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Why do we like Li Ruixue? A mother who works at home and has no job?

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Why do we like Li Ruixue? A mother who works at home and has no job?

At the beginning, I was amused by Li Ruixue's appearance, and I felt happy when I saw her.

Sure enough, as soon as she opened her mouth, I thought she was funny.

Li Ruixue introduced herself: "While I was taking children, I was farming, while shooting short videos, and my life was quite good. When I was seven or eight years old, I especially liked to watch martial arts movies, and I admired heroes the most. ”

Li Ruixue is 30 years old, but she still retains the innocence of a child, and worshipping the hero is something that was done when she was a child, who will worship the hero when she grows up?

Why do we like Li Ruixue? A mother who works at home and has no job?

01 Li Ruixue who is not understood

Because of her admiration for the hero, Li Ruxue fell in love with martial arts, and she often practiced martial arts alone in the village, in the fields, and took care of herself.

No teachers, no schools, no one to support.

People in the village will say, "A girl practices martial arts in the village every day, is it not good for girls to do things for girls?" ”

But she still endured the incomprehensible eyes of the people around her and practiced martial arts silently.

Why do we like Li Ruixue? A mother who works at home and has no job?

Li Ruixue can only be sad when he talks about this time when he is not understood: "I practiced martial arts at the age of 11, except for my parents who know that I practice martial arts, our village knows that I practice martial arts, and no one knows at all." ”

Because Li Ruixue has no chance, no platform, no one knows her, and her practice of martial arts is also considered useless, blindly tossing.

Why do we like Li Ruixue? A mother who works at home and has no job?

02 Blind date failure, finally meet a good person

When Li Ruixue was twenty-five or six years old, the whole village was anxious for her, afraid that she would not be able to marry at all.

Sure enough, Li Ruixue had a blind date of more than 20 people, and as soon as they heard that she was practicing martial arts, they shook their heads, and the blind date had failed.

In the end, Li Ruixue felt that it was not okay to go on like this, and he needed to change.

Why do we like Li Ruixue? A mother who works at home and has no job?
She said amusingly, "I was thinking, I have to change." Then at that time, I was long hair and I wanted to burn big waves.
Then I wore a short skirt and high heels for the first time in my life. I said I couldn't say I was practicing martial arts this time, don't run anymore.
Then he came, and when he looked, he saw the right eye. Later, he knew that I was practicing martial arts, that I couldn't run, and that it had fallen into my hands. ”
This dialogue caused the judges and the audience to laugh. "
Why do we like Li Ruixue? A mother who works at home and has no job?

Rejected more than 20 times, won't Li Ruixue be sad? Of course, she will, but after walking all the way, she chose to face the past in a humorous way, telling her story in a funny way to make everyone happy.

In this way, she met her husband and the right person.

Why? Because Li Ruixue's husband said that he just liked his wife's personality, watching his wife practice martial arts, his eyes were glowing.

He said proudly: "I think my wife is very good, very good." ”

Why do we like Li Ruixue? A mother who works at home and has no job?

03 Pragmatic

Nicholas Tse asked her, "Do you want to achieve anything through martial arts?" ”

Li Ruixue said very sincerely: "When I was a child, I had a big dream, and I also wanted to change it through martial arts.

However, now that I am getting older, I have a family, and I have children, and I dare not think about that dream before, and I hide it in my heart.

The biggest idea now is to make my parents a little better, my kids a little better, my family a little better.

I think, why do you like this Li Ruixue who shoots a short video with a baby in the family farming?

Because of her simplicity, her humor, her pragmatism and down-to-earth.

Simple persistence: Since learning martial arts at the age of 11, Li Ruixue has always insisted on practicing martial arts because he likes it, no matter what the people around him say.

Why do we like Li Ruixue? A mother who works at home and has no job?

Adults' persistence is actually very difficult, they may be because of the difficulty of survival, may be because of the eyes around them, may be because of the parents' obstruction and give up the things they like, and turn to the right things to do.

But Li Ruixue did not, her environment and conditions were the worst, but she still persevered. What is precious is that she maintains the simple happiness of a child in her eyes, regardless of fame and fortune.

Because her happiness now lies in the fact that she has finally been seen, finally recognized, she can practice martial arts with great brightness.

Why do we like Li Ruixue? A mother who works at home and has no job?

Humorous words: Li Ruixue has a happy and funny aura, as long as she goes to that station, you will be infected by her emotions.

The happiness of adults is becoming more and more rare, and Li Ruixue only needs a few words to make people laugh. She did not live easily, but her face did not have the traces of pain left by the tempering of life, what she brought to everyone was joy, a momentum of upward mobility.

Why do we like Li Ruixue? A mother who works at home and has no job?

Pragmatic: My dream is to make my parents live a little better, make my children a little better, and make my family a little better.

Listening to the words that the soldiers who are not suitable generals are not good soldiers, our dreams when we were young were so tall and suspended in the air. But the moment we stepped into society, we were beaten badly. Loss, disappointment, frustration, are our inextricable moods and unspeakable sufferings.

But Li Ruixue quickly accepted this reality, accepted that he could only be an ordinary person, and formulated a simple dream that ordinary people can have: let my parents live better, let my children live better, and let my family live better.

Pragmatic and down-to-earth dreams can easily resonate with us. Because there are only a small number of people on the pyramid, most of them must learn to reconcile with themselves, accept their ordinary, and accept that they can only have an ordinary but happy life.

Why do we like Li Ruixue? A mother who works at home and has no job?

Li Ruixue's simple, humorous and pragmatic attitude towards life makes us feel that in fact, life is not so complicated.

If you want to do it, you can do it, if you want to give up, you give up, as long as the family and Meimei are together to create a better life, it is already very good.

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