In this life, people say that the long is not long, and the short is not short, how can they live freely and freely?
The key lies in mentality, as long as we have a peaceful mindset, our lives will not be bad.
In short, what kind of mentality a person has, what kind of pattern will there be, and what kind of fate will be achieved.
There are nine times out of ten things that are not satisfactory in life, old age, illness and death, love and hate, and unavoidable, who can hide from it?
With a good attitude, the worries will be infinitely reduced, the happy things will be infinitely magnified, and life will be easy and happy.
People with a good mentality can put everything down and see openly, not pessimistic and disappointed, not resentful, and their fortunes will change accordingly.
Where is the happiness of those who live in complaints and sighs? Where is the happiness of those who live in anger and sorrow?
Who doesn't have a chicken feather in their life, and who doesn't have a time of crisis in their work? Who doesn't have a time of helplessness in their feelings?
Why not calm down, relax, think more about positive and beautiful things, and often forget the painful and annoying things?
If you don't think about it, there will be a lot less bad things in life; learn to forget, and all kinds of troubles will drift away with the wind.
Where there are so many whys in the world, how to do so many, there is no need to chase the problem to the bottom.
Don't think about things you don't understand; things that don't make sense, it's better to simply forget them.
It is not a good thing to be confused, and the spacer veil between people is not indispensable, and it is necessary to know that the water is clear without fish, and people are clear without friends.
Maintaining a certain distance between people may be more attractive; maintaining a certain sense of mystery between things may be more convincing.
The right answer is sometimes not a good thing, true or false, false and real, and perhaps the ending will be more satisfactory.
In this life, people are unpredictable, the past cannot be recovered, the future is unpredictable, and the only thing we can control is the present.
Cherishing the good times you have now and living the ordinary days in front of you is the most important thing at the moment.
Only by believing in the good can we meet the beautiful; only by working hard to live can we achieve happiness.
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Wen Ling, a freelance writer, has her works in major newspapers and online platforms. This article is the author's original and reprinted with the author's permission.