Dear son, there are three important reasons why you are writing to you today: First: you are standing at the node of life, looking back at the childhood time that has slipped away quietly, and the curtain of youth is slowly opening to you. Second: there are some things we don't tell you, and no one will tell you; third: we agree: we work well, you study well, and no one will let anyone worry.
About the goal: people can have no great ideals but can not lose the goal, in a test set for life system, no matter how hard you usually work hard, as long as the test is smashed will be eliminated, you should understand that the homework is more than the bag heavy, no day and night to learn is not the adult ruthless but the reality is too cruel;
About the positioning: The only child at home is all little emperors, but there are too many emperors in school, and no one will take you seriously, unless you have better grades, your talents are more outstanding, your performance is better, and the teacher takes you as a treasure. Society is the same, in the future, whether you want to become rich or poor, live in a bungalow or a villa, want others to look down on you or respect you, all rely on your own efforts.
About learning: learning in school is the most important but not the only one, good health but poor physique This is no different from reading and reading more and more pigs, classmates to engage in gatherings, than than 20 years old than academic qualifications 30 years old than ability 40 years old than experience 50 years old than financial resources 60 years old than physical strength 70 years old than medical calendar 80 years old than yellow calendar, life for decades in the final analysis is more than the body, son exercise well.
About the future: a person's future is determined by knowledge, ability and attitude, knowledge can be obtained through learning, ability can also grow in practice, and attitude is formed by habits, you sometimes lack the spirit of perseverance in the cultivation of good habits, and now the correct attitude is also coming, in the future, I hope that everything you do is both self-interested and beneficial.
About yourself in school: the teacher has no obligation to be good to you, unless you respect the teacher first, the classmates have no obligation to care about you, unless you care about the classmates first, in your life, no one has the obligation to be good to you, except for me and your mother, don't think that the world will not turn without yourself, don't think that the individual is small and give up and abandon yourself.
About friends: making friends is like investment, investment of course to consider the return, if you find a friend in the end did not give you a return, can only prove that you failed to invest, but please remember, in the friend in distress must be a help, because people who have laughed with themselves are easy to forget, and people who have cried with themselves are the most memorable, which is more meaningful than icing on the cake.
About love: sooner or later one day you are going to fall in love, I advise as a person who has come over, walking under the moon before the flower is always beautiful, sweet words are more charming, but don't forget that there are winds and frosts and rain and snow in reality, love that little thing is nothing more than you love her, she does not love you, she loves you, and you and her love each other, the third situation is undoubtedly fascinating, but the probability is less than 10%, so don't look forward to the beauty of love, don't exaggerate the sadness of lost love, shake hands with beautiful women, and talk to deep women about their hearts, Communicate more with successful women, live with ordinary women, and the psychology is very good.
About the distance: parents, everyone is eager to have a shorter distance from their children, but with the growth of their children, the sky that belongs to you will certainly become wider and wider, and the distance between space and time with their parents will certainly become farther and farther, and of course, parents are particularly concerned about how big the sky position they can occupy in the end, because the sky of parents and the sky of their children are exactly the opposite, as they grow older and smaller day by day, my mortal people also have public feelings, and they also care about whether you are always around.
About gains and losses: a person can not be always proud and can not be frustrated forever, when you are proud, you must be sober, there are too many people in this world who are stronger than yourself, you must remember your own smallness; when you are frustrated, do not shrink back, persevere, how the past came, how to go through now.
About relatives: Relatives only have one fate, even if you can't accompany you all the way in this life, but when the wind and rain are added, you will always think of shielding you from the wind and rain, even if you can't fight side by side for you, but in times of hardship and danger, you will always think of sharing the pain with you, no matter how long we spend with you in this life, please cherish the time of getting together, whether you love or not in the next life, you may not see each other again!
Write here first, and when you look back at this letter later, you will understand the painstaking efforts of your parents, and hope that your son can gain more knowledge, more friends, learn to be grateful, and be a useful person to society in his future life!