Wang Xiaobo said: All human suffering is essentially anger at one's own incompetence

Wang Xiaobo said: All human suffering is essentially anger at one's own incompetence. The nature of anxiety also fits this view: your desires outweigh your abilities and your extreme lack of patience. Anxiety is because the gap between desire and ability is too large.

Such a phrase was once popular on the Internet. When your ambitions can't support your talent, you have to calm down and learn.

We live in a fast-paced era of materialistic desires. We are immersed in our own world, unable to extricate ourselves. The world is like being pressed to speed up, and most people are busy with their hearts and minds. But I rarely calm down and ask myself, "What am I busy with?" ”

There is a story about a young man who, while visiting a market, saw an old man set up a fishing stall, and he provided fishing nets to those who were interested, and the fish caught belonged to the fishmen. The young man was childish for a moment, squatted down to catch fish, and broke three nets in a row, but he did not catch fish.

The old man on the side squinted his eyes and snickered in his heart. The young man said impatiently: "Boss, your net is too thin, almost as soon as it touches the water, it will break, how can those fish be caught?" ”

The old man replied, "Young man, seeing that you are also a person who has studied, how can you not understand?" When you have the idea in your mind to catch the fish that you think is the most beautiful, have you ever looked at whether the fishing net you hold in your hand really has that ability? Pursuit is not a bad thing, but get to know yourself! ”

"But I still think your net is too thin to catch a fish."

"Young man, you don't know the philosophy of fishing yet!" This is the same as the career, love, and money that everyone pursues. When you are obsessed with the goal in front of you, have you ever measured your strength? ”

I believe that many people must have fished, but most people just used it as entertainment, laughed it off, but never really understood the mystery. I've passed many fishing stalls and heard the most common phrase, "That's a lie." ”

Most people always want to spend the least amount of money to buy the best things. Spend the least amount of time reaping more benefits. The so-called one point of hard work and one point of harvest. There has never been a shortage of hard-working people in this world, and in addition to hard work, we also need to reflect on ourselves, whether ambition and ability are compatible.