Author/Pond Fish
Generally speaking, the emotions and thoughts of loving someone cannot be hidden.
Especially for men, if they like a person, most of them will not be as duplicitous as girls, obviously loving in their hearts, but in action, they are doing the opposite of their inner expectations, deliberately using temptation to continuously verify this love.
Men's love is often more straightforward, love is love, no love is no love. Love will want to be together, and in order to achieve this goal, it will continue to make various efforts.
If you don't love, you will subconsciously want to stay away. A person's truest emotions are often not in the words spoken, but hidden in various details of life. Because there are always some people who, for one reason or another, don't choose to tell the truth.
Only in these two cases, a man can't help but contact you because he loves you to the bone.
01. Although he loves deeply, he understands that girls are not willing to continue
In an intimate relationship, the party who loves deeply is mostly the person who thinks a lot. When two people go to a strange road, the party that loves deeply is also the most likely to be unable to fall out of love, and gradually becomes an obsession, and the more this love is deepened in the heart.
However, love can never rely on the efforts and affection of only one person, but needs two people to go in both directions, when each other are working hard for a relationship, this relationship can go farther and farther.
Sometimes, letting go is also a kind of fulfillment.
I know a boy who once told me that he liked a girl so much that two years after he kept this thought in his heart, he still couldn't get out, and no one else could get into his heart.
I asked him, if he loves her so much, why don't you go back to her? He said: "I can't go back, I used to be young and ignorant, she loved me, broke her heart, and then I finally understood and wanted to make up for it, but at this time, no matter what method I used, I couldn't get back the she who once loved me." She said that some things have passed in the past, and she does not want to repeat the mistakes of the past when she has survived the most difficult days alone. ”
He listened to these words at that time, and his feelings were mixed, but he didn't know what else he could do, because he had done his best, but in exchange for the girl's reluctance to turn back, even in the back, the more he pestered, the more the girl hid, constantly deleting and blocking him.
In the end, he could only beg her not to delete herself, to be able to occasionally look at her dynamics and circle of friends, and he also tried his best not to go to her, nor to disturb her life, hoping to see her find her own happiness. In this way, he can also rest assured.
Some people say that the affection that comes belatedly is cheaper than the grass.
Unfortunately, the people who can learn to cherish at one time in love really do not occupy the majority, and many people are only eating a long and wise one after experiencing regrets to lose, and in the days to come, try not to make the mistakes they once made. But at the same time, there are also people who have been trapped in the memories of the past, unwilling to give this change to another person, just want to wait for the original one to come back, and then make up for it.
Unfortunately, the story in love, the ending of the opposite is really too much.
Not everyone can turn back and wait for a figure standing in the same place. Some people, once missed, may be a lifetime.
02. Two people are completely impossible
In this world, not all encounters are at the right time and place, meeting the right person. There are many encounters that are originally a mistake.
Although it is a mistake, it can happen to happen impartially.
Saw a man's anonymous answer online. He's a guy with a family, but can't help but fall in love with another single girl. They were originally just ordinary friends, he did not think much at first, but then slowly in the acquaintance, the two people really have a common language, very tacit understanding, a look can understand what each other is thinking, they are really moved.
The girl told him what he thought, and since then, he has begun to alienate her, deliberately stopping contacting her, and even deleting her directly later, avoiding her in life and no longer interacting with her.
On the one hand, because he had a family, facing his wife who had accompanied him for nearly ten years, and his 7-year-old daughter, he could not do anything to hurt them; on the other hand, he really loved the girl very much, and his heart was very painful and painful. But because he loved her, he said he couldn't hurt her because of his married status and couldn't give her anything. She was younger than herself and didn't understand many things, but he had lived six more years and should have been more mature than she was.
Since this is the case, it is time to be affectionate, stop being polite, no longer delay her life, and quitting and staying away is the best thing to do.
Not all love can finally be together, and if some love is wrong, it should not continue, because the wrong beginning and process can never deduce a correct result, and the timely stop loss is the real completion of two people.
Unfortunately, although many people understand this truth, there are never a few people who really return to real life and eventually make the wrong choice. Because for more people, in a love is always easy to be greedy, especially in the face of the initiative to send things, but also learn not to refuse, but will hold the psychology of luck, slowly take a wrong step, the next step is the wrong step.
When there is a lie, it needs to be rounded up with countless lies.
A person can clarify his responsibility and really practice this responsibility to the end, which is actually two different things. People who make mistakes in love abound.
People who love you will think about you to a certain extent, and people who don't love you will always consider only their own gains and losses and temporary pleasures.
Any person, when falling in love, not only must have the courage not to give up, but also have the ability to distinguish between right and wrong, and insist on insisting on a wrong relationship, which is originally irresponsible to themselves. Love is very important, but in front of love, there should be more morality and right and wrong, so that it is the right love.
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