Before her death in the United States, Soong Mei Ling left two last words, the first sentence is very understandable, and the second sentence directly caused everyone to speculate about the feelings between her and Chiang Kai-shek! I can't help but wonder if the second last sentence means to have an affair with Chiang Kai-shek. What's going on here? Why did Song Meiling leave these two last words before she died? Why did she not want to be buried with Chiang Kai-shek at that time, and what kind of hidden feelings did she have in this? Today we will talk about these things together!
After Chiang Kai-shek's death that year, Soong Mei-ling went to the United States accompanied by her niece, and as she grew older and sickly, Song Meiling's physical condition also deteriorated, she was a wise person, she knew that the time left for her by heaven was short, so she called Kong Lingyi to leave her two last words before she died! After saying that, he died at the age of 106, so the death of Song Meiling is also a joy and mourning! However, the two last words she left behind made the younger generations puzzled, especially the second one, which could not help but make people wonder, was she and Chiang Kai-shek already in love? He even left his last words and did not want to be buried with her husband, Chiang Kai-shek!
For ordinary people, after death, they will choose to be buried with their lovers, the purpose of which is to hope that the feelings of the two can continue, and then be husband and wife in the next life, the most cruel punishment of the ancient emperor to the empress is not to be buried, so it can be seen that the joint burial is still of great significance! Therefore, before his death, Chiang Kai-shek told his son to wait for Soong Meiling for a hundred years before he must bury himself and Soong Meiling together! However, when she arrived here, Song Meiling was unwilling, she insisted on burying herself in the United States, unwilling to return to China and even more unwilling to be buried with Chiang Kai-shek! Talking about this, I believe some people will ask, then why is Song Meiling, who was once in love with Chiang Kai-shek, unwilling to be buried with Chiang Kai-shek? What are the hidden secrets? Next, let's analyze the reasons for this!
We all know that when Song Meiling had just returned to China, she met Chiang Kai-shek at a banquet, and although Chiang Kai-shek was already married at that time, he still fell at the moment of seeing Soong Mei-ling, and couldn't help but fall in love with Soong Mei-ling, and after learning that she was the precious daughter of the local rich and powerful Song family, she was even more devoted, desperately wanting to marry Soong Mei-ling home! Because from any point of view, as long as Chiang Kai-shek could marry the daughter of the Song family at that time, it would be a strong alliance, which would be of great help to the consolidation and promotion of his later status, which is why many people would say that the combination of Chiang Kai-shek and Soong Meiling was a political marriage, without any emotional color!
At first, after Chiang Kai-shek expressed his intentions, he was not only opposed by the Soong family, but also rejected by Soong Meiling, who at that time did not look up to Chiang Kai-shek's whirring personality, but later Chiang Kai-shek invited the eldest daughter of the Soong family to be a rescuer, so under the persuasion of the eldest sister, Song Meiling saw Chiang Kai-shek's advantages and understood the advantages of marrying Chiang Kai-shek! At this point, the good deeds of the two can be done! And it is worth mentioning that in order to successfully marry Soong Meiling, Chiang Kai-shek also tricked his wife into studying abroad, and then published the news of his divorce in the newspaper, which can be said to be a very good trick! By the time his wife knew the truth, it was too late, and Chiang Kai-shek on the other side had already held a grand wedding in Shanghai with Soong Mei Ling!
Moreover, Chiang Kai-shek and Soong Mei-ling had a very interesting experience, or tribulation, before they got married! Let's explain it in detail to you! Most of the reason why Chiang Kai-shek fell in love with Soong Mei Ling, who returned to China at first sight, was because his appearance and temperament were both outstanding, standing in the crowd and looking so different, it was completely an appearance with his own light! At that time, Chiang Kai-shek did not know that Song Meiling, who had returned to China at this time, had been living abroad for eight years, so she would have a different temperament from domestic women!
After returning to China, Song Meiling quickly gained a foothold in the circle of celebrities in Shanghai with her appearance and knowledge, and was liked and sought after by many people, and the suitors behind her were endless! You must know that at that time, the combination of Western beauty and Eastern beauty was extremely difficult! And Chiang Kai-shek, who saw Soong Mei Ling at the banquet at that time, was naturally no exception! And as everyone knows, there is another very important reason why Chiang Kai-shek must not be Soong Meiling, that is, the powerful Song family behind Soong Meiling!
At that time, Chiang Kai-shek, who was first with Soong Mei Ling, did not have a later status, and could only be regarded as a small achievement, and Chiang Kai-shek was a man of affection, seeing a love one was famous in Shanghai Beach! After knowing the general situation, Song Meiling is naturally unwilling, after all, her dream is to marry a big hero! In addition, the Song family was not willing to marry their daughter to such a man who had no great achievements, so they tried their best to prevent Chiang Kai-shek from pursuing!
For a moment, Chiang Kai-shek felt that he had little hope, but at this time, the appearance of Song Ailing made him rekindle his fighting spirit! Song Ailing is different from other Song family members, she very much agreed to marry Song Meiling to Chiang Kai-shek, in Song Ailing's view, Chiang Kai-shek is a material that can be built, and will become a great instrument in the future, so she personally went into battle to persuade the little sister, and after some persuasion, Song Meiling really agreed to see Chiang Kai-shek everywhere! In this way, the two ushered in an official meeting!
At this meeting, Song Meiling abandoned her previous views on Chiang Kai-shek and chose to re-acquaint herself with Chiang Kai-shek! Slowly in the process of getting along, Song Meiling fell in love with the heroic Chiang Kai-shek, and in Song Meiling's view, Chiang Kai-shek was the true son of heaven in his mind! And in the process of exchanges, Song Meiling also felt Chiang Kai-shek's ambition, she understood that chiang kai-shek in the future is bound to have a big cause, and she can't help but fantasize about the future appearance of the two! After this, the relationship between the two began to communicate with each other, and each speech contained thoughts about each other, especially Chiang Kai-shek, a veteran of the love field, who did not have the appearance of before when facing Song Meiling, but became obedient and shy, which also made Song Meiling fall in love with it!
As the two of them get along longer and longer, Chiang Kai-shek's position in Soong Mei-ling's heart becomes more and more important, and the most satisfying point for Soong Mei-ling is that here in Chiang Kai-shek, she is no longer a vase in his population, but has real value, and in her interactions with Chiang Kai-shek, she also feels Chiang Kai-shek's respect and love for him! Rather than being lovers, the two are rather each other's confidants! But just when the two of you and I were nong, Mother Song couldn't see it anymore and directly came forward to block it!
You must know that the two were together at that time, except for Song Ailing's consent, Song's father and Mother Song did not agree, so watching Chiang Kai-shek and Song Meiling's feelings grow deeper and deeper, Mother Song couldn't sit still! In order to separate the two, Mother Song brought Song Meiling to Japan, so that there can be no more contact between the two, at first this method was more effective, the two did not have contact for a while, but Chiang Kai-shek is not a vegetarian, and it was not long before Song Meiling saw Chiang Kai-shek's thoughts about her published in the newspaper, which made Mother Song and Song Meiling moved! Later, in order to get Song Meiling's mother to agree to marry Song Meiling to herself, she also publicly published a newspaper saying that she only had two sons and no wife, and Song Meiling would be her only wife!
But that's not all! Chiang Kai-shek knew very well that Mother Song was a powerful character and could never easily marry his daughter to him, so he, a person who never believed in any religion and only believed in himself, was willing to follow Mother Song in order to gain Mother Song's trust! In this way, under the crazy offensive of Chiang Kai-shek and the insistence of Soong Mei-ling, Mother Song softened her heart and agreed to this marriage!
After that, Chiang Kai-shek and Soong Mei-ling held a sensational wedding in Shanghai, and celebrities from all walks of life were invited to the wedding scene! In the eyes of others, such a combination is a strong union! After marriage, many people are not optimistic about this relationship, thinking that they are just a political marriage without emotion at all! But Chiang Kai-shek and Soong Mei-ling punched everyone in the face with practical actions! After the marriage, the two went out of pairs, and Chiang Kai-shek also restrained his previous wandering personality, single-mindedly being good to Song Meiling, as long as it was what Song Meiling wanted, he would give it all! If I had to describe it in one sentence, it would be that if Soong Mei Ling wanted stars, Chiang Kai-shek would give her the moon with him! Not only that, Chiang Kai-shek is even more fond of Song Meiling, and here in Chiang Kai-shek, Song Meiling is still the carefree Song family baby before marriage!
The two became a model couple in the Republic of China period! Of course, after marrying Soong Mei-ling, Chiang Kai-shek obtained huge resources from the Song family, and his career was also rising! Slowly Chiang Kai-shek became a powerful figure at that time, after the death of Sun Yat-sen, Chiang Kai-shek's power became more and more powerful, and then Song Meiling also began to assist Chiang Kai-shek with his own knowledge, often accompanied Chiang Kai-shek to attend some diplomatic activities, and used his proficiency in foreign languages and super social skills to help Chiang Kai-shek solve many major troubles and bring a lot of assistance!
The reason why the United States was willing to aid Chiang Kai-shek at that time was entirely because of Song Meiling, which shows that Song Meiling is also a woman with real strength, not an empty vase! And in order to consolidate Chiang Kai-shek's position, Soong Mei-ling also used all his connections and strength to help Chiang Kai-shek form China's first air force, which is one of the main reasons why Chiang Kai-shek became the boss of the Kuomintang later!
After becoming the boss of the Kuomintang, Chiang Kai-shek gradually lost his original intention, after the end of the War of Resistance Against Japan, in order to strengthen his own strength and become the real boss, he launched a civil war, and for a time the Kuomintang and the Communist Party became enemies, which made countless Chinese people sad, after all, the foreign war just came to the civil war, only to war, the injured are innocent people! Fortunately, this civil war did not last too long, and in 1949, Chiang Kai-shek was defeated and fled to Taiwan, and his position of strength was much worse than before! Under these circumstances, Soong Mei Ling still did not abandon Chiang Kai-shek!
After going to Taiwan, Song Meiling had a skin disease because she was not adapted to life in the south, and she was itchy and unbearable, but even so, Song Meiling still did not leave Chiang Kai-shek! After creating people, Song Meiling suffered from breast cancer again, fortunately after treatment, she recovered her life, but this also made Song Meiling understand the importance of life, resolutely quit smoking addiction, even if it is itchy, she does not rely on cigarettes to paralyze herself! After Chiang Kai-shek's death, Soong Mei-ling was determined to leave Taiwan to live in the United States! Since then, there has been very little news about Song Meiling!
Later, the American reporter exposed that Song Meiling had said two last words to her niece Kong Lingyi before her death! The first is not to enter the tomb of the Song family, and the second is not to be buried with Chiang Kai-shek! The first one we can actually understand, after all, the daughter who marries out spills out the water, as long as she marries Out Song Meiling, she is not eligible to re-enter the Song family ancestral grave! But the second last word made everyone wonder, and even doubted that she had already broken up with Chiang Kai-shek. In fact, there are four extremely critical reasons why Soong Mei-ling is reluctant to be buried with Chiang Kai-shek! First, Song Meiling has chosen a cemetery in the United States and does not want to toss back and forth, plus she believes in Christianity, advocates freedom, and does not want to be bound by rules after death!
The second reason is because the situation in Taiwan is too turbulent! After Chiang Ching-kuo's death, Taiwan was taken over by a white-eyed wolf with a wolf's heart and lungs, who violated the idea of one China and was extremely disrespectful to Chiang Kai-shek's family, even the statue of Chiang Kai-shek was not well preserved, for which Song Meiling once returned to Taiwan with his theory, but in exchange for it was detained, which made Song Meiling understand that if she returned to China after her death, the body would certainly not be treated kindly!
Then there is the third reason, and this third reason comes from Soong Mei Ling's guilt for Chiang Kai-shek! The two have been married for many years, although they have always loved each other, but they have not had a son and a half daughter, which makes Song Meiling feel very guilty and has no face to be buried with Chiang Kai-shek!
Finally, there is the fourth and most important reason! Before chiang kai-shek died, he hoped that he could return to his roots, so after his death, Chiang Kai-shek's body was eventually buried in his hometown! But in Song Meiling's view, if she wants to be buried with Chiang Kai-shek, it means that she will also return to Chiang Kai-shek's hometown, but in Chiang Kai-shek's hometown, his original wife is still buried, which makes Soong Meiling very awkward, so even if they love each other, they are not willing to be buried with Chiang Kai-shek!
Of course, the above four reasons are also the speculation of posterity! As for the real reason, only Song Meiling herself knows! But the only thing that is certain is that the love between Soong Mei Ling and Chiang Kai-shek so far is unswerving to death! Otherwise, Chiang Kai-shek would not have let Song Meiling live a life of fine clothes and jade food at the most difficult time, and he and his subordinates would have cut down on food and clothing! Of course, if it were not for love, Song Meiling would not have left Chiang Kai-shek to return to the Song family or find another new person after Chiang Kai-shek went to the wilderness three times! In general, the relationship between the two is still worth learning and admiring! So why do you think Soong Mei-ling is reluctant to be buried with Chiang Kai-shek? Feel free to leave your guess in the comments section!