Have you ever heard this saying from the ancients: A leaf falls and you know that autumn is coming?
What does it mean, a leaf is falling, indicating that autumn has arrived.
The ancients were very wise, and through this natural knowledge, we were told that we must learn to "reason", and we can judge the development trend and result of a thing through individual subtle signs.
This philosophy has a wide range of applications, such as for heterosexual interactions, does the other party like me, or hate me? If you can observe carefully, you can figure it out from the subtle stubs.
Love, when you meet the right person, is "staying together for a lifetime"; not meeting the right person is "one shot and two scatters".
Just say "break up", the fate is gone, or the feelings are gone, a person to the other side to make it clear or good, what is annoying is that Ta drags on. The other party has "changed his heart", and he is still "sweet honey".
Therefore, we must have a clear understanding of our "love" and her words and deeds. Be able to grasp his heart.
Of course, sometimes a person in "hot love", the heart up and down are occupied by Ta, never thought that Ta will "change his heart". Naturally, there is no sign.
There is an ancient poem: I don't know the true face of Lushan Mountain, only because I am in this mountain. ——I don't feel the change, in fact, it is because I am still a "party".
Here's a look at girls. Once a girl likes a boy, even if she has a "sensitive" personality before, she will be "dull" at this time, and if she does not know the man's "empathy", she cannot "cut off the love thread" early.
So men treat you in these three things, which means that they don't love you, really, don't be stupid and don't know.
1. He suddenly stopped messaging you
If you were a girl, what would you do if the boy liked it? I think he must have been "in constant contact".
For example, in the morning, he sends you a message: Have you gotten up, and then before you get to work, he sends a message again: Start working, right?
Then there are all kinds of "concern" messages: it is cold, pay attention to clothing; pay attention to safety on the road...
In fact, this message is not just a "message", it is "love".
There is a person in the heart, and the expression of love is uncontrollable and uncontrollable. He can't see what you want to see, he wants you to get your "news".
And he has no "love", you are no longer in his heart, his "attention" has turned to other places, naturally there will be no mind to contact you.
So, men have less contact with you, just don't love you anymore.
2. He suddenly "cuts"
Boys like girls, they want to see girls happy, in order to reflect their "bold" spirit, they will express themselves materially.
For example, when two people go to dinner, he rushes to pay the bill.
For example, he offered to buy gifts for girls.
Some time ago, a person said "blind date to pay", saying that if the boy is satisfied with the girl, he will go to the checkout. If you are not satisfied, you will propose "AA".
In fact, it is the male and female students in "hot love", the boy's emotions have changed, and his "generosity" will disappear. The two encountered scenes involving consumption, and he was unwilling to pay for it.
It is that he suddenly became "cut".
"Love" is no longer there for him, he has no intention of pleasing the girl, and he is not willing to "invest" in this relationship.
Therefore, when men suddenly become "cut", they just don't love you.
3. He suddenly becomes "mysterious"
When a boy still loves girls, in addition to caring for girls, he is also willing to tell her his "whereabouts".
For example, he went on a business trip the next day and wanted to give a "report" to the girl;
For example, he goes to a party at night and gives a "request" to the girls.
This is to reassure the girl about his safety, but also to tell the girl that he is "loyal" to her and that there is no mess.
And when the boy no longer loves her, his whereabouts begin to be "mysterious", for example, the girl asked him: "Where did you go last night?" ”
The boy will behave very annoyed: "You care about me, I have a problem." ”
The girl asked again: "On the weekend, what are your arrangements?" ”
The boy would say, "A lot of things, it's busy..." What is the specific thing, he doesn't say anything.
If you love someone, you treat each other with sincerity; if you don't love, you treat each other as "false".
He no longer tells the girl his "arrangement", that is, he already has the mind that he does not want the girl to know.
Therefore, he suddenly became "mysterious", that is, he no longer loved her.