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The hardest job in the world is to become a qualified mom and dad, especially in the face of newborns who can't speak, how to take care of them has become the biggest problem.
If you cause harm to your baby because of a momentary omission, you may regret it for a lifetime!
The mother's negligence harms the child's small hand swollen into an eggplant, and this kind of baby-raising negligence is harmful, and no one should commit it
Come to see such a shocking news: a little baby in Hunan who was only born one day, because of her mother's wrong way of dressing, almost suffered amputation!
It turned out that the temperature had recently been low, and the mother was worried that the child would get cold when she slept with her arm exposed, so she kindly tied a rubber band to the baby's left arm. But the careless mother forgot this little thing in the blink of an eye.
Until the next morning, dad found out that the baby came out, and the original white and tender fingers became black and purple like eggplants. The family rushed to the hospital, and after examination by the doctor, it was found that the baby's entire upper left arm was swollen, the fingers were black, and there were signs of necrosis locally.
The culprit of all this is the rubber band that the mother tied to the baby! Long-term binding leads to poor blood circulation in the baby, which leads to swelling of the limbs.
After 5 days of treatment, the baby's blackened arm finally recovered, avoiding the bad luck of being cut off. Seeing the baby's still red and swollen arm in the picture is really shocking and painful. The mistakes of parents, but the children to bear, is really emotional.
Although the winter is getting colder, you should pay attention to keep warm, but such a young baby, its movement range is not too large, the mother's kindness, almost made an irreparable mistake! In addition to not tying a rubber band to the baby, you also need to pay attention to whether the baby's fingers and toes are entangled with the thread.
For example, wearing gloves and foot covers on a child is an incorrect behavior, which not only hinders the development of the child's hands and feet, but is more likely to have lines wrapped around the toes of the hands and feet.
Many parenting specialists do not recommend giving gloves to newborns, and recommend turning over the socks to wear them, which can minimize the situation of entanglement of hands and feet and toes. If you are worried that your child will unconsciously scratch yourself, parents and friends can cut their nails frequently for the baby in their daily lives.
Finally, the doctor specially reminds parents and friends: the newborn's body is underdeveloped in all aspects, and the nursing work needs special attention, do not take it lightly!
In the final analysis, the suffering of the baby in the above article is not only related to the carelessness and wrong operation of the parents, but also has a certain relationship with the lack of parenting knowledge and the purchase of infant clothing skills.
Taking care of the baby is heavy, food, clothing, shelter and transportation need to be careful, and the baby's common sense of choosing clothes should be remembered!
Style: Newborn baby, cervical spine is not yet fully developed, neck muscles are soft and weak. Therefore, try not to choose a pullover outfit. The clothing selection standards for newborns are mainly convenient to wear and take off and comfort. Mom can choose a cute set of monk clothes for the baby, which is convenient for putting on and taking off and changing diapers.
Here is a reminder: it is not recommended to wear intimate clothing with hands or feet for the baby, if the quality of such clothing is not up to standard, it is easy to strangle the baby's fingers or toes with threads.
Look at the appearance: buy clothes for the baby, there are also tips! Usually, dark clothes contain more chemical dyes, and the skin of young babies is delicate, so in order to avoid irritating the skin, please try to choose light-colored clothes.
When buying clothing for your baby, you should also smell it closely, and if you find that the clothes have a pungent smell, do not buy it as much as possible, these odors are most likely caused by excessive chemical residues.
Material selection: the baby is not only delicate skin, but also prone to allergies, when choosing intimate clothing for the baby, be sure to choose light and soft cotton products. For close-fitting clothing, be sure to choose Category A.
When you start a piece of clothing, you should not only consider the style and price, but also pay attention to the details
Workmanship: Judging the quality of a piece of clothing, in addition to the material, the workmanship is also quite important. We must fully observe whether the thread of this dress is not a lot, and whether the edges are smooth.
Decoration: Beautiful decoration, can add a lot of color to the clothes, but for the choice of baby clothing, try to choose a simple decoration, and do not have small beads and sequins, to avoid the baby accidentally eaten. In addition, do not choose a top with a drawstring and tie, which may strangle the baby's limbs and neck, which is a potential safety hazard.
Observe the cuffs and pants cuffs: the baby's clothing choice, not only to be comfortable, but also to pay attention to safety, can not have a closed coil or a long thread, to avoid the occurrence of entanglement of fingers and toes.
Parenting is a systematic project, as a parent, not only to adapt to the role of the change, learn more parenting knowledge, take care of the baby in the process of more caution, try to avoid possible negligence and omission.