Text/An Dongyue
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Thousands of worlds, all sentient beings. Everyone has their own look and personality.
Some people are approachable, some people are sword-rattling; some people are optimistic and positive, and some people are pessimistic and negative.
Working life, having to deal with a wide variety of people. Over time, it is inevitable that it will be affected subtly.
The impact is divided into positive impact and negative impact, the key lies in what kind of person you are in contact with for a long time.
Some people say that what kind of person you are with determines the fate of your life.
Although this statement is too absolute, it is not without reason. With diligent people, you will also become diligent and slowly improve; with lazy people, you will also become lazy and slowly lose your fighting spirit.
"Near Zhu is red, near ink is black."
If a person wants to get better and better, he must make friends selectively.
In particular, remember to stay away from those who are full of energy.
Life is not satisfactory, there will always be all kinds of unpleasant things.
Positive people, with a good attitude, always think in the good side of everything, not only know how to comfort themselves and self-regulate, but also bring hope and strength to others.
Negative people, bad mentality, as soon as there is dissatisfaction, complaining, nagging, chattering, not only more and more irritable, but also seriously affect the people around them.
One of my classmates, who is a particularly complaining and full of energy, often sighs and says some very negative words, such as: "It's really tiring to be alive, busy all day, I don't know what the picture is?" ”
Or: "The person who has a good life is always someone else, what does marriage really bring to women?" “
At the beginning, I would comfort her and enlighten her, but she didn't really listen to it once, and every three or five times she complained again, either complaining about her husband's laziness or complaining that her mother-in-law didn't have a good child.
Listening to her complaints too much, causing her to frown involuntarily as soon as she saw her information, and then simply found a reason to avoid and no longer listen to her complaints.
Negative emotions are also called "garbage emotions", and it is a disaster to get along with people who are full of "garbage emotions". If you don't stay away in time, your life will become more and more bleak.
Negative energy people, not worth making friends with, staying away is the wisest choice.
I wonder if you have ever met such a person? As soon as he saw that others were better than himself in some aspects, he sneered and even uttered evil words.
In their world, the excellence and success of others is like a knife inserted in their own hearts. Therefore, they hate in their hearts those who are stronger than themselves and better off than themselves.
Get along with such people, listen to them behind their backs to say the right and wrong of others, you will feel a chill in the back of your spine, and can't help but think about whether they are also saying right and wrong in front of others.
All people who can't see the good of others are inferior in their bones, and people with inferiority are often particularly jealous, and they are only willing to interact with people who are inferior to themselves, so as to fully reflect their sense of superiority.
If one day you clearly outperform them, then your friendship will come to an end.
Inferiority complex, jealousy, and comparison will produce negative energy, which is not only detrimental to personal physical and mental health, but also seriously affects others.
Smart people will stay away from people with negative energy, just to return their own purity.
If you have this kind of person around you who is not good to others, gossips everywhere, and is full of energy, you must keep a distance and must not go too close, otherwise the person who is damaged must be himself.
There is a saying: "The forest is big, and there are all kinds of birds." ”
In the same way, the world is very big, and naturally everyone has it. We can't change others, but we can choose to only make good friends and stay away from losing friends.
The so-called beneficial friends are optimistic and full of positive energy.
The so-called loss of friends is a pessimistic and negative person who is full of negative energy.
If a person wants to improve and become a better self, he must be with people with positive energy. Those who are full of negative energy must stay away. Only by staying away can we not be consumed and not affected.
In life, there are good times and bad times. No one's life has been smooth, and no one's life is satisfactory.
Instead of complaining about fate, it is better to find ways to change fate; instead of seeing others well, it is better to try to make yourself better.
Releasing bad emotions everywhere and spreading negative energy will only make yourself more and more hated and annoying.
The rest of your life is not long, you must stay away from people with negative energy, close to people with positive energy. Only in this way can we become a better version of ourselves.
May you be a person with positive energy, have a good attitude, be positive, and not be afraid of all wind and rain.
May you be like the sun, giving people light, giving people warmth, full of positive energy!
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