Because they listen to others, they will be kind to me and good to me; they will also doubt me and harm me because they listen to others.
Sometimes what we see may not be true, what the ear hears may not be the truth, and at this time, we need to judge for ourselves.
At all times, we must believe in our own judgment, do not believe anyone's words, do not listen to others, but learn to make ourselves more and more assertive.
A person must have his own ideas, people with ideas, so as not to be tied down by anyone, nor will they believe others because of the words of others, and they will not trust the people around them.
In life, you will meet such people, will listen to the people around you, do not listen to the words of people close to you, what others say, will always be right, and people close to you will always be wrong.
The more such a person, in her heart, does not have a judgment of her own, does not have a mind to distinguish between right and wrong, may be deceived by others, and still think that the other party is correct.
In dealing with such people, it is easy to believe what others say, when encountering such people, they must also have reservations, some things need to be experienced by themselves, only through experience, will understand.
Sometimes, it goes without saying that good and bad are based on your own experience, and others are unlikely to help you, only rely on yourself to understand.
Everyone's enlightenment comes from within themselves, and the heart is really enlightened, and no one believes what they say, and listens to their own inner voice.