Stop saying that your child is mentally weak, halfway, and unconfident. What you need to know is that each of us can grow from infancy to this stage as you see, and this process itself shows that each of us has excellent personalities, especially the following three personalities that your child must have.
Passion or energy and enthusiasm is the character that enables us to actively seek out our goals and pursue them. Think about everyone's childhood, is not we play the same game over and over again, now it seems very boring game we can even play an afternoon at that time. And we will also constantly challenge the new things around us, such as climbing, adventure, etc. This is a kind of passion and vitality!
Determination, such a character provides us with the endurance to do things to the end, no matter how difficult the process is and no matter how huge the obstacles we have to overcome, never afraid, just finish! For example, in the process of learning to walk in young children can support the existence of such a character, each baby must first crawl to slowly learn to walk, in the laborious crawling process to wrestle, to go through day after day, month after month of efforts to finally learn to walk, but it is undeniable that every child has shown the determination to win!
Self-confidence, such a character provides a stable system for everyone's inner mind, so that we believe that we can achieve our goals, and we also believe that the efforts taken to achieve them are worth it! In life, maybe you don't feel like your child is confident. It may be that you don't figure out what confidence is. Confidence is: No matter how bad my life experience is, I have the ability to continue to live! This is the best explanation for self-confidence. But in life, we often explain the connotation of self-confidence narrowly, and we feel that we have to live a life that is generally recognized by this culture to be successful and confident! Teacher criticism, poor living conditions, poor parental standards, and other things that are generally recognized by culture are gradually weakening children's self-confidence. True self-confidence can enable slaves to suffer until tomorrow, those in concentration camps to have the courage to face torture, the unemployed to think positively about their plans for the future, and all those who are desperate to continue to live!
Every child is beaten to the point where you see it, and he has always had the inherent potential to do anything well, as a teacher or parent who accompanies him every day, the least thing to do is not to suppress the child's personality anymore!