Be a simple person, see the complexities of the world but do not leave traces in the heart, maintain a normal heart and a happy mood, simple and happy.
Experts say: the best age for women to have children is 24-30 years old, it is best not to exceed 35 years old, because after the age of 35, women's ovarian function will begin to decline, and the incidence of fetal congenital malformations and dementia will be greatly improved.
Hefei, Anhui Province: A 60-year-old Sheng Da Mama (Sheng Hailin) risked her life in 2010 to give birth to twin daughters through test tube technology.
What kind of belief makes Big Mama insist on doing this?
According to the big mother said: I originally had an only daughter who was married, and the life was also happy and happy, but an accident made the daughter and son-in-law both die, which was a big blow to the grand mother and the old partner, and the family that was originally happy and happy is now only himself and his wife.
If you don't have children, you may always live in pain, and this pain will accompany death.
At first, Shanda's mother and wife wanted to adopt a child to fill the gap in their hearts, but in the end they were unsuccessful.
Finally, with the support of his wife and children, he decided to do IVF.
However, if you become pregnant and have a child at the age of 60, the accompanying risk is also quite high, which may be accompanied by death, but the heart of the woman is too strong, and Shanda Mama still feels that she will try it.
It is possible that God also pitied this elderly mother, who only used test tube technology once to successfully give birth to a pair of twin daughters, which made Shanda Mama very happy.
Only if I live, they can live better.
Wave after wave, wave after wave, the two little daughters have not yet grown up, and the old partner has caused hemiplegia due to stroke.
In order to earn money to take care of her wife and daughter, Shanda Mama began to go to all over the country to give lectures, including health science and health science.
While taking care of her two young daughters, while also taking care of her hemiplegic wife, the whole family needs her to take care of it, and the pressure and fatigue on Shanda's mother can be imagined.
It can be said that Shanda Mama is the "top pillar" of the family.
Who knows how Shanda Mama has persevered in these 11 years?
In The words of Aunt Shanda herself, she can only find that little bit of happiness in pain.
"People only see my superficial happiness, but they don't know the sadness and future anxiety behind me."
As her daughters grew older, Shanda Mom began to have her own worries about what to do with the future of her daughters.
People in the neighborhood also began to gossip, and once someone said to the two young daughters: You don't have a father and mother, you are test-tube.
When the two little daughters arrived home, they began to cry, and Shanda's mother was also very helpless in her heart.
The 70-year-old Shanda mother decided to return to the family in the future.
When talking about her daughter's future, Shanda Mama said: Her age is 60 years older than her daughter, and there will certainly not be too many days to accompany her daughter in the future, so now they must learn to be self-reliant, self-reliant and confident.
Through the income from lectures in these years plus the pension of himself and his wife, the economic conditions are also considered to be passable, and they will accompany the family more in the future and give the two daughters a complete childhood.
I admire this elderly mother, the greatness of maternal love makes it difficult for us to imagine, I hope she can always be healthy, accompany her daughter to live a happy and happy life, but also a happy ending for herself.