Leaving one's job is actually jumping from a desert to a swamp.
No matter how good a job is, there are a hundred reasons why you want to quit.
Naked words are one of the most unwise behaviors.
Cheapen others, wronged yourself.
Introduction: If you especially want to resign, almost to the point of collapse, but the economic situation does not allow, what to do?
Man, if you don't push yourself, you don't know how good you are.
Leaving everything aside, when you are in the collapse yourself, first apply for a day or two of vacation, not to see the great rivers and mountains, nor to empty your head.
It's the intense exercise of running, sweating, sweating, because physical release will play a positive role in psychology!
Well, calm down, discuss things, and solve the problem well is the key!
First of all, you are about to collapse, that must be unhappy at work!
Why aren't you happy?
Is the work not getting certainly unhappy?
Can't finish the task and are not happy?
Too stressed to be happy?
Unhappy ambient?
Or is it unhappy that the money is not in place?
I believe that a lot of unhappiness is a comprehensive reason from all aspects, we are all adults in the workplace, no longer children in the alley.
Casually fiddling with a game can be easy, and the adult world has all kinds of constraints and concerns, leaving aside the miscellaneous factors.
It is recommended that you find a core factor, take a white A4 paper, the middle position, write it down, recognize him, face him, and believe that the moment you write him down, your heart will be slightly more relaxed.
Then you want to quit!
If people want to resign, there are no more than two situations, one is to leave the current position, and the other is to leave the current leadership.
And you just want it at the moment, and when you specifically want to do something, it must be impulsive.
Remember, impulse is the devil, applicable to any scene, don't let the devil take over your mind.
Let's talk about the state of the economy
Today's professionals, first of all, are middle-aged people with high debts, all kinds of mortgages/car loans, credit card expenses, social expenses, and feel that every penny in the income needs to be carefully calculated.
Think about it, I feel a headache and brain crack, resignation letter, it is estimated that it has just been printed, when it is warm, it will be torn into the stomach to swallow.
Then there were the young men of the Moonlight Clan, the expenses of love, the cost of play, all kinds of extravagance, as if only the week of payroll was happy.
Other times, they are waiting for the arrival of wages, and when they talk about writing the resignation letter and writing the first sentence, they begin to silently tearfully return to the car to delete.
So in front of reality, in front of matter, we are like ants under the microscope, every pore is clearly visible, there is nowhere to hide, and there is no place to go.
Is there a way to save it in the end?
Yes, of course, there are more ways than difficulties, in the dilemma, we must face it with a positive and optimistic attitude!
First, recognize reality.
People have social attributes, it is not easy for anyone in the workplace, various assessments, interests involved, relationship maintenance, promotion and salary increase, everyone has their own various nodes and difficulties.
So it's not that you are alone, it is difficult for everyone, why can others overcome it, and you have to give up, thinking of this, your motivation will come back to half.
Second, find friends.
Find a few people with the most positive energy in your friends, mix with them for a week, spit together, eat and drink, is the need for this positive companionship, as well as the blessing of chicken blood, everyone needs to vent the exit, positive venting is conducive to physical and mental health, but also to deepen feelings!
Third, improve the psychology from the physiological.
The exercise mentioned earlier is the best physiological improvement, if you really can't get interested in doing exercise, there is a way to make it particularly good, that is, to do handwork, the data shows.
When you focus on one thing and get it done, you have a great sense of satisfaction and self-affirmation within you.
The spirit of craftsmanship comes from handmade, you can very carefully give yourself a cup of hand-ground coffee, or make a leather goods, can be a small key bag, or a small pendant, repetitive and regular handmade will make you forget the idle chores, into which will make you physically and mentally released.
Fourth, improve your mindset.
To examine yourself, you can take a piece of paper to list your negative mentality in the form of a list, or that sentence, when you face the problem squarely, you will be much easier yourself.
In fact, looking at the things written, it is nothing more than some small emotions, small problems, think about it, and the unhappiness will pass.
Fifth, ride a donkey to find a horse.
I believe this is a step that many people will do, but please ask yourself a question, have you become more valuable?
People change jobs basically hope that income and positions will be improved, if you do not optimize yourself better in the existing resources, you will still encounter the same dilemmas and problems when you change jobs.
You will fall into a strange circle, constantly avoid problems, and can not actively grow, you will become a workplace giant baby, unhappy to wow wow cry, but the workplace is like a battlefield, can not grow, is waiting for elimination.
Sixth, learn to manage money.
You do not manage money, money does not care about you, many people say that there is no money how to manage money, friends, too small to look at the way and method of financial management now, all kinds of bank Alipay have financial strategies, as small as ten yuan to tens of thousands, a variety of financial means, small money and small reason, start this step as soon as possible, you will be more than the people around you have the initiative to live.
There is a difficult scripture to read, but the difficult thing is to look at the problem with what kind of mentality.
Positive people feel that this is a challenge, and he will grow very fast and prosper in the workplace.
Negative people will want to escape, not to grow, to work hard for many years, that is, unremarkable.
So give yourself a higher positioning and goal, face difficulties, and let yourself grow from a positive attitude!