The twelve-year marriage between Li Xiang and Wang Yuelun ended, although it was an unexpected unilateral official announcement by Wang Yuelun, but everyone could see that Li Xiang had long looked down on Wang Yuelun. To the pig teammates who can't support the wall in the mud, drive off a light body.
I don't know what Wang Yuelun is busy with these days, but seeing that Li Xiang is participating in activities today and leisurely visiting the flower market tomorrow, his life is not disturbed by bad things at all, and his mood is very comfortable.
The marriage of Li Xiang and Wang Yuelun can be regarded as a typical strong woman and weak man. Before getting married, Li Xiang had long since become famous and red, and had saved up a rich fortune. At the same time, the investment vision has always been stable and accurate, opening a company to invest in real estate, and having a superior ability to create wealth. In recent years, he has taken the lead in standing on the live broadcast outlet and earning a lot of money.
Compared with Li Xiang, Wang Yuelun is simply "waste firewood". As a director, even under the strong promotion of his wife, he failed to come up with a passing work, achieved nothing in his career, and basically "did not receive any grain" in investment. But people's lives are really good, there are painter fathers, there are celebrity wives, and there are Internet celebrity daughters, relying on anyone is enough to have no worries.
The economic foundation determines the superstructure, from the variety show, in the marriage life with "noble sister" Li Xiang, Wang Yuelun is obviously a weak party, and even called "soft rice man" by many netizens. In "Spit Conference", he laughed at himself for always "putting his wife's career first".
"Putting the wife's career first" is nothing wrong with itself. In modern society, more money is made by brain power and wisdom, and gender differences are becoming weaker and weaker. With the rise of women's economic ability, the relationship between the sexes in marriage is also constantly renovated and defined, and the strong female and weak men, the female and the male protagonist, are both normal in theory and can fully achieve balance.
If you really "focus on your wife's career" and are willing to be a good husband and father, Wang Yuelun will definitely not be despised by netizens. His "scum" lies in eating soft rice and hard food, neither taking on family responsibilities, nor being willing to be honest.
Once, in September, Li Xiang was broadcasting live, and the screen suddenly floated by the thousand-yuan "big plane" sent by her daughter Wang Shiling to cheer her mother. Li Xiang was furious on the spot, and immediately called Wang Yuelun and asked, "What's wrong with you?" Didn't you take Wang Shiling to piano lessons? Wang Yuelun explained grievously: "When I fell asleep, she ran to play with her mobile phone and watch the live broadcast." ”
As a father who specializes in bringing a baby at home, he can't even shoulder the minimum responsibility. Don't blame Li Xiang for being angry, when encountering such a man, any woman may vomit blood in an instant. Big things are not capable of doing, small things are not done well, what is the use of raising?
What is even more intolerable is that people become more and more tasteless in middle age, blatantly provoking wrongdoing. Several hot searches, all flowers and flowers, it seems that never consider the feelings of the family. In the three days of November this year, there will be two daughters, although it is after the divorce, but after all, it has not been officially announced, which really loses the faces of Li Xiang and Wang Shiling.
After being exposed by the Internet, he was also embarrassed and angry late at night, unilaterally announced his divorce, and "blessed Li Xiang and her crush to grow old in vain." I don't know whether it is IQ catching urgency, or ulterior motives, being ridiculed by netizens as "tea face Yue color".
With no ambition, women endure; neglect family responsibilities, women endure; but eating in the bowl and looking at the pot, a middle-aged man with a wife and a daughter, who has been repeatedly photographed in nightclubs and drunk, covetous to young girls and oil, this fetish and taste, can only make contempt, life is loveless. Getting rid of Wang Yuelun was the most correct choice Li Xiang made.
The big heroine is not terrible, the little man is not ashamed, and it is not shameful to eat soft rice, and what is shameful is the "scum" of what is done. As long as it is done properly, any meal can be afforded.
They are all strong women and weak men, all are the so-called "soft rice men", Qi Wei's husband Lee Seung-hyun, and the eighteen streets of Wang Yuelun are dumped. Such a man, even if he eats soft rice all his life, is still a "human high-quality male" that makes women think.
Lee Seung-hyun and Qi Wei, because of love into marriage. The career of the two is obviously stronger than the male. After giving birth to a daughter, the two of them are combined, and those who make more money are responsible for supporting the family, and those who make less money are responsible for taking the baby.
Lee Seung-hyun also gave special consideration to the fact that the golden period of women's careers is relatively short, and men have come to Japan for a long time and fully support their wives to fight for their careers. Husbands and wives are united in their profits and gold, and in the family building plan, they choose the best plan.
In the 6 years of taking the baby at home, Lee Seung-hyun took his daughter to the variety show, and he was good at everything, not only taking good care of his daughter's life, but also the etiquette and etiquette and the principles of handling things, etc., but also clearly instructed. The daughter is smart and cute, generous and decent, and the grandfather is indispensable.
Compared with Wang Yuelun, who is greedy for the wine pond meat forest, Lee Seung-hyun takes the baby at home, and does not forget to improve the singing and dancing kung fu, and strict image management, the figure and appearance are not lost in the past, and there is more life and thought precipitation than the small fresh meat, and the charm of the mature man is not ordinary.
Therefore, when the opportunity of "Brother With Thorns and Thorns" came, Lee Seung-hyun was a blockbuster, instantly turned popular and soared, and the resources were soft, winning glory for his wife and daughter. Many netizens said that Lee Seung-hyun is the real "human high-quality male" and finally understands Qi Wei's happiness.
The same is born in a wealthy family, the same is a strong woman and a weak marriage, the same is facing the domineering and straightforward heroine, Wang Yuelun and Lee Seung-hyun, a "tea face Yue color", a "thorn and thorn", where are they?
I think that the first is that the growth environment is different, and the concept of family relationship formed is different.
Wang Yuelun grew up in a traditional Chinese family, and he once said on the show that his father was strict with his education tradition. Like many Chinese men, he may be more identified with the family model of male and female protagonists, strong men and weak women. Although he is clumsy on the outside, he lives in machismo in his heart.
Celebrity wives and Internet celebrity daughters have become the double-edged sword on Wang Yuelun's head. On the one hand, they enjoy the traffic dividends they bring, on the other hand, they can't get rid of the crushing of their fame aura. Unwilling and unable to catch up, he simply broke the jar and broke it, and found a remedy from somewhere else.
And Lee Seung-hyun grew up in the United States, and since he was a teenager, he has naturally accepted the existence of diversified family relationships, and there is no distinction between male and female. After getting married, he dared to admit the reality that Qi Wei was stronger than his own earning ability, and was willing to take the baby at home and do a good job as a wife's helper.
In Lee Seung-hyun's philosophy, husband and wife are comrades-in-arms in the same boat, and the division of labor in the family is determined by ability, not by gender. Whoever goes, the common goal is to make the small family better and stronger. Therefore, in the role of "housewife and man" for 6 years, he did a frank and conscientious job.
The second point should be that in the relationship between a strong woman and a weak man, the marriage value that the "little man" should provide, Lee Seung-hyun gave it, but Wang Yuelun was very derelict in his duties.
For most women, it is nothing more than practical values such as economy and emotional values such as spirit from marriage. For a big heroine like Li Xiangqiwei, the emotional value is obviously greater than the practical value, and they are more concerned about whether the other party can provide the emotional value in place.
From "The Brother Who Cut through the Thorns", we can see that in the years of marriage, no matter where the two are busy, no matter how far apart the physical distance is, Lee Seung-hyun is used to making phone porridge with Qi Wei, telling each other about the situation, saying something useful and useless, and the time is usually relatively long.
Marriage is like this, as long as there is still a conversation, and you can happily say that I listen, there will be no problem in general. The most frightening thing is that face to face loneliness, two people are more lonely than one.
In terms of providing emotional value, it is the biggest failure in Wang Yuelun's marriage. Emotions are often provided, but they are discouraging negative emotions. From being alone for three hours in the bombed beauty hotel in 2018, to the wall of the corridor of the Chinese New Year's Eve store in 2020, and then to the two beautiful women in a few days ago, Li Xiang's face was lost every time.
Wang Yuelun did not accept his hand as a demon, and Li Xiang's attitude gradually changed. From Weibo scolding the domineering protector of "get out of the egg", to cooperating with Wang Yuelun against his will to dispel rumors, to not being lazy to respond at all, I remembered that Wang Yuelun once asked Li Xiang in the program, "What do you want me to make up for so many years?" Li Xiang replied, "Consider my feelings more." ”
Even the most basic face can not be taken care of, let alone consider feelings? Economically, not expected, emotionally unsupported, where is the value of marriage to Li Xiang? Not afraid of tiger opponents, only afraid of pig teammates, it is Li Xiang who is said, only in time to stop losses.
There is a famous saying on the Internet, "Appreciating a person begins with appearance, respect for talent, fit in character, long than kindness, and finally character." Marriage is not like this, loyalty, self-discipline, responsibility, etc., the ultimate relationship between partners is the "human quality".
But what needs to be sobered is that in this world, everything changes at any time. Life is changing, feelings are changing, and human qualities are also changing. If you pin your happiness on marriage, on the character of another person, when uncontrollable changes occur, you will inevitably be disappointed and even hurt.
Therefore, whether facing life or facing marriage, being able to be responsible for yourself and support yourself is the most important and superior quality.
Wang Yuelun can't become Lee Seung-hyun, and Lee Seung-hyun may not always be the current Lee Seung-hyun. The only thing that is certain is that a big heroine like Li Xiang and Qi Wei can live a very good life alone.
Marriage does not matter whether it is successful or not, there must be a reason for both sides to be separated halfway, complaining and accusing each other of bad character, not the posture that adult men and women should have.
Li Xiang has Li Xiang's strength and domineering, Wang Yuelun has Wang Yuelun's gentleness and looseness, each of them is well, and jointly guarding the future of his daughter Wang Shiling will be much more comfortable than forcibly tying them together.