What is the most inexplicable thing in the world? That is the love between men and women. Because love can be regardless of age, beauty and ugliness, rich and poor, noble and unworthy. 30 years ago, the love between the famous Yu Qiuyu and the famous Huangmei actor Ma Lan was a sensation in the 1990s, but how many people know how they came together?
First, from the time when the two people became famous, the honor analysis enjoyed, when Ma Lan and Yu Qiuyu met, Yu Qiuyu's achievements and social influence were far less than That of Ma Landa
When Yu Qiuyu's second wife, Ma Lan, was born in Anhui in April 1962, Yu Qiuyu, who was born in Zhejiang in August 1946, was already a high school student.
In 1987, Yu Qiuyu met Ma Lan, at that time, Yu Qiuyu was 41 years old and Ma Lan was 25 years old. This year, Yu Qiuyu wore the laurels of vice president of the Shanghai Theater Academy and president of the Shanghai Writing Society.
What was Malan's identity at that time? Since 1983, Ma Lan has been re-elected as a deputy to the Sixth, Seventh and Eighth National People's Congress; since 1985, he has successively won the "May Day Labor Medal", "Outstanding Literary and Art Worker", "March 8Th Red Flag Bearer" awarded by the All-China Federation of Trade Unions and the All-China Women's Federation, etc. In 1987, at the age of 25, Ma Lan was rated as a national first-class actor. Look at Ma Lan, and then look at Yu Qiuyu is a little witch to see a big witch.
Comparing the names of the two individuals at that time and their influence in society, Ma Lan could throw Yu Qiuyu ten streets. Although Yu Qiuyu has a certain influence on the Shanghai theater industry, there are still very few people who know him in the whole country. At that time, Malan already had a certain influence in the world. People's evaluation of her is the second generation of outstanding representatives of Huangmei opera after Yan Fengying. All kinds of international and domestic performances, all kinds of honorary titles, all kinds of awards have overwhelmed her.
An actress who is only 25 years old can withstand so much aura is inseparable from her own hard work, strong will and perseverance. Of course, career is a career, for such a successful girl who is only in her twenties, in the face of life love and marriage events, it is also normal to talk about love with people. But the problem is that in which era people's thinking is still relatively feudal compared to now, a girl, especially as a nationally famous girl, her every move will receive people's attention, especially her love life.
Second, when Yu Qiuyu was far away from his wife Li Hong and feeling lonely and lonely, he took the initiative to pursue Ma Lan and fill the void was the solution for the two people to fall into the emotional whirlpool
Many people later added the name of "Little Three" to Ma Lan, believing that Ma Lan's active pursuit of Yu Qiuyu caused Yu Qiuyu's marriage to break down, and she successfully ascended to the throne. Most people one-sidedly condemned Ma Lan, and those with noses and eyes said that she was holding Yu Qiuyu's book "Art Creation Engineering" in her arms to find Yu Qiuyu, thus liking Yu Qiuyu.
I have always wondered that with Malan's status and social influence at that time, this kind of routine statement simply described Malan as a middle school student who did not understand the world, and did not understand anything. A lyric, a book will touch her heart and make her follow you with a dead heart.
Although Yu Qiuyu was the director of the Shanghai Theater Academy at that time, he was after all the husband of a wife who married in 1979 and the father of a daughter with his wife Li Hong in 1984. In that era, in order to break through this kind of social opinion and pressure, it took a lot of courage on the part of the person concerned, and how much influence this person had, so that it was worth making another person willing to sacrifice his reputation for him.
People say that the power of love is enormous, like a volcanic eruption, unstoppable, everywhere it goes, it will be destroyed, and the parties will not care about the consequences and strong public opinion.
At that time, Yu Qiuyu's wife Li Hong went to Shenzhen alone to struggle, and she wanted to use her own efforts to change the living conditions of her family. Some people even defended her that she was raising money to publish books for her literati husband, who liked to dance and ink, and had to do it as a last resort. Look at how many people went to the sea to do business in the 1980s, you can know the social atmosphere at that time.
A lonely man, seeing a beautiful, young, and influential actress, who admires whom, who really wants to know whom, who has an idea in his heart is self-evident.
At that time, Yu Qiuyu, whether it was social influence or economic foundation, could not be compared with Ma Lan, from a secular point of view, maybe Yu Qiuyu would like to see Ma Lan? After all, Yu Qiuyu is a man, and lust is nature.
I analyzed it later, thinking about it, only by following such logic and thinking, it seems that it is more in line with life and emotional logic.
Third, in 1992, Yu Qiuyu divorced the original partner, and Ma Lan entered the palace of marriage after 5 years of acquaintance
Lovers eventually become dependents. This year, MaLan was exactly 30 years old, and he was an older youth at that time. Yu Qiuyu is 46 years old, a middle-aged man who is eight hundred years old.
These five years are not long, but they are not short. In three of these five years, Yu Qiuyu's wife Li Hong has been in Shenzhen, while Yu Qiuyu is alone in Shanghai guarding an empty house. Of course, in the past five years, Yu Qiuyu has not been idle, accompanied by Ma Lan, a young woman who is envied by everyone who is unmarried.
In the past five years, what exactly happened between the two people is unknown, but there is a point, on the surface, Ma Lan has been strongly attracted to Yu Qiuyu, there is no side, there is no departure from Yu Qiuyu, what magic Yu Qiuyu used to do it, alas, I really bow to the wind, ashamed of myself. I think, the main thing is that Maran's thought is somewhat conservative, from the beginning to the end? Her fame is too big, if you don't get it right, you will shake the mountain, after thinking about it, it is estimated that you have confessed your fate! That's my interpretation.
The reality is that after the two get married, they should be a combination of pearls and shine. However, Yu Qiuyu resigned from all administrative and social positions. Ma Lan also began to slowly fade out of the stage, quit some social affairs, and became a full-time wife with peace of mind, single-mindedly serving Yu Qiuyu.
For both of them personally, how much courage it takes to take this step. The sudden change in life of a celebrity from the peak to the bottom of the valley, how much pressure the spirit has to bear, this is not something that grass people such as me can understand.
Twenty-nine years have passed. The aura on Yu Qiuyu's head was still shining and shining. After he married Ma Lan, he wrote a lot of books, his talent was great, and he was once radiant, and Ma Lan became a foil. In 1992, Yu Qiuyu published Luoyang Paper Gui's collection of essays, "Cultural Journey". In 1994, he won the first prize of the National Excellent Textbook Award of the Ministry of Culture for his "Draft History of Drama Theory", etc.
According to the worldly thinking of me, the two have never wanted their own children, at least not to say that they are living a happy life. May they be able to work together and continue their love story.