"Share today" Between us, no connection is the best relationship

A friend once told me that the opposite of love is not hate, but indifference.

Yes, the real end of a relationship is not some hysterical roar, or a collapse on the verge of despair, but a silent alienation.

You no longer pay attention to his dynamics, no longer angry and angry, and no longer howl and cry.

Even if I keep WeChat, I don't contact it anymore. This is not to forgive the other person, but to let yourself go.

I went to a wedding on the weekend, a wedding that, for me, said goodbye to was from the past. The protagonist of this wedding, who was once my whole world, is now another girl's life.

That's right, the protagonist is my ex.

I was also curious as to why I had received his invitation, but it did lie on my desk at the moment.

I opened the WeChat address book and found that it had been exactly four years since the last chat.

The content was sent by him: don't go back at night, you go to bed early.

I'm sure we didn't even say a word of "break up" at the beginning, just like this in the flow of time, each of us was fine.

We were in love for three years, and when we graduated, we came to Shenzhen together and vowed to take root in the city and live a more dignified life.

It was a hard time, but it was really happy because both people were fighting for the same future.

Probably, Heaven saw our efforts.

He was getting busier and busier, I was complaining more and more, one didn't understand, one didn't explain, and the distance was getting farther and farther away.

On the day of the real breakup, I was extremely calm, packed up all my things, put down the keys, and left without looking back.

After that day, we didn't contact again.

Every firm abandonment is a countless disappointments.

A pool of stagnant water is hopeless.

I sat at the banquet, the bride and groom raised a glass on the stage and looked at me, and I smiled and drank the farewell to the past.

Back home, I canceled the "don't see his circle of friends" setting.

There is a kind of waiting, called the coming day can be expected.

There is a kind of departure called after the indefinite period.

Not only love, but also friendship.

Everyone who is determined not to contact again has been disappointed countless times.

Enough disappointment, it was time to turn around and leave.

Can't go back?

Can't go back.

That dark time, I survived alone.

Some people, walking and walking, disperse, you have to ask me the reason, I tell you, there is no reason.

Today's silence is not because I have really forgotten, but I know that I can't go back. Don't delete WeChat, no longer contact, just because I let myself go.

I also finally understood that between us, no connection is the best relationship.

Life is bitter, rather than dying, it is better to forget. Life is long, it is better to let go than to remember hate.