Brothers, you always ask me "how to effectively chase girls without becoming a licking dog", and my answer is always only those four words - stop loss in time. When paying for each other, or not responding to each other for a long time, if you re-examine the relationship and find that the other party simply does not like you and hangs on you, then quickly give up.
So what if you still don't know how to stop losses in time? Then remember the following three principles to ensure that you do not become a licking dog on the way to finding love.
Principle 1: Stay away from girls who are indifferent to you, disgusted, or excessively "slow and hot"
Some boys always think that they can change a girl's attitude by their own actions and sincerity, but in fact, girls are far more iron-hearted than you think in some aspects. Therefore, it is best to keep pace with the attitude of the girl when chasing the girl, and in the case of several attempts and no response, you can change the next target, or at the beginning you are away from this type of girl, and the possibility of becoming a licking dog is definitely zero.
Then you may say that although you know this situation, you don't know how to change it. If the brothers really can't find a way, then you come to my public account: Wang Baiyi, give you a high emotional intelligence strategy, teach you to read the subtext of girls, and easily pinch their careful thoughts.
In addition, some brothers may not understand what excessive "slow heat" means, in fact, it is very simple, if the girl who is interested in you will respond to you even if it is slow and hot, but those girls who say that they are slow and hot but will not give you a response are mostly scumbag green tea.
Principle two: Love yourself and be yourself
Before loving others, please learn to love yourself well, don't give up your self-esteem, give up your life and your own close friends for love, this will indeed make girls look at you differently, but what she sees is a licking dog that is not self-loving, unprincipled, and has no bottom line, and your cheap love even makes her feel disgusting.
Therefore, chasing girls must not lose themselves, do not be trapped by the framework of girls, and do not cater to girls without a bottom line. Girls who really like you are more willing to be guided and led by you than to set a framework for you and control you in the palm of her hand.
Principle three: Ask the other party to pay for you at the same time
The core of love is mutual attraction, since it is mutual, it means that this is a matter of two people, if in a relationship, you are always on the side of giving, the girl is on the side of taking, then this relationship must end in failure in the end, and the most seriously hurt is mostly yourself.
So ah, you have to tell yourself that all your efforts need girls to give you corresponding positive feedback, while paying to each other, you can ask the other party to pay for us, only if the other party pays for you, she is likely to continue to increase investment, and even in the end she will be reluctant to give up this relationship because she has invested in you.