Text/Little Snow Mom
"The female is weak, the mother is just", many mothers before the child, who is not a little princess, but after having a child, even the weakest woman can do a lot of admirable things, and this is probably the power of maternal love and responsibility.
Sometimes we say that before marriage, the mineral water bottle cannot be opened, and after marriage, a bucket of water can lift the fifth floor; before marriage, the kitchen has not been entered several times, and after marriage, we have practiced the skill of holding a baby in one hand and stir-frying with the other, and it is really not easy to be a mother.
My mother took the two babies to sleep on the high-speed train, and after watching my mother do everything in her hands, I was moved
I saw a video on the Internet, a second-born mother with two children traveling by high-speed rail, the situation should be to go back to the mother's home, the husband may be because the work is busy, did not make time, the mother as long as it is her own two children back to the mother's home.
Because the road is relatively long, the mother is a little tired running alone with two children, and the mother and the two children are asleep against the seat. But even in the sleep state, the mother still holds the young son tightly with one hand, so that the child's sleeping position can be more comfortable.
Pull the camera to the mother's left hand, careful observation can find that the mother's left hand is still tightly holding the daughter's hand, even if it is snoozing to sleep, the mother has been protecting her child, so as not to cause any accidents to the child.
After all, when going out, there are more people on the car, worried about what accidents the children encounter, sleep are vigilant, after reading it really makes people's noses sour, tears can't help but stay.
From this mother, I really saw the scene when I brought my baby, the old man was not around, a person took the child out, faced with so many problems, there was no way to think of a way, everything was first close to the child.
There is also the fact that Bao Mom has been at home with a baby, no socializing and no going out, trapped by the child for several years, and they are almost out of touch with society. Sometimes the old man helps to bring the meeting, and the mother and friends go out to the street, and they can be happy for several days.
Relatives around, be more considerate of the hardships of bao mom with baby
First, it is not easy to take the baby at all, and say less cool things
We often hear voices like, "What's so tiring about you with your kids at home, am I tired of going to work?" For this kind of remark, Xiaoxue's mother only wants to say that she has not experienced anything herself, so don't rush to conclusions.
Is it really easy to bring up kids? Get up early in the morning with your children, do breakfast to coax your children to eat, then do housework to clean up the house, play games with your children, then cook with your child in one hand and cook with one hand, eat lunch in a hurry, have not yet rested and began to be busy, it can be said that from morning to night has not stopped, and with a child, it is inconvenient for the mother to go out and lose interpersonal relationships.
Of course, it is not denied that the work is very tired to make money and support the family, but the mother is also paying for the family, life is the effort of both sides, that is, I hope that the family will say less cool words, sincerely do some housework within their reach, and understand the hardships of the mother.
Second, it is inconvenient to take the baby out, and the family tries to make time
After having children, Bao Mom really rarely goes out, most of the time is tied to the child, especially the three years of just having a child, Bao Mom can basically be said to be isolated from the world, rarely contact with friends, and no time to shop, really for children and families to live.
Even if it is to take the child out, the mother is also very inconvenient, the child is hungry and crying, the pants are wet, the mother has to find a way to solve, sometimes it is really tired, and someone needs to share it together, so try not to let the mother go out alone with the baby, and the family tries to make time.
Third, the growth of children needs to be taught by parents together
The child's growth and education has never been a matter for the mother alone, which requires the participation of parents together. Mothers can teach children a lot of truths and good habits, but children also need fatherly love, need fathers to teach children courage, responsibility and good qualities, need parental love feelings, and provide a warm and harmonious family atmosphere.
The lack of father is not only the companion on the child's growth path, but also the lack of children's affection, so in the spare time, fathers should also accompany their children more to make their children's lives more perfect.
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