What is love at first sight?
Love at first sight is the instantaneous moment between the four eyes of men and women, a convenient heart shakes, a strong good feeling, hate can not immediately become a husband and wife with each other; that is, from now on do not see each other, such as three autumns, and the food is not sweet, the night is difficult to sleep, god is difficult to keep, lest he lose his arm.
This is a very beautiful thing.
But the ending is not satisfactory for everyone.
Some people are because of excessive superstition in love at first sight, thinking that it is a past life, heaven is beautiful, grasping each other, they refuse to let go, and then, it is difficult to control their own measure, do stupid things, do absurd things, and finally put themselves in a desperate situation, ruining their own future, and even their lives.
A man surnamed Xu, after being transferred from a foreign unit to a large state-owned enterprise, saw a woman and fell in love at first sight.
The woman was 29 years old, had a family, and worked at the grassroots level of the state-owned enterprise.
He was 26 years old, unmarried, and worked as a secretary in the office of the headquarters of the state-owned enterprise.
He met the other party when he accompanied the leaders of the headquarters to the grass-roots level to inspect.
She was in charge of the reception.
Her good looks and elegant temperament make him feel like a heavenly person.
He thought he had finally found his ideal half.
He thus began to pursue her feverishly.
He was confident that with his age and his image, his income would surely allow her to eventually break away from her original family and come fully with him.
And she did not refuse his pursuit.
Before the flower, she also gave him a lot of tenderness.
This made him even more determined not to marry her.
What he didn't expect was that she and his leaders had long had that relationship.
When the leader found out what he had done, he couldn't help but be furious, and quickly found a reason to assign him to another grass-roots unit, which made his position in the enterprise plummet.
But he didn't wake up to it.
He was still chasing her.
He wanted her to change the environment with him and go away.
But by this time, her attitude toward him began to change, from enthusiasm to increasingly cold.
He couldn't help but get annoyed by this.
He demanded that she must go and divorce her husband immediately.
For this reason, he chased after her home.
This naturally led to a fierce conflict between her husband and him.
As a result of the conflict, both men were nearly killed.
This kind of thing is not uncommon in today's society.
Love at first sight makes many men, including women, fall into love and find it difficult to end.
Love at first sight caused disasters between men and women has also existed since ancient times.
In the "Water Margin" written by Shi Nai'an of the Ming Dynasty, there are descriptions of such things that are heavily colored and thick, and today's men and women who are in love must not read them.
Its chapters can be seen -
Twenty-fourth time: The queen mother is greedy and bribes to talk about the style, and Brother Yun is not angry at the tea shop.
Twenty-fifth time: The princess ji sipped Ximen Qing, the adulteress medicine Dove Wu Dalang.
The twenty-sixth time: Brother Yun makes a big fuss in the official hall, and Wu Song kills Ximen Qing.
Speaking of this, it involves four figures that are almost well known to the world, namely: Wu Dalang, Wu Song, Pan Jinlian and Ximen Qing.
Wu Dalang and Wu Song are brothers of a milk brother.
Pan Jinlian and Wu Dalang are a couple of large families.
Pan Jinlian and Ximen Qing are inseparable lovers who came together from love at first sight.
This pair of men and women, when they looked at each other, could be said to have been excited, and they both believed that such an encounter was determined by a previous life and could no longer be forgotten.
Please see the following description in "Water Margin" -
When Pan Jinlian saw that the princess was going to go out to run wine and food, she said that the dry lady was free, but she sat there and did not move. It is also caused by the cause of past lives, sneaking my eyes at Ximen Qing, seeing one of his talents, and having five or seven points of intention in his heart.
What do these five or seven points mean?
It refers to what the heart has been moved by, and what emotions have been for.
When Ximen Qing first saw Pan Jinlian, he even turned back to look at it and saw that the other party was a woman who was born enchanting, and first crisped herself half of it.
This first crisped half of itself, and it was even more beloved.
It is a rich and handsome, a sweet and handsome, the two fell in love, and both of them are difficult to extricate themselves.
After they fell in love at first sight, it can be said that at that time, they all thought of the future very beautifully.
At that time, Pan Jinlian was annoyed that her flower was not a place.
At that time, Ximen Qing was also suffering from his own life, and he had not recruited a good one, and he was glad that he could meet Pan Jinlian in this life.
As a result, they also made a daily relationship with the queen mother's house, and their kindness was like lacquer and their hearts were like glue.
But what is the end?
The ending is that in "Water Margin", Pan Jinlian was stepped on both of her arms by Na Wusong's two feet, and the sharp knife was removed to the chest only for a single slash.........
The rest of the scene, because it is too bloody, I will not repeat it here.
And Ximen Qing was sitting in the second-floor street pavilion of a restaurant under the Lion Bridge eating wine with a rich man, wu song grabbed his hair, even his shoulder blade was mentioned, his right hand was early on Ximen Qing's left foot, shouting down, then Ximen Qing's head was down, his feet were on top, he fell backwards in the heart of the street, and was caught up by Wu Song, only a knife, and cut off Ximen Qing's head.
Today's adult men and women should learn from these descriptions in "Water Margin" and be alert.
Don't trust fate too much, don't indulge too much in love at first sight!
Whether it is a man or a woman, when you see the half you like, when the other party makes your eyes light up, you must first ask yourself in your heart: What will be the consequences of my reaction?
That is to say, if you fall in love with each other at first sight, then you need to figure out the current situation and background of the other party as soon as possible, and then decide whether your love will continue.
Don't get involved in the quagmire of extramarital love, be a third party!
Sooner or later something will happen if you rob someone's wife or steal someone's husband.
By being loyal to your existing family and focusing on your existing marriage, you can live a peaceful life.
I am Yumeno Yanqi, please pay attention, I would like to explore with you the problems of society and life.
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