(Text: Xinqing original article)
When Wang Lihong officially announced his divorce, to be honest, I was not too shocked. Because in your circle, it is too normal to divide and merge. Even because the agent's front foot denied it, the buddha-figure's back foot officially announced this operation, and I also respected Wang Lihong as a man at that time.
When I saw Li Lianglei's "small composition", although the punch in the face came too quickly, I was still very calm. I think there are not many couples in your circle who are good to get together and disperse, and it is really normal. Even if what Li Lianglei said is true, Wang Lihong's house collapsed, but the Internet memory is very short, and the melon-eating masses have dispersed after a while.
When Jay Chou Lin Junjie took Wang Lihong, I could also understand that although they were Wang Lihong's friends for many years, it was human nature to seek advantages and avoid harm.
But when Li Lianglei called the police and posted the message of the former father-in-law's request for peace, I was shocked. It's too fierce, this is the rhythm to be hard to the end. An old man in his 80s came out to respond to a bunch of bad things about his son in his 40s, and he couldn't help himself.
The previous Li Lianglei was afraid that she was no longer there, and Niu Cobalt Lu Shi Lei was on the line. This woman, how disappointed must I be to kill a man.
I don't know if Wang Lihong foresaw his future when his friend Li Yundi collapsed. But one thing is certain, Wang Lihong miscalculated: a woman for your IQ becomes low, trapped by the child's footsteps, that is because she still misses the old love, when the love in her heart disappears, you are still a ah.
Before a man betrays his marriage, he really has to weigh it, after all, most people do not have Wang Lihong's family lineage, let alone Wang Lihong's "Yan" and "talent".
At the moment when Wang's father posted his hand to write a letter, no matter what the truth was, Mr. Wang could say that he had lost even his bottoms.
"The Ten Deadly Sins"
Let's take a look.
On December 15, Wang Lihong officially announced that he and Li Lianglei had broken up peacefully and criticized himself: In many years of married life, there are too many places that have been done inadequately.
At this time, he is still a good man.
But in less than two days, a small essay by his ex-wife Li Lianglei listed his "ten deadly sins."
A small essay, puncturing not only the marriage change, but also the dignity of two adults.
"Prince of Music" Wang Lihong, like an April day on earth.
Wang Lihong, who cheated on about P, set his self-esteem shattered to the ground.
Wang Lihong is really a "king" in your circle, he single-handedly did what Wu XFan, Li X Di and others did, Luo Xxiang's title of "time management master", I don't know if to "let Xian".
Let's first look at his "Ten Deadly Sins":
Have sex with minors and are unwilling to be responsible
Prostitutes were called many times
There are gun friends with many people in many places
Having a relationship with a married woman and destroying someone else's family
Sign an unequal property agreement before marriage
Birth within marriage, so that the wife has 3 children in 5 years
After marriage, they are not responsible for the family and children
Manipulating the media and water to control comments and delete posts
Transfer of property after marriage
Have sex with the same sex
This "ten deadly sins" is enough to scare away a girl, but Li Lianglei lived with him for eight years and gave birth to three children.
After eight years, hammering a scumbag again, either forced to be anxious, or looking away, but any hindsight can not withstand the precautions.
Below I would like to disassemble Li Lianglei's small composition, and learn some "anti-deception" tricks after eating melons.
From the small composition, we can see that before and after marriage, Mr. Wang asked P who and even how to transfer property, Ms. Li is actually very clear and deeply hurt. But Ms. Li believes that forbearance and forgiveness can be exchanged for family harmony.
In fact, it won't, it will only intensify.
Because the bottom line is there, the first time you don't hold it, others will know that you can actually hold it. So again and again temptation, you lower the bottom line, and in the end the man will become completely indifferent to your feelings.
As Li Lianglei said in her small essay: I don't want the girl I meet to be wronged, and I am said to be a little third, so I strongly request a divorce from my wife.
So, don't think that no matter how bad the marriage is, no matter how unhappy it is, as long as there is a form, the children will have a complete home. In fact, a man who has cheated on sex, who can't keep his desire to ask about P.
Man, trust once is enough. This not only maintains his love and dignity, but also greatly reduces his possibility of being hurt.
For a man to commit "ten deadly sins" to hurt himself, Li Lianglei is still too benevolent.
Tu qian is much simpler than tu ai
Some people will ask, wang Lihong continues to marry Li Lianglei, maintaining the illusion of a happy family, is not more conducive to maintaining his positive image of the prince of music? Why not toss divorce?
And looking at Li Lianglei's small composition, it seems that she has acquiesced to this abnormal marriage relationship, as long as Wang can do what a father should be for the children, he will not hammer him to death.
But why did Wang Lihong want a divorce?
Because giving love is not a simple thing, and the same is true for love for children.
Figure love is harder than figure money! He would rather spend money to buy out love than give love in a long stream.
Even if Li Lianglei does not care about the essence of marriage, as long as there is a form, it can be different for children, and the failed marriage of parents may be a disaster for children for a lifetime.
Someone spends a lifetime to heal their childhood, and someone's childhood is enough to sustain a lifetime.
Therefore, in terms of children, Li Lianglei still has requirements for Wang Lihong, and she hopes that children can grow up in a harmonious and happy environment.
When she found that the facts and ideals ran counter to each other, she understood that the bottomless tolerance was just a bad example for the child. So she broke the boat and tore her predecessor apart.
So, ah, there are often women who can't figure out the question "Why don't I care about his money, only care about him as a person, he still doesn't look back", the answer is obvious: it is easier to make money than to love. Hopefully, women understand:
When men are still thinking about old feelings, we don't pursue them too much.
When a man is stingy with money, don't make love to him.
When a man wants to kill him all, he has to make him pay the price.
However, many girls in this matter, is no different from a gambler, has lost but still refuses to leave, looking forward to the next Jedi rebirth, with their lifelong happiness to gamble on a small possibility, and often lose in the end.
Li Lianglei, who has become a "fighter", is smarter than most women
These days Li Lianglei is very busy, busy responding online. Even sent a few dynamics, real name hanging out of the three children.
After watching too many scenes of the original lesson of Xiao San, many people think that men have cheated on him, and the most important thing to be educated is Xiao San. She even thought that as long as Xiao San's reputation was stinked, she would be afraid to cut off contact with men.
But the truth is often: even if you become a "fighter", you will not be able to save the man's heart.
Li Lianglei is actually much smarter than most women, and her small composition at the beginning is to run to Wang Lihong.
Her purpose she made clear: to do what she did, to take responsibility for herself, to apologize publicly.
Mr. Wang understands the mystery of controlling the direction of public opinion: the best way to do public relations is to try to destroy the reputation of another person and mislead the public to divert attention.
Unfortunately, the official media has spoken out, and this wave of public opinion guidance is not something he can control by his own strength.
Clarify or apologize, and explain the matter in a dignified manner. It is imperative to give an account to his many years of "quality idol" status and the fans and audiences who like him.
Life is not easy, especially to be an upright person. This hurdle, Mr. Wang wants to jump over, it is not so easy.
Make a mistake in the "flower field" and lose your career. If you come out of the mix, sooner or later you will have to pay it back.