In this life, if you can win the hearts of a person and accompany you to old age, you will have no regrets. But some people, although very emotional, you can't love, the reason is in the following dialogue, you can't think of it at all.
In the TV series "Being the Head of the House", Shen Cuixi prepared to inquire about Wei Lianggong's intentions for Shu Fang, to see if she had the heart to marry Shu Fang, but was rejected by Wei Lianggong.
Wei Lianggong said, "In my heart, I have always been thinking about one person, so I can no longer tolerate anyone else." It's just that she loves something else. After Shen Cuixi heard this, she said, "Then you can't be together." Wei Lianggong then said, "That can't delay the feelings of others." After all, whether two people have feelings or not is related to the happiness of a lifetime. ”
Therefore, Wei Lianggong hoped that Shen Cuixi would not mention this matter again, but Shen Cuixi felt that Wei Lianggong did not need to do so, so she also planned to continue to persuade Wei Lianggong.
But Wei Lianggong said: "The deeper the love becomes thinner, the more deeply the person, the more ruthless and unjust." In a person's heart, if there is a person who thinks about it, even if others have a thousand kinds of kindness and gentleness, he will become deaf and blind, and he will not be able to see or hear, but if he hurts people, he can come by hand. I have been hurt by people who have a deep affection, and I know how much pain and pain there is, and since I know it, why should I drag those innocent people into this pit of fire? Love is better than death. ”
In Wei Lianggong's view, if a person has another person in his heart, he will no longer be good to others, so he does not want Shufang girl to live an emotionless and unhappy life with him, which is a kind of torture for Shufang girl.
If there is really a person in your heart, loving someone, then others really don't matter, even if you feel that you should be nice to her, but your heart can't do it, you can't give your gentleness and thoughtfulness, your care and care to the person you don't love at all, even if you feel guilty, blame yourself, you force yourself, but you just can't do it.
So, if you see a person who is a person with heavy feelings, have seen how good he is to others, and you feel that you will be very happy with him, then you are wrong.
Just because he's good to others doesn't mean he's good to you. You see him being nice to others just because he loves that person deeply. If he doesn't love you in his heart, even if you're barely with him, you won't get what you want.
Some people are very emotional, but if they don't love you, it is impossible to be good to you.
There is no way to transfer feelings from one person to another casually, and it is not that you are better than the person he loves, he will definitely be good to you. Emotional things, usually unclear, unclear, fall in love, is in love, do not love, is not love.
Maybe you spent a long time not to understand why he was so good to another person, but ignored you, ignored it?
Just like in the TV series "Being the Housewife", Shen Cuixi couldn't understand why Ren Xuetang could be so good to Zeng Baoqin, even if Zeng Baoqin's family had a change later, she had gone to prison and also went to the courtyard, he still had a deep affection for her as always, and not only couldn't see what he was doing, but he didn't even have a good word?
Shen Cuixi may feel that he is not good enough, so he will not be liked by Ren Xuetang. So she tried to take care of the business, manage the family's affairs, and try to learn the skill of silk, but she found that no matter how hard she tried, it was useless, and Ren Xuetang's heart was still on Zeng Baoqin's body.
When Shen Cuixi heard the words that Wei Lianggong said to her, she immediately understood completely, she thought of being with Ren Xuetang before, but Ren Xuetang only had Zeng Baoqin in mind, and she couldn't help but cry.
Only then did she suddenly realize that there were people who could be nice to others, but not good to themselves. It turns out that in the eyes of people who don't love you, everything you say and do is not important, and he can't see it at all, and he won't care.
Perhaps from that moment on, Shen Cuixi's heart gradually let go, she began to stop thinking about those things in the past, she knew that from now on, she no longer needed to suffer so much for someone who did not love herself.
Shen Cuixi lives in such a marriage, is she sad? Painful? Of course, she would be sad and miserable, but there was nothing she could do, she just couldn't make Ren Xuetang fall in love with her.
Love, not by hard work can be obtained, love is a feeling, is one day, you meet a person, you think he is good, you find a heartwarming feeling in him, you long to be with him.
Obviously, when Ren Xuetang was with Shen Cuixi, it was not because he had this feeling of heartbeat, but because Shen Cuixi was begging for it. The person he has in his heart is always Zeng Baoqin.
Therefore, if a person does not love you, no matter how good he is, do not love, if you are still in love, you can not choose to be together, once together, you can only experience his ruthlessness, only his hurt to you.
Some people, do not belong to you, do not force, you know, in this world, there will always be a person who agrees with you, but some people meet earlier, and some people meet later, but they will meet.
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