Text | Jiang Yi
Source 丨 Night Listen (ID:yetingfm)
Writer Zhang Xiaoxian once said a sentence: Companionship is the longest confession of affection.
Everyone needs someone else to accompany them, and everyone needs to accompany others.
Whether it is family, friendship or love, companionship is always the most indispensable part of all feelings in this world.
Thirty thousand days in life, one day, one less day. There are not many friends and relatives, see one side, one side less.
In this rolling red dust, companionship is the warmest commitment to a person.
How long have you not been with your lover?
I like a quote from Miyazaki:
"It's raining in the city where you live, and I wanted to ask if you had an umbrella with me, but I resisted." Because I'm afraid that you won't bring it, and I can't do anything about it, like I love you, but I can't give you the company you want. ”
Perhaps only people who have experienced long-distance love can experience a central acid.
But as long as there is love in the heart, no matter how big the difficulties will be solved.
I saw a story on the Internet: a long-distance couple, the boy is Hong Kong, the girl is from Shenzhen. Because of the epidemic, the customs clearance port was closed, and the two have not seen each other for a long time.
In order to see each other, the boy found the two closest places on the map:
Shenzhen Yantian Seaside Plaza and Hong Kong New Territories Gupu Village.
The two places are separated by only a kilometer of sea.
The two made an appointment, appeared at the corresponding place, and finally met each other. But because it was too far away, only a vague little person could be seen.
So the boy found two more places - Shenzhen Luohu Pengxing Tianqiao and Hong Kong White Tiger Mountain.
This time, the distance between the two in a straight line was only 400 meters, and they finally saw the real other on the day of Tanabata.
As soon as the golden wind and jade dew met, they won countless victories in the world, and it is said that this kind of love is said.
It turns out that people who love each other will really cross the mountains and try their best to meet each other, even if it is only a glance from a distance.
Remember the saying: The person who wants to see you is free 24 hours a day. People who want to send you, southeast, northwest and south are all on the way.
In the face of love, all obstacles are not a problem. In the face of love, all problems will be solved.
Husbands and wives are separated, couples are different, most of them can't help themselves. But as long as the husband and wife are in the same heart and the lovers are dependent on each other, space and distance are not a problem.
How long have you not been with your child?
A one-year-old girl dressed in red stumbled in front of her house, but could only turn to her father for help from a surveillance camera:
"Dad, I can't stand up."
The father who worked in the field saw this scene afterwards, and his whole heart was broken, and he was eager to go home and pick up his daughter immediately.
If it weren't for the compulsion of life, who would leave their treasures in their hometown. If it is not too difficult, who wants to be displaced and have no fixed place to live.
In fact, as a parent, everyone knows that children need companionship. But what is in front of us is more reality and responsibility.
We understand what companionship means to our children, and we understand the involuntary nature of our parents in life.
However, there are still some parents who are not afraid of difficulties and try to take their children with them.
Remember the six-month-old girl who lived in the takeout box?
Because his wife was too busy at work to take the children with her, her father, who was a delivery man, had to take her to deliver food with him.
Every time before going out, you must prepare milk powder, boiling water, diapers and other necessities, and take time to make milk powder for her during the delivery process.
Others can send dozens of orders at noon, and he can only send dozens of orders with his daughter.
Outsiders feel very sad to see this father and daughter, but Li Yuanyuan, as a father, does not feel hard.
He and his wife firmly believe that companionship is the best education for their daughters, and although he does not earn more from other riders, he gives them an unusual childhood experience.
As long as the daughter is around, it is worth it to be tired and tired. After all, the child's childhood is only once, and if you do a little more now, you will have fewer regrets in the future.
Some psychologists have said that before the child is 3 years old, he will give him as much love as he wants; as much hug as he wants, give him as much hug as he wants.
Because the stage of 1-3 years old is an important period for parents to establish a parent-child relationship with their children. Missing this period, it will become very difficult to gain the trust and dependence of your children in the future.
If you can, please give your child as many hugs and companionship as possible within the existing conditions. So that he can be like other children, in the arms of his parents.
If you can't always accompany your child, don't forget to open videos with your child and talk to him.
How long have you not been with your parents?
People say that loneliness is the norm of life.
The loneliness of the elderly is more like a powerless compromise.
An octogenarian old lady in Zhuzhou, Hunan Province, spoke her mind on a short video platform: I am too lonely.
"My children are not around, so lonely." I don't know how to get by, and I don't bother to cook three meals a day.
My daughter married far away to the United States, and my son settled in Guangzhou. I have 8 grandchildren, but none of them are with me..."
Although very lonely, in order to complete the children, the old man still said this passage in a relaxed posture, and finally said that he could see it and did not have to worry.
The old man pretended to be relaxed, hiding the loneliness of the old man and the helplessness and compromise of having to accept the status quo.
Who does not want their children to be by their side, who do not want their children and grandchildren to enjoy the joy of the world around their knees.
But the reality is that parents have worked hard all their lives to raise their daughters to adulthood, but they don't even have a relative to accompany them.
We are bent on striving to provide a good material life for the people we love, but unconsciously drift away from our parents in the busy.
In the first half of life, our parents accompanied us to grow up with the most meticulous care. In the second half of life, when our parents needed care and companionship, we were absent.
Writer Bi Shumin once said: Parents are here, and there is still a place in life. When your parents go, there is only one way back in life.
A person can live a lifetime, and it is the happiest thing in the world to let his parents hold hands.
Always remember that our bond with our parents is rare in a hundred years. Always remember that our relationship with our parents is this life and there is no afterlife.
All filial piety should be fulfilled in this lifetime.
The tree wants to be quiet and the wind is not stopping, and the son wants to raise and not to be kissed. Don't wait to miss it to feel sorry, don't wait for the loss to regret it.
Life is a long road, please slow down from time to time, look back at your parents, and accompany them for a while.
Mr. Yang Dai once said:
"We always run for too many unattainable things, but we forget the real happiness of life, but it is the warmth of the lights and the fullness of chai rice oil and salt." 」
If you think about it, the real happiness is not the warmth of the lights, nor the fullness of chai rice oil and salt, but the people who are accompanied by them.
Because of love and companionship, our lives are full of warmth and small luck. The days that were originally dull and boring have also become fulfilling and happy because of the companionship of their lovers.
In this life, it is a very fortunate thing to meet someone who is willing to stay by your side and accompany you when you need it.
For lovers, old companionship is the most beautiful love word in this life;
For children, children and grandchildren on their knees are the best blessings in this life;
For his parents, Takado was still alive with the greatest happiness in his life.
Life does not need too much foil, it needs only a kind of companionship.
As the saying goes, before you die, the most precious thing is to have someone by your side and give you strength in the dark.
Life comes and goes, and the last person left is the most important person in our lives.
Thank you to those who stayed behind, because it is because of their presence that we have the best gift in the world.
Author: Jiang Yi. Source: Night Listening (ID: yetingfm), Night Listening, For Love, Meet a Better Self. Reading has a way to publish articles with authorization.
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