's mother's car go farther and farther, Li Leyou still couldn't help but cry, and she shouted at her mother again and again.
I thought that after the show, the story would be over.
They returned to their former lives and never had anything to do with each other.
Cui's mother said that going to see her was just a courtesy or for the effect of the show.
However, this is not the case, Cui's mother really wants to give Li Leyou a real maternal love.
After returning to Dalian, she consulted with her son and decided to adopt Xiao Leyou and make her her her real daughter.
Unfortunately, however, because she was single and did not qualify for adoption, she could not go through the adoption process.
She also wanted to transfer Leyou to Dalian to study, but because Li Leyou did not adapt to the rhythm of Dalian's curriculum, and the student registration could not be changed, Li Leyou had to return to Yunnan to study.
However, what separates is distance, and what is constantly separated is true feelings.
Mother Cui did not forget her promise, she promised Li Leyou everything, she did it.
In order to meet Li Leyou, she tirelessly drove 3,000 kilometers to see her.
Every winter and summer vacation, I will take her to Dalian to play.
Every time they were separated, Mother Cui was reluctant to let her go, holding her and not letting go.
This time, it was Li Leyou's turn to comfort her: "We will meet soon, and a semester will pass quickly." ”
In the five years since the end of the show, Cui's mother has regarded Li Leyou as her family.
Her social media account name is "lileyou520", which shows where Li Leyou is in her heart.
Li Leyou's living expenses, tuition fees, and clothes for all seasons are arranged weekly and thoughtfully.
She is also extremely concerned about learning, worried about the decline in Li Leyou's academic performance, and gives her various cram classes.
Li Leyou, who entered puberty, began to have acne on his face.
Netizens ridiculed Li Leyou for having acne on his face, not as beautiful as before, and she would also help Li Leyou explain.
Her love is as thin as a strand of hair.
Not only her, But Cui Jin has also regarded Li Leyou as his sister in the past five years, and he also cares about her and spoils her.
Don't look at him as a son, many times, he will let his sister.
Already in business, he spends money on Li Leyou and does not stingy.
One second, the two people may still be talking, and the next second, when they learned that she had no money in her mobile phone, they immediately transferred 1,000 yuan to her.
Already married, he occasionally eats his daughter-in-law's vinegar.
He complained that Li Leyou had cut his short hair and why he told his sister-in-law instead of him.
From the little things, it can be seen that this family treats this girl who has no blood relationship with sincerity and sincerity.
Someone said:
Love is like the warm sun of winter, it makes the poor and poor feel the warmth of the world;
Love is like a spring in the desert, it gives the dying to see new hope.
This passage can also be used to describe Li Leyou's meeting with Cui's mother.
Mother Cui brought warmth and healing to Li Leyou, who lacked maternal love, and made her life completely transform.
Once, when she returned to her hometown from Dalian, when she stopped on the side of the road, many children came around because they had nothing to eat, and Cui's mother bought bread and distributed it to them.
LeYou said with emotion: "If it weren't for Mother Cui, I might have stopped reading like those children." ”
Once, the girl who was shy and timid in front of the camera had long been reborn, she was confident and sunny, and her face often had her signature smile.
In her third year of high school, she is sprinting for next year's college entrance examination.
Her dream is to become a forensic doctor, and Cui's mother hopes that she will be admitted to Dalian to facilitate her care.
A few days ago, the school's mock test results came out.
After Cui's mother learned from the class teacher that Li Leyou's results were not ideal, she was very anxious.
After communicating with the teacher, she knew some of the reasons for Li Leyou's poor grades.
She blamed herself all the time, saying she had caused the achievement.
She did not fulfill her responsibilities as a mother, did not accompany Li Leyou, and lacked concern for her children.
She is also worried that there are still half a year to go, and if Li Le's excellent results cannot go up, it may not be able to achieve the ideal.
She, like all parents, broke her heart for this daughter.
However, she also encouraged Lee Leyou:
On the road to growth in the future, your mother will support you unconditionally, but you must know your own strength, how much ability to do how big things.
I believe that no matter what the results of the college entrance examination, the future of Li Leyou, who has the love of his mother's family and loves to laugh, will not be bad.