Text/Flying Fish
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People live a lifetime, in fact, the biggest opponent is just their own obsession.
Love and hate, success or failure, no matter how tossing and turning and fickle, face life and death, through a thousand sails, only relief.
The greatest meaning of life is actually to learn to be relieved, to be relieved of the past, to be relieved of the present, and to be relieved of the future. No matter what happens, always face it with a peaceful state of mind, all the gains and losses, sorrows and joys, only when you are relieved, can you live openly.
It is not easy to be relieved, it is only after experiencing many things that you slowly become enlightened, slowly put it down, slowly open your heart, and let yourself relax.
The highest state of life is actually the word liberation.
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When you are in life all the way through the thorns, all the way to the wind and frost rain and snow, all the way ups and downs, all the way to cry and cry. No one hurts, no one loves, no one can rely on, finally can't help it, you cry out loud at home, can't help but ask God, why is your fate so difficult?
In fact, people are difficult to live. No matter how difficult life is, we don't have to say give up, don't think about not opening, we must calmly accept everything in life, good, bad, in fact, will pass, life must learn to be relieved.
People who live thoroughly are actually learning to be relieved of life, the world, and themselves.
Relief is an attitude and a state of mind.
Letting go of oneself is a kind of relief, perfecting others is a kind of relief, letting go of the past is a kind of relief.
Death is actually very easy, but living, is always very difficult, in the difficult world, only by learning to be relieved, can we reach the meaning of life, to reach the realm of life.
In this life, it is impossible to be perfect, it is impossible to do everything as you wish, when you see through everything and think clearly, you can be relieved and let go.
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I like this sentence very much: "Let everything go naturally, and the water will come to fruition, like the black oak in front of the window, between self-birth and self-fall, there is a round and plump joy." ”
When people learn to be relieved, the heart will not be so tired.
The reason why many people live so tired is actually because there are too many attachments in their hearts, and the desires in their hearts are difficult to satisfy.
Li Zhao in "The Housewife", since he joined forces with those people, the greed in his heart has become more and more difficult to satisfy.
More importantly, he saved money for the people he liked since he was a child, thinking that when he had money and ability, the other party would be willing to follow him.
Fate is destined, not your people, always get it. Li Zhao's lifelong love for his master's daughter Zeng Baoqin, when Zeng Baoqin's family was sold to the courtyard after a disaster, Li Xiang saved money little by little for her, wanting to redeem her.
When I had enough money, I was still one step too late.
Li Zhao's obsession with Zeng Baoqin will listen to the words of villains, greedy for money, bribes, etc., and let his life path become narrower and narrower.
After being finally reported, Li Zhao stepped down and was exiled to the military camp, Zeng Baoqin went to see him, and he also said to Zeng Baoqin, "Before, I never slept a good night's sleep, until now, my heart has been put down, and I have slept soundly."
If a person has been doing bad things for a long time, then his heart will definitely be tortured. And only when you let go of the obsession in your heart and are relieved, can you slowly come out and take the right path, can you return to normal life, and can you get the sincere treatment of others.
After Li Zhao lost his position, he also woke up completely, Zeng Baoqin is the person he loved all his life, and only by completing and letting go is the best love. Love is not possessive, nor is it forced, only by respecting each other's choices, so that the relationship between two people is good.
When Li Zhao was relieved, his heart was relaxed and he could sleep well. Even if you have nothing, you have the courage to start over.
Therefore, relief is the essence of life, in order to make yourself better and better.
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The highest state of life is the word liberation. Only by relieving everything can we live well, live better, live ourselves, and live the life we want.
Shen Cuixi in "The Housewife", the first half of his life is for others, always tying himself under the standards of others, but he forgot to love himself and forgot to give himself the life he wanted.
That's because she longed for the approval of others in her heart, and when she was a child, she wanted to get the approval of her master mother, so she desperately tried to learn silk, be strict with herself, and let herself be self-disciplined. When he grew up, he wanted to win the love and appreciation of his husband, so he always did a cuixi in the eyes of others.
However, time has changed, and things are not human. When she experienced life and death and ups and downs, Shen Cuixi never got the love of her husband and longed for love, until she met a teaching gentleman, and she had a definition of her life.
Shen Cuixi, in the end, chose to leave with her husband, and did not want to be helped by her husband anymore, so she relied on her own ability to stand on her own feet and become independent. Then use what you have learned in your life to teach it to more people.
Shen Cuixi was relieved of love, relieved of all the good and bad in life, and finally chose his favorite way, no longer to be a grandmother, but to be a Shen lady, the rest of his life is long, with silk as a companion, with teaching as a friend, with the heart, with the encounter, let the years be quiet.
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In "The Lost One", it is written: "When I want to be a poet, I lose poetry. I think when I'm alone, I lose myself. When you don't want anything, everything goes as planned. ”
Many times, the more you care about something, the more you want to get it, the more you don't get it, and the less happiness you have.
However, when you get rid of all the materialistic distractions in your mind and open up a lotus flower in purity, then the way you release it will be very beautiful and relaxed.
Relief is the ease of putting down after lifting the weight. Relief is a sudden enlightenment after reading everything in the world. The open-mindedness after liberation is the realm of life.
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