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The management of a relationship, the most important thing is to return to communication.
How a man loves you, how to chat with you, a man's attitude towards feelings, his attitude towards you, through chatting, will be understood clearly.
Women should not live in the language of men who love you, but should look at each other, their attitude towards you, whether they are sincere to you, or just want to have fun.
A person who loves you and a person who does not love you have the same attitude towards you;
A person who wants to marry you, and a person who only wants to play with you, for the way of talking, is also different, women should learn to experience it on their own.
1. There will always be one more thing to say to you
Do men love you or not? His feelings for you may not necessarily be written on his face, and perhaps more often, they will be reflected in the communication between the two people.
Men who really love you will have more patience with you when they communicate with you.
Whether it's on the phone or messaging, he's always the one who says a word more than you do.
He's the one who asks you to hang up the phone first, he's the one who says goodbye to you last, he doesn't talk to you and suddenly disappears, he always has a beginning and an end to you, he won't let you not find him.
When a man doesn't love you, no matter what you say, he doesn't want to perfunctory you, and he doesn't want to talk to you, only to replace it with words like "mm-hmm".
How much a man loves you, how tolerant he will be for you, when he is in front of you, always show his bad temper, really don't believe it, he loves you, because he does not have a little tolerance for you.
2. Take the initiative and bow your head with you
If in a relationship, you always take the initiative to find a topic, always every time you coax a man to be happy, it means that the initiative of this relationship is in the man's body.
Usual couples or couples, men will always spoil women more.
Xiao Xiao and her husband have been married for 5 years, which is a lot of psychological pressure, because the man is married twice, and the family originally did not accept it, but Xiao Xiao liked this man very much, and finally came to the point of marriage.
But along the way, Xiao Xiao has paid a lot, and her getting and paying is extremely out of proportion.
Every time after an argument over something, the man would start to be cold and violent, and he could go a few weeks, not talking to Xiao Xiao.
Xiao Xiao had no way not to take the initiative to talk to men, because she carried the child alone.
She has to work and take care of the children, and the man comes home and just throws his hands in charge and does nothing.
When Xiao Xiao had no choice but to call the man for help, the man would start to respond.
Almost every quarrel between them ended like this, without the bow of the man, without the coaxing of the man.
After a long time, Xiao Xiao could only learn to comfort himself. If in a relationship, the man is willing to take the initiative to coax you, in the event of a conflict, the man is willing to take the initiative to bow to you, it means that the man really loves you.
Because the man who really loves you will care about you and will be willing to bow his head for you.
3. It won't disappear
In the relationship, what women are most afraid of is that the man who originally said that he loved himself suddenly disappeared.
The man who was supposed to have a good chat suddenly hung up your phone; the man who had been good at messaging suddenly didn't respond.
A man who always plays missing, a man who always you look for him and can't find, shows that he has not put you in his heart at all, and he really doesn't care about you.
So whether you are worried or your anger, for him, your emotions are not important at all, he cares more about himself.
If a man always likes to play hide-and-seek with you, you can't contact him for days, when you want him to show up, he never shows up, and when you don't need him to show up, he appears unexpectedly.
In this relationship, you are the guardian, he wants to come, want to go, do not feel that such a man, is really in love with you, can let him sink his heart into the marriage, absolutely not any woman.
It's because he's tired, he's tired, so he wants to go into the stability of the marriage.
A man who truly loves you, when he talks to you, he will not suddenly disappear because he is concerned about you.
Even if he is going on a business trip immediately, he is going to have a meeting immediately, and he will spend tens of seconds telling you that he will not let you worry about him, will not let you worry about him, and will not let you worry about him.
A man who truly loves you will be particularly serious about you and will really put you in his heart.
Even if you are angry, you will be eager to explain to you, it may be helpless, it may be full of red faces.
The feelings between lovers and the stability between marriages all need to be managed and maintained.
The sincerity that men give you, you have to learn to cherish, the hurt that men give you, you have to learn to refuse, don't let the person who hurt you, give you the right to hurt, and learn to be with the person you like.
Men who really care about you will pay attention to you all the time, and will pay attention to the feelings every second, because they love you, so you are the most important.
When there is a man around you, with these attitudes to chat with you, he has used actions, shown his care and love, you must hold on tightly, do not pretend not to know, missed the good person.
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