Today's parents basically prepare their own rooms for their children when they are young, and in their children's rooms, there are luxurious equipment, so that children can play and do homework with peace of mind.
Can be the third grade of primary school Zeze just returned home from school, the mother began to discipline, can not watch cartoons, can not play with toys, to do the homework first, and then do the exercise book bought by the mother, Zeze although not happy, but still sit in front of his small desk, grinding and rubbing began to write homework. Mother is not at ease, after 10 minutes to check the progress of Zeze's homework, Zeze is very disgusted with his mother's approach, but also dare to be angry and dare not speak...
Like adults, children also want to have their own disposable time and space for independent play, too much parental supervision will make children lose their independent character and interest in external exploration, thus becoming cowardly and incompetent, so parents should pay attention to their own speech in the following three points:
1. Respect the child's personality and put down the shelf of parental authority
Put down the shelf, put the child in an equal position with themselves, empathize with the child's thoughts and feelings, encounter things can help the child analyze and make suggestions, the final choice is still as far as possible to the child. Children grow up in mistakes, and parents should give their children full trust. When you have a conflict with your child, don't you think about it in a different position, if you put it in the position of a child, what kind of thoughts and feelings will you have?
2. Don't take too much care of your child
Parents over-handle and take care of their children's affairs, so that children have developed a life of "coming to open their mouths, clothes to reach out", they do not use their brains when things happen, they are just passive acceptance, life can not take care of themselves, once they leave their parents, it is difficult to walk. Therefore, the proper care and care of parents is conducive to the healthy growth of children, and once it is overdone, there will be too many problems
3. Look at the growth of children with a tolerant eye
Albert Einstein said that "understanding is also education." Tolerance and understanding of children's faults are essential qualities for good parents. The process of children's growth is a series of mistakes and corrections. Tolerance enables parents to enter the heart of the child and become amiable and respectable friend, so as to help the child grow up healthily! Become strong and brave, confident and self-reliant!
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