The drama "Being the Housewife" looks a bit of dog blood at first glance, the dispute between wives and concubines in the old bridge section, the virtuous wife and the first love, each has its own good, and it is difficult to choose.
But if you look carefully, you will find that this drama is not only not conventional, but also has great significance, not only exposing the ancient women's deep poison of feudal etiquette, but also strongly encouraging women to be self-reliant, and living independently and freely is the most important.
Talking about women's plays, most of the supporting roles are also very outstanding.
What impressed me the most was Zeng Baoqin's yakuza Ruyi, her two marriages, in fact, have their own deep meanings.
Ruyi initially met and fell in love with Ren Xuetang's xiaoshu Shuyan, expressed their hearts to each other, originally thought that they would fall in love smoothly, and then walked into the palace of marriage, even after Ren Xuetang disappeared, Shuyan began to hesitate, and even refuted his original vows.
Even if the times have passed, Shuyan once again showed love, just asking for the consent of the master, but not asking Ruyi's intention at the first time, blindly abiding by the rules, but cold Ruyi's heart, even if the hair is cut off, he is not willing to marry Shuyan, so resolute, there is no room.
It was not ruyi, nor was it to blame Shuyan for his previous avoidance and snub, but she felt that Shuyan did not love her as much as she imagined, only knew to abide by the rules, love such a romantic thing, put it in his mouth, so conformist, as if doing things according to the rules.
Ruyi was so brave to love him, and Shu Yan blindly withdrew, making her sad and lonely, this is not the love she wants.
Weng Jin is different, his love is fierce, even in the face of the world's discussion, his family opposes, still does not change his original intentions.
In Weng Jin's eyes, Ruyi is not the illegitimate daughter of Lehu, but a naïve and beautiful girl, a lady he wants to marry, he never looks down on him, and his love is fierce.
Even if he was hit by the board, he had to come to see Ruyi, tell Ruyi his determination to marry her, and finally win the consent of his parents, he said to Ruyi that he was in trouble, although he told him that he would handle the affairs of the family well and let Ruyi not be a little wronged.
How could such a man who was pure and thoughtful not rejoice?
The marriage between Ruyi and Shuyan and Weng Jin actually coincides with the soul thinking of the whole play.
Shu Yan blindly abided by the rules of etiquette, a board and a glance, it seems affectionate, in fact, he has never looked at Ruyi who is not born well equally, and feels that he is the most capable of being good to Ruyi, after all, he can ignore Ruyi's identity, and he has been very responsible and courageous.
In fact, this is very in line with the social thinking of the time, shuyan even if it is a small town, but it is a very decent good citizen, but Ruyi is out of the courtyard, the world sees her with colored glasses.
Ruyi's ability to marry Shuyan seems to be a great blessing.
This old feudal mentality is not advisable.
And the appearance of Weng Jin, his love at first sight for Ruyi, ming and shakily told everyone: Ruyi is a rare good girl, others do not cherish her, there are better people to cherish.
Born badly, does not mean that you can not have a good future, as long as you are good enough, confident and brave, do not fear the world's vision, just be yourself.
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