1. Clean up the room
A clean and tidy environment can bring people a pleasant mood, but also reduce unnecessary trouble for life.
Tidy up the room, organize the clutter, sort and arrange. The discard of the discarded, the cleaning of the cleaning. For example, would it be better to have a vase there, and whether the shoe rack could be replaced with a new one.
Self-designed room, the most comfortable for yourself. Insist on breaking away and throwing away all the useless ones in order to make room for new things.
2. Cultivate hobbies
When people live, they can't blindly think of pleasing others, and the most important thing they should do is to "please" themselves. So how do you "please" yourself?
There is no easiest and most effective way to develop a hobby. Life is lonely, and we need to do something to pass the time and cultivate emotions.
When I was in college, I had a roommate who played the flute every day, and from the very beginning it was extremely ugly, and now it is pure fire. He said that he would play the flute only when he was free, and in the process he could feel the melodious sound of the flute, like going back to the ancient chivalrous period...
Being able to immerse himself in his own preferences is a realm, and this enjoyment-style immersion enriches his spiritual world. The happiness brought by it is also indescribable, not only a skill, but also a manifestation of love of life.
3. Read
Reading can change a temperament and broaden people's horizons. There is an old saying: good reading can cure stupidity. Reading books can not only increase our insight, but also remove human ignorance.
Personal experience is limited, so why don't we read the experiences of others? Find your own way from other people's experiences and stories, and learn from them.
The more books I read, the more I understand. The way of looking at the world will also change, naturally, in the changes in life can be more unfazed, calm and calm.