Man cannot choose his or her birth family, and of course, his appearance is not determined by himself. Due to the difference in appearance, people's aesthetics are different, there is a difference in people's appearance, there is a difference between beauty and ugliness, and in foreign countries, there is a man with congenital facial deformities, but he married a beautiful wife, and after the birth of the child, the two did not smile, what is going on?
"Are we really going to have this baby?" A man abroad and his newly married and pregnant wife asked.
This person is Lyon from England, because of congenital facial deformities, and in his growth experience felt anxious, fortunately talented and optimistic, married to a beautiful wife who is very different from his appearance - Anna.
Soon after, Anna became pregnant, and Leon, fearing that his skull deformity would be inherited from the child, tried to convince Anna not to have the child. But Anna still insisted on giving birth to the child, because she thought the child was a witness to their love, but the appearance of the child made the two fall into contemplation again.
In today's society, the advantages of appearance are obvious, and it is easier for good-looking people to do a lot of things. Usually, when we first come into contact with a person, we can only judge the person by appearance as the initial criterion, which is the so-called first impression.
Because of this, human beings' pursuit of appearance, especially some stars who eat by the face, has never stopped.
But it cannot be said that those who have excellent physical conditions and better looks must be very good in all aspects.
Some people have very good looks, but they are superficial and cannot be deeply intercourse. There are also some people who are born with some defects in their appearance, but they can achieve their life goals by virtue of their own excellent qualities or by virtue of their attitude of striving for their own lives.
As the saying goes, "the same rice raises a hundred kinds of people", and it is precisely because of the differences in people's appearance that everyone will have different standards in judging beauty.
However, although everyone's aesthetic is different, it is still the same in the general appreciation direction of beauty, and there is a general recognition of the division of appearance and ugliness.
And the foreign man we are going to talk about today, because he suffers from congenital facial deformities, and is judged to be ugly in appearance, but because of his talent, he married a beautiful and loving wife, but after the birth of the two of them, because of the inheritance of his father's facial deformity, the husband and wife suddenly had no smile on their faces.
The so-called "turnip greens, each has its own love", in the eyes of different people, there will be their own favorite standards.
But this Lyon from England, it can be said that whoever met him, the first impression of his appearance was that he was very ugly, because he had congenital skull deformities.
The skull is the support of the main contours of the human face, and it plays an important role in the shape of the face and the characteristics of the entire face.
But for these patients with skull deformities, their skulls are deformed from birth, and their facial structures will also become deformed and distorted with the skull.
Lyon's skull deformity was also born, mainly because his parents were married by close relatives.
Leon's parents were originally blood relatives, and both knew that the marriage of close relatives had a great effect on the genes of their children, and their union eventually led to some defects in Leon's body, and not only Lyon had a congenital skull deformity, but also his siblings, who all suffered from the same disease.
At the time of Lyon's birth, his face was very distorted, and after the doctor's diagnosis, Lyon was diagnosed with congenital skull deformities.
For a child, this disease on the face will obviously have a very big impact on his life.
This illness caused Leon to carry such a special mark from birth, which made his life receive a little more attention than others.
Because of his facial deformity and distorted appearance, even if he does not make any expressions, he looks very strangely deformed in ordinary life.
Because of the difference between Lyon's appearance and everyone else's, people looked at him for the first time and it was difficult to accept his appearance. If there were any more expression on his face, his face would immediately become more vicious and distorted.
Therefore, in order not to bring trouble and fear to others, he often controls his expression and movements as much as possible.
Leon is also often frustrated by his facial features.
When he was young, there were no peers who wanted to be close to him, so he did not make any friends in his childhood, and he had to endure the strange eyes and ridicule of the people around him. Fortunately, Leon's parents did not dislike him, but often encouraged Leon and taught him how to correctly look at the different eyes of others.
Because his friends of the same age are afraid of him and reluctant to play with him, his parents will find as much time as possible to spend with their children, and often give the right guidance to Lyon's mental health problems.
His parents encouraged him and his siblings to build up their self-confidence and to face their lives in a more positive way.
It is also the enlightened teaching of parents and their positive attitude towards life by example. Leon is not depressed by his own shortcomings, but is fearless of everyone's eyes, and strives to study and work in the midst of all kinds of ridicule and discrimination.
In his heart, he has always firmly believed that with the progress of science and technology, there will be a way to make up for the shortcomings in his body.
As an adult, Leon also sought help from beauty institutions, but many beauty institutions gave him the same reply, telling him that even if he underwent medical aesthetic surgery, the contour of his face would not change much. Therefore, it is unlikely that his face will be changed.
This shattered Leon's hopes, he understood that this was a fact that he could not change, and he no longer spent time with his appearance.
Lyon has always maintained good grades in his student days, although it is not excellent, but his diligence and hard work have always made him one of the best.
After entering the university, he saw a broader world.
He actively develops his hobbies, and is also an active member of Lyon in the school, as long as there is an activity, he will actively participate, in various stages to show and express himself.
He also infected many people around him with his positive attitude towards life. As a result, people no longer looked at Lyon in a different way, and even admired him very much.
Because of the encouragement and companionship of his parents, Leon is also full of confidence in his future.
Lyon is also keen on various public welfare activities, during his university years, he often actively participated in some social welfare organizations, also participated in the local association for the protection of the disabled, and provided good care and help to the disabled people everywhere.
Lyon uses his own personal experience and his own personal statement to call on people to respect and care for the disabled people around them, not to treat these disabled people as outliers, and not to use first impressions to hurt these originally fragile groups again.
These disabled people, who are naturally regarded as special groups in society, have suffered too much discrimination and grievances.
By chance, he discovered that there are many people in the world with facial deformities like him.
Looking at the childish faces and pure eyes, Leon seemed to see himself.
After that, he actively participated in public welfare undertakings, to help those with disabilities like himself to get out of difficulties, and used his own experience to build their confidence and courage in life.
Through years of hard work, Lyon's passion has infected more people around him.
Under his leadership, countless people with facial disabilities have also joined his team. Everyone relies on each other and encourages each other, not only establishing their own circle of friends, but also passing on a lot of positive energy for the society.
It is precisely because of Lyon's active campaign for this work that many disabled people are infected by his optimism and self-confidence under his leadership, and gradually become as bold as he is, and Lyon's team has become even larger.
It was at this time that a girl named Anna walked into the life of Leon, and in an ordinary public welfare activity, Leon was the main person in charge of the activity, and Anna was the volunteer of the event.
Lyon due to the influence of the living environment since childhood, he is funny, and very responsible, in his body there is no trace of inferiority, Anna is attracted to such a confident and luminous Lyon on the stage.
Anna then boldly expressed her love to Leon, and Leon generously accepted.
Although the two are very different in appearance, they have a lot of common topics.
After the two met, they naturally began to talk and communicate, and finally entered the palace of marriage. It is precisely because of Lyon's positive attitude towards life and his outstanding performance in study and work that he not only reaped the success he expected at work, but also gained a beautiful wife in love.
Anna's parents were very opposed after seeing Leon's appearance, because anna, the wife who contrasted strongly with Leon, was a beautiful-looking girl, and from their appearance, no one would think that they were a perfect match, and Anna's parents thought so.
Although Anna and Leon were surprised by Leon's unusual appearance when they first met, after knowing Lyon and getting along with the boy, she was gradually impressed by the boy's talent and attitude towards life, and the two came together smoothly and resolved to form their own family.
Anna's parents, at Anna's insistence and in contact with Leon, felt that the boy was indeed a good man who could be entrusted, except that his appearance could not be determined by himself, and they agreed to the marriage.
The two people were finally officially married under everyone's blessing, and the life of the two people after marriage was just as Anna thought, and Leon was a very kind and excellent person.
Later, Lyon became a designer, and never gave up the attention to the disabled, and also set up a disabled people's mutual aid organization, and Anna became Lyon's best assistant, both of whom were very good in life and career.
Shortly after the marriage, Anna, out of hope for a good marriage, insisted on having children of her own and leon herself. But Leon, fearing that his tragedy would repeat itself on the child, persuaded Anna when she proposed that she should not have children.
But Anna firmly believed that this facial deformity was likely to be a small probability event, and she insisted on giving birth to their own flesh and blood with Leon.
After a long pregnancy in October, under the careful care and expectation of everyone, Anna finally gave birth to a girl. The birth of this girl made everyone's hanging hearts finally fall, but when everyone approached the crib to see the girl's face, they began to tug at their hearts again.
It turned out that Heaven did not make a special case for him, and sure enough, as Lyon expected, this daughter also inherited Lyon's congenital skull deformity disease, and her appearance was completely inherited from her father, and none of her facial features resembled her mother's.
This is not only very guilty for Lyon, but also Lyon's parents are very upset.
Neither of them wanted the girl to go through it once. Those exclusions and blows in society should not belong to innocent newborns to bear. Anna encourages her husband that this daughter is a witness to their love, and no matter how she looks, she cannot hinder how she will develop in the future.
Since Lyon, as a father, can be so confident and excellent, he believes that his daughter will be able to be as confident as her father under the care of love and affection. But no matter what kind of upbringing they will have, now that this daughter has been born, for Leon and Anna, all they have to do is provide a better family environment for their daughter.
Leon also said that he wanted to give his daughter enough love to make her realize the importance of optimism and positivity. I believe that under the joint guidance of the two, this girl will also become a talented talent.
By understanding the story of Lyon, it can be seen that in fact, for a person's personal development, his own efforts occupy an important place.
If we judge a person based on their appearance alone, it is very unreasonable and unfair, and it is likely that we will miss out on many really good talents.
Nowadays, with the continuous improvement of people's ideological level, all kinds of discrimination psychology about the past have gradually disappeared into human society. Perhaps in the days to come, people with congenital deformities like Leon and his daughter will also be able to get effective healing and gain more understanding and affirmation.
We can't choose our origins and looks, but the future of life is in our own hands.
A person's birth cannot be changed, but the mentality and growth environment will affect the future development. Leon is fortunate to have the encouragement of his parents and the company of his wife, so he can achieve what he has achieved today, and I believe that under the influence of his example, his daughter will live a happier life.
epilogue
It is unfair to be born in terms of appearance. Whether it is a character or a physical defect, we can make up for it through the efforts of the day after tomorrow. There are many people with disabilities in society, who show their value through their own abilities, which is the really useful person.