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Every child can be excellent

author:Tong Mommy

A confident and assertive child can become better. But what kind of child will be confident and assertive? Or how children can become confident and assertive.

I once heard a saying: Behind every confident and assertive child is the parents and family members who will give affirmation and timely help. When children start with their own thoughts, we as parents cannot directly deny their behavior. It's about encouraging more, affirming, and helping. If parents are good at encouraging and know how to hold the scene, children will often get more spiritual satisfaction, which will also make them more confident and strong.

My child is now 1 year and 8 months old and he can already talk a lot and do a lot of things that you don't expect. Many times, he would flip through a picture book and read aloud the illustrations he saw, and he would laugh because he saw them; sometimes, he would line up all his cars, just like a small train, each car was a small carriage, and his mouth would murmur about the roadside environment he might see, and so on.

When he started learning to speak, I couldn't understand what he was saying, it was all speculation. But I never denied him, but slowly guided him, and now he can communicate very well. He will also imitate the tone and vocabulary of adults, and their words and deeds affect children all the time.

As a parent, you must be good at finding the shining points in your child and using boasting to make him a greater advantage.

Only in this way can children do things with more confidence.

As a parent, we must be good at respecting their children's ideas, listening more and denying more, and holding the scene more and hitting less.

Only in this way can the child be more assertive.

Parents' praise, encouragement and affirmation are the best pillars on the road to children's growth.

May every child become confident and assertive

May every parent not skimp on his or her own language

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