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Lee Seung-hyun's "no measure" gift philosophy
In the show "Dad's Home", Lee Seung-hyun admitted that he has always had a hard time grasping the balance in the matter of gift-giving, which is not just a small problem, but involves the art of interpersonal communication in daily life. Gift-giving, which was originally a way to express emotion and respect, became embarrassing and unpopular because of the lack of a sense of proportion.
Imagine a used coffee machine, even Lee Seung-hyun's beloved friends in daily life will inevitably be confused by this "second-hand gift". Behind the kindness, there may be hidden doubts about the value of the gift and the status of the gift.
Not only coffee makers, but even opened skincare products, although they may contain a strong recommendation of the product by the giver, can easily be interpreted as disrespectful to the other party, as this usually means casual and inattentive in terms of etiquette.
Qi Wei's "prohibition order" is in harmony with the family
Qi Wei and her mother raised direct opposition to Lee Seung-hyun's "uncontrolled" gift-giving method, and even developed to the point of explicitly banning it. It can be seen that in the small circle of the family, Qi Wei and her mother represent a traditional and stable view of etiquette. They may believe that gift-giving is not just a personal act, but also part of the family's image.
Gift-giving that is too casual can give the impression of being unmeasured or too casual, and this impression is spread among people who know each other and can affect the overall image of the family. In addition, differences of opinion among family members may also affect the harmonious atmosphere of the family if not properly handled. Qi Wei's ban is actually a maintenance of family harmony and an insistence on social etiquette.
The preference of netizens and Qi Wei's position
When this topic was widely discussed on the Internet, netizens voted their opinions. Many of them expressed support for Qi Wei's decision, believing that it is indeed necessary to be restrained in social situations and not be too casual. In the eyes of these netizens, the delivery of gifts is not only the exchange of items, but also the embodiment of emotion and respect.
Of course, there are also netizens who are on Lee Seung-hyun's side, who believe that sharing is a virtue and that there should not be too many restraints between friends. Despite the differences of opinion, all the discussions were full of lightness and humor, which is exactly the style that young netizens like to see.
Honest Li and the rules, a new chapter of family rules
On social media, Lee Seung-hyun is popular for her honest and straightforward image, while Qi Wei is known for her strict rules. The issuance of this "prohibition order" has undoubtedly added a new rule to the family.
Imagine which side you would be on if this happened in your home, would you agree to ban overly casual gift-giving, or would you think that gift-giving should be more freewheeling? This is not only a matter of attitude towards the gift itself, but also a reflection on family and social rules.
And Lee Seung-hyun's confession in public also let us see the warm and real interaction between members of a celebrity family.
A balance between gifts and rules
So, how do you balance gifts with rules? Behind this seemingly light-hearted topic, there is a deep reflection on personal behavior and family image. Every family and culture has its own unique rules for gift-giving, and understanding and respecting these rules is a skill that every social savvy should master.
In the discussion, perhaps we can find the true meaning of gift-giving: not only the exchange of material things, but also the transmission of heart and respect. So, what kind of topic is gift-giving in your social circle? Are there similar controversies and anecdotes? Feel free to leave your views in the comment area, so let's discuss and learn how to find your place in the world of gift-giving.