preface
In 2015, 39-year-old Li Xiaoran and Xu Jianning, a male girlfriend who had known each other for 17 years, suddenly announced that they were licensed to marry, which surprised everyone, and did not expect a generation of perfect goddesses, past boyfriends were either rich or talented, and finally quietly married a man who had divorced once and looked ordinary and had no name, and this man actually said when proposing: I will give you five hundred million to let you do it!
What did Li Xiaoran go through before he finally chose to marry Xu Jianning, and why was Xu Jianning so arrogant, he could take out five hundred million at will, what was his origin?
All this should start from Li Xiaoran's bumpy and terrifying love history, in her, it truly verifies the sentence "What you value most will also make you hurt the most and will torture you for a lifetime".
01
In 1976, Li Xiaoran was born in a military compound in Beijing, her life from an early age can be described as carefree and free, her father is a pilot, her mother is a doctor, and her family is better than ordinary people.
Li Xiaoran looked at an imported piano, more than 6800, which was a huge amount of money in that era, and his father did not frown a little, went home to sell his beloved motorcycle, and borrowed more than a thousand yuan from relatives, gritted his teeth and bought it for his daughter.
Because of his father's favor, Li Xiaoran has a lively and unrestrained personality from an early age, and when he was a child, he often wore a hurdle vest and large shorts, scurrying around in the alley, and his knees were always full of scabs.
Mom shook her head when she saw her like this, knowing that her mother's plan for her was to hope that she could become a dance artist, and dance ballet on the stage every day with exquisite makeup, but she did not expect that she was more of a tomboy than a tomboy.
In order to let her receive her heart, her mother sent her to dance school, Li Xiaoran, who has superior physical conditions, has long hands, feet and long neck, and is definitely a good seedling for learning dance, if it is well cultivated, maybe she can really become a dance master in the future.
Unfortunately, Li Xiaoran was born lazy, and in the North Dance Annex, she slept every day, and her classmate Li Xin was her "spokesperson for leave".
Li Xin said that Li Xiaoran's parents often bought her very foreign clothes, and at that time they bought flared jeans, which we all liked very much, and sometimes Pu Xiaoran's father would also buy me one.
Li Xin became Li Xiaoran's loyal sister and covered for her to take leave of absence.
With the increase of age, Li Xiaoran is getting more and more beautiful, especially the fair skin is white and flawless, and she is always the brightest one in the group photo with her classmates, which naturally attracts the attention of many male students.
According to Li Xiaoran's classmates, in the 7 years of North Dance, Li Xiaoran talked about 3 boyfriends, which can be said to be the beginning of the love sinus earlier, but starting to fall in love so early did not give Li Xiaoran much emotional experience, but because he was too young, every relationship ended in failure, so that Li Xiaoran always suffered from gain and loss in his future feelings, so that there was a bit of "love brain".
People say that what you value most is bound to hurt you and hinder your success. This sentence is too right for her, if it were not too much emphasis on feelings, those things that followed would not have happened.
02
After 7 years of study, he finished his career and successfully entered the Oriental Song and Dance Troupe, it can be said that in addition to his feelings, Li Xiaoran's life is really smooth sailing, and he meets nobles everywhere.
Entering the Oriental Song and Dance Troupe in that era was the best choice, and only 3 students in Li Xiaoran's class were selected, and it was here that she met Chen Kun, the first noble person in her life.
Soon after they met, Chen Kun was admitted to the Beijing Film Academy and filmed TV dramas, while Li Xiaoran still stayed in the Oriental Song and Dance Troupe, occasionally picking up advertisements to earn extra money, and the rest of the time he played with his boyfriend at the time, rented a house, played games at home together, and played games for two days and three nights.
She also tried to enter the show business circle like Chen Kun, but because she couldn't act at all, she could only run the dragon set.
In 1997, in the drama "The Case of Shuang Fengqi", Li Xiaoran played The Autumn Ju of Ya Gui, and the actor who played her opposite at that time was Xu Jianning.
In order to play a good couple, the two also met a special side to eat a meal, Xu Jianning fell in love with this white little girl at that time, but Li Xiaoran and her boyfriend were in love at the time, and did not regard Xu Jianning as the opposite sex at all, and only cared about eating spicy chicken.
One day Chen Kun called her, asked her to come out to dinner and said that there was a job to introduce to her, after Li Xiaoran went, he found that there was a strange man who was also there, he was director Zhao Baogang, at that time he was preparing to shoot "Like Fog Like Rain and Like Wind", Chen Kun introduced Li Xiaoran to play the dancer Anqi.
Although there is no experience in acting, but Sheng in the temperament is calm, elegant appearance, and can dance, very in line with the role of Anqi, Zhao Baogang decided to let her try.
I didn't expect this attempt to make Zhao Bao tough enough to not do it, he had the heart to cultivate her, but this little girl was full of love and love, thinking about her boyfriend in a different place all day, as soon as she had time, she would run back to the date, and the money earned was also called back to the boyfriend, and her mind was completely out of the crew.
Zhao Baogang, who was angry, said directly in an interview: "This little girl is in love, loves to play, and acts without hesitation. ”
03
But even if Li Xiaoran is so good to her boyfriend, the boyfriend still empathizes with her when she is filming, and after the broadcast of "Like Fog Like Rain and Like Wind", Chen Kun, Luo Haiqiong, and Zhou Xun are all on fire, and the invitation is soft, only Li Xiaoran, because the acting skills are too poor, did not become popular.
But at that time, she felt that acting was more suitable for herself than dancing, and because she was deeply hurt, she chose to sink her heart to hone, in two years, running dragon sets in various crews, carefully watching the performances of the protagonists, pondering the lines, and gradually forming her own set of performance models, not as rigid as the academic school, and not as wild as the feeling school, fresh and natural, very in line with her temperament.
In 2003, when director Zhao Baogang was preparing to shoot "Farewell, Vancouver", he found Chen Kun again, and saw that Li Xiaoran's acting skills had improved a lot, so he gave her the role of Yang Xi, a female second, and also adjusted the role according to Li Xiaoran's personality.
Sure enough, after the TV series was broadcast, The personality played by Li Xiaoran was spicy, and Yang Xi, who dared to love and dare to hate, was very popular, and even surpassed the female Zhao Ziqi, who became popular overnight.
After becoming famous, Li Xiaoran regarded Zhao Baogang as a benefactor, Zhao Baogang asked her not to just think about falling in love, and to engage in career first, Li Xiaoran also listened to him and focused on filming a lot of TV series.
Unfortunately, Li Xiaoran remembered to eat and did not remember to fight, and it did not take long for the old habits to recur, and when filming "Paris Fairy Tale", he was chased by the film's producer Sun Donghai and finally won.
Who is Sun Donghai? At that time, it was called "Mainland Xianghuaqiang", and its status can be imagined, he was 8 years older than Li Xiaoran, started in the real estate business, and later invested in film and television dramas, "Who Decides My Youth" was invested and filmed by him.
In fact, when I knew Li Xiaoran at that time, There was no shortage of women around Sun Donghai, but I had never seen Li Xiaoran like this, looking at the figure can be called "sexy", but at the same time it is a big grinning boy personality, this strong contrast makes Sun Donghai deeply trapped, and immediately began a fanatical pursuit.
At that time, 27-year-old Li Xiaoran, although filming also made some money, but still did not see this kind of battle, Sun Donghai was not only willing to spend money on her, but also to her incomparably gentlemanly, but also affectionate money, it is said that Sun Donghai also divorced her, such a vigorous love, it is difficult for anyone to resist.
Li Xiaoran happily talked about love with him, not only was love sweet, Sun Donghai also spent a huge amount of money to support her, and the resources also soared, Li Xiaoran felt that she was definitely the luckiest woman in the world.
04
However, this happiness was too short-lived, and within a few months, Sun Donghai changed his face, and after getting it, he no longer cherished it, and he was completely gentle and gentlemanly to Li Xiaoran, and he scolded her at the slightest inconvenience, and even her parents were affected.
And as Li Xiaoran's fame grew, Sun Donghai's desire to control her became stronger and stronger, and he didn't even allow her to go out by herself, and he had to send someone to follow wherever he went, and even her friends would be affected, so in those years, Li Xiaoran didn't even dare to see her friends.
She had also proposed to break up several times, but every time she mentioned Sun Donghai, she would be furious and threaten her with her life and the safety of her parents.
I think it is also, he divorced for Li Xiaoran, and spent so much money to support her, and now that he is red, he wants to leave, how can he be willing.
So Li Xiaoran's phone was monitored, people were also monitored, Sun Donghai said, even if you leave me, you can never find a man again, you look for whoever I want.
Li Xiaoran was tortured physically and mentally exhausted, in order to escape all this, she took some scenes to shoot in remote and remote places in those years, although the conditions were simple, but it allowed her to escape the clutches and control of that person and get a short breathing space.
In those years, Li Xiaoran rarely returned to Beijing, rarely even saw her parents, and was estranged from her friends, she felt that her life had been ruined, maybe this life would live in the torture of this demon, she hated her face countless times, this is a clean and flawless and beautiful face, but it has brought endless pain to herself.
She even thought that if a woman more beautiful than herself could attract the demon at this time, maybe he would let himself go.
She finally waited for this day, and in 2009, Sun Donghai and Yin Tao publicly attended the event.
At that moment, the big stone in her heart fell to the ground, and she felt that the dark cloud that had been hanging over her head had finally been blown away, and she could finally be reborn.
Eager for love, she immediately talked about love with the talented director Yan Po, because she had just experienced an unbearable relationship, and Li Xiaoran protected this love very well, and few people knew.
But he was still discovered by Sun Donghai's eyeliner, and he did not expect that although he already had a new love, Sun Donghai's heart still did not let go of his "abusive love" for her.
In 2010, when Li Xiaoran and Yan Po were about to get on the bus in a parking lot, 4 strong men suddenly ran away, and Yan Po was slashed by 4 people with knives, 13 knives in the body, and more than 10 fractures were seriously injured and admitted to the hospital.
This incident inspired Li Xiaoran's fighting spirit, she understood that she could not be cowardly anymore, otherwise her life would really be ruined, so Li Xiaoran bravely admitted to the relationship, and took care of Yan Po in the hospital, and also went on the legal program to say that she would fight to the end.
05
I don't know if it was really too big, or consciously bored, Sun Donghai finally disappeared, let them go, Li Xiaoran carefully took care of Yan Po, let him successfully recover and be discharged from the hospital, the two people also went through life and death, everyone thought that the two would definitely get married and live a happy life.
Unexpectedly, the truth is just the opposite, in those years Li Xiaoran actively operated, movies and TV series, on the Spring Festival Gala, nothing fell behind, and Yan Po did not have any works, only directed a few TV series that did not hurt or itch, but repeatedly spread the news of his cheating, I don't know because of guilt or love too deeply, Li Xiaoran chose to forgive, but also for him to get pregnant twice, but once because Yan Po took a lot of medicine and miscarriage, the second time did not know what the reason, the two broke up in 2014.
In love for 6 years, experienced life and death, pregnant for him twice, and finally Yan Po still abandoned her, Li Xiaoran was physically and mentally exhausted, and finally saw the love thing, where there is loyalty, where there is a vigorous, the more intense the love comes, the faster it will disappear, it is not love, it is just a momentary impulse.
At this time, Li Xiaoran is almost 40 years old, her life experience may be more than others' lifetime, she longs for love all her life, hopes to live in love forever, but suffers for love.
Nearly 40 years old, the people around her who were not as good as her were married and had children to live a happy life, she once looked down on these ordinary days the most, felt that she was not romantic at all, felt that she should be like a princess, either marry a prince or marry a poet, but now she is extremely envious of those most prosaic and unromantic married life, long-term love.
At this time, Xu Jianning came to her side, this person who had been with her 17 years ago, who had no guess, has now become a middle-aged uncle, and has also been divorced once, and has also made some money as a producer, although he is not handsome and tall, he seems to be a man worth entrusting for life.
What qualifications do I have to choose? Li Xiaoran thought that she once thought that she would not get married in this life, and no one would dare to marry her, but she did not expect that this male girlfriend who had been playing games with herself opened her arms to her when she was most frustrated, and what else could she say except wish her.
It turns out that her choice is not wrong, Xu Jianning may not be as rich as Sun Donghai, but he can give his entire wealth to Li Xiaoran, he may not be as talented as Yan, but he spends all his time with his beloved wife.
Li Xiaoran once said at the "Big Husband" press conference: I am a woman like Gu Xiaojun, it doesn't matter if I love until my heart is broken, I don't regret it when I love.
Now Li Xiaoran understands what true love is. Love is not a fairy tale, it is day after day of life and companionship, love is not a flower diamond, it is chai rice oil salt sauce vinegar tea, love does not need your heartbreak, it is a harbor you can inhabit after being injured, love will not make you regret, it will make you more and more beautiful.
Bless the goddess.