Lee Seung-hyun's gift caused controversy: Qi Wei said "no"!
Recently, on the parenting variety show "Dad's Home", Lee Seung-hyun revealed his little embarrassment about giving gifts, and he was directly forbidden by his wife Qi Wei to give gifts! It turns out that Lee Seung-hyun often doesn't look at the object when giving gifts, and is too arbitrary, and sometimes even gives away things that he has already used, which makes Qi Wei, who pays attention to etiquette, feel particularly embarrassed.
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Is it good to "give an old gift"?
In the show, Lee Seung-hyun admitted that his gift-giving habits are indeed a bit problematic. He believes that giving away things that you no longer need is a great way to share and save resources. For example, when a friend gives him a used instrument, he is happy and feels that it is a kind of trust and sharing between friends. But this kind of behavior seems a bit "humiliating" to Qi Wei and her family, who believe that the gift should be brand new, representing respect and heart.
Netizens are hotly discussed: second-hand gift acceptance survey
This incident sparked heated discussions among netizens. Some people think that as long as others are willing to accept it, it doesn't hurt to send some used things.
However, some netizens said that gifts should still be chosen carefully, especially for friends who are not very familiar, and it is best to give new things.
Someone else mentioned, "On our side, it's normal to send second-hand things, especially if the things are still good, and you don't need them anymore, so why can't you?"
However, some netizens emphasized that the meaning of giving gifts is different from giving things casually, especially on formal occasions.
Cultural differences or etiquette issues?
Behind Lee Seung-hyun's gift-giving habits, it actually reflects the differences in etiquette between Chinese and Western cultures. In many Western countries, second-hand items are acceptable as gifts in certain circumstances, especially between close friends or family. But in China, especially in formal gift exchanges, the new product is often seen as a more appropriate choice, as it represents respect for the recipient and the importance of the relationship.
Lee Seung-hyun's change and efforts
In the face of controversy and his family's opinions, Lee Seung-hyun also showed a changed attitude. He pledged to work hard to correct his gift-giving habits and ensure that he can be more considerate and appropriate when giving gifts in the future. He also said he was open to public scrutiny to ensure that he could do better in this area.
Overall, whether it's a second-hand gift or a brand new gift, the ultimate goal of gift-giving is to express your heart and deepen your relationship. Lee Seung-hyun's gift-giving vignette not only made us see the fun of cultural differences, but also made us think about how to show personal sincerity and environmental awareness while respecting tradition. What do you think about gift-giving?