The father and mother of the boyhood did not know, but followed
My son deduced that they did not know each other in their youth, but then they started a family, and then they had me, and then they had a sister.
So where do you start?
The first part of the father before marriage, dreaming of becoming a soldier
The father was the third son in the family. His two previous brothers were more honest, he was more lively, which is the conclusion I came from comparing the two uncles and my father.
It turned out that they lived in peace village, which was far from the city. Later, Grandma said that she could not hide in this rural area, so she and her grandfather took several sons and waded across the river to Anle Village on the other side of the river.
The family was so poor that the family had nothing but a tattered quilt, and the family was crammed into a house of broken grass.
Fortunately, the eldest uncle and the second uncle have grown up and can help the grandparents work, cultivate the land, and support the family. At this time, the village chief said that the city was recruiting workers, who would go? Boss, boss two who goes? But if one of you goes, there will be one less labor force in the house, what should you do?
Father stood up and said, let the eldest brother go, I will not go to school. My father stopped studying, and before he finished junior high school, he went to work in the fields. However, my father likes to chat, and the whole people laugh and laugh, and chat with those who work whenever he has time to rest.
One day, I heard those people talking about being a soldier. My father went to the village chief to inquire, and it turned out that he was going to recruit soldiers. Father tried to ask, can I go?
The village chief said, you go, who in your family will work for you? Your brothers are all studying, but being a soldier is also for the country and home, this should work, you go back and fill out the form first. Can you make a decision? Do you want to discuss it with your family?
Father said, I can decide this myself.
Being a soldier was the most glorious thing of that era, and Dad's application was approved, and he became the glorious People's Liberation Army.
In the second part, the mother is the most likely girl among siblings to learn
The mother was also in third place, with an older brother and sister on top. Grandpa moved to Jilin from Liaoning and Grandpa Tai, defected to a relative, and it is said that the ancestor was also a Manchu official. However, when you move to Jilin, you can only cultivate land. Later, I met my grandmother in the next village, gave birth to a pair of children, thought that another one would also be a son, and gave birth to a boy's name, and the mother was born.
Grandpa used to have a better family lineage, and it was more long, in addition to farming, there were other crafts. And Grandpa is a very honest, boring person, Grandma is very able to run the family, so the family gradually better life. In short, it is much better than my father's family.
His mother was different from his older brother and sister, and the uncle was said to be the little bully of the village when he was young, and no one dared to mess with him. My aunt is so beautiful and not good at reading. And my mother likes to learn, from elementary school to junior high school is the class leader and learning committee. Some people say that a handmaiden reads a book, so it is better to go home and help cultivate the land. Grandpa said that if she misses, let her read it, and don't leave any regrets.
My mother went to high school and was ready to go to college. My mother thought that her grades were good, so she applied for a better university, but fate made people and her mother fell off the list. Qiang's mother was not willing, and she went to be a barefoot doctor again, studying while wanting to take the exam again. One day, the primary school in the village needed a teacher, and the mother became a people's teacher.
People's teachers were also a glorious profession of that era.
The third part is the union of the brother and the teacher, the model marriage of the times
I don't know what my parents were like because there is no video recording. However, one day I turned out a pamphlet, which recorded a lot of knowledge, and there were even many sweet words. Later I learned it was my father's. Although he dropped out of school, he liked to read. When I went to the army, I often read books and recorded my favorite sentences and chapters.
My father became a soldier in the army, later became a squad leader, and became an adult, and it began to be time to talk about marriage. The family introduced him to a girl from the same village and asked him to come back for a blind date.
My mother wanted to go to college a few years ago and didn't want to fall in love. At that time, young men and women valued ideals and considered them more important than love. But even my sister was married, and the family was also urged to get married. When my mother was young, she was also beautiful and well educated, so there was no shortage of suitors. They had previously been rejected by their mothers.
That night, a suitor from the same village chased after my grandmother's house and said you think about it, I've liked you for a long time, and tomorrow I'll get back to you, and that person is going to get ready for college.
My father came home and was on a blind date. His second brother just got married, and his second sister-in-law said that there was a teacher in the village next door to her mother's house, and the conditions were good, so if you want to see it, your vacation in this unit is also short.
teacher? soldier?
Father said to go and see.
The next day, my father went to my grandmother's house. It is said that on that day, it was dumplings, my grandmother's family, and my father rolled the skin alone, and it did not fall.
Grandpa was quite satisfied at first glance, was a good offspring, and looked very energetic. Go back and discuss it with your family, agree and settle it.
The father looked at his mother's big braids and said, No need, I am in charge of this matter, it is her!
Grandpa and grandma are satisfied, this young man is very assertive!
Later, seeing the group photo of my father and mother in military uniforms, I felt that happiness was overflowing on their faces.
Later, the mother said she rejected the classmate the night before. When my father went back, he also dismissed the girl from the same village.
Later, the mother said that her father returned to the army and wrote her a letter every day, which made her very moved.
Later they got married.
The wedding was very simple. Because there was nothing in my father's family, but the love and marriage of that era pursued feelings and ideals.
The marriage of a soldier and a teacher was the perfect combination of that era.
After getting married, Mom continued to work as her people's teacher, and her father returned to the army, and they envisioned their bright future.
As their future, I recorded these things, thanked them for their great decisions, felt the arrangement of fate, and continued to write my life.