It is equally undesirable to demonize "bear children" or even to hate "bear children"
Recently, a primary school student in Nanchang, Jiangxi Province, called "119" for 1 consecutive month to scold people. After a few days of online "fishing", the elementary school student finally "took the bait", and the firefighters came to the door to send a learning package, including a copy of the Tao Te Ching.
Judging from the videos exposed on social media, the elementary school student was boring enough and "ignorant" enough. I believe that the firefighter uncle will also feel helpless when he hears these inexplicable calls.
More importantly, the 119 telephone is related to the fire safety of thousands of households, and making this call will occupy valuable public resources. From this point of view, without giving this elementary school student a little "lesson", he will not be able to remember it for a long time.
Of course, education must be educated, but what kind of methods should be adopted? The firefighter's door-to-door gift package not only pointed out the misbehavior of the primary school student, but also preserved his dignity in a humorous way, which is undoubtedly worthy of praise and reference.
However, some netizens feel that "they are still not exhausted" and believe that such an education method is not enough to play a disciplinary role. For example, someone said that "beating up" might work better.
Comments from some netizens
It is not surprising that some netizens have such thoughts. In recent years, the "bear child" has long been the object of public criticism in the field of public opinion, especially on the social media of the Internet.
In 2017, in a hotel in Dalian, a 4-year-old girl had some noise in the store "hide-and-seek", and a female college student rushed over and kicked the child despite the stop of her male companions. Such a violent picture has also been "approved" by many netizens, and some people have left a message: "Parents do not teach their children well, and naturally there will be society to teach." ”
In 2018, a similar scene occurred on a bus in a certain place: a 7-year-old boy kicked and provoked a man in succession, and the man then violently beat the boy, fell to the ground, and kicked the child's head with his foot. At that time, many netizens also shouted "applause" for the behavior, believing that the boy was completely "deserved".
Some netizens will have the above more extreme ideas, in fact, it is not difficult to understand. In recent years, some "bear children" have made certain outrageous behaviors in public places, disturbing the normal lives of others. Forced by reasons such as "he is still a child" and "he is weak and he is reasonable", everyone is embarrassed to come forward to accuse and criticize. Therefore, once the opportunity is caught on the Internet, netizens will vent their anger on the "bear child".
However, emotions that go too far can also go to extremes. It is equally undesirable to demonize "bear children" or even to hate "bear children". After all, children are children, and it is also common for people to have places that do not understand things, and the most important thing is education, especially family education. "Teaching" in an intense way is likely to leave a shadow in the child's young mind, which may be counterproductive.
This time, the firefighter's uncle sent the "Tao Te Ching", not only to make up lessons for the children, but also to give everyone a wake-up call, for the "bear children", may wish to use more spring wind and rain education methods. From the video, the child who receives the "gift" is embarrassed, and the attention of the surrounding classmates will also urge him to correct his misconduct, which is not bad.
If the Tao Te Ching emphasizes "rule by doing nothing", then as adults, we should also learn from it what is to go with the flow, and we should understand the nature of children more than scolding. Only in this way can we better help the "bear children" grow up healthily and get rid of the word "bear" as soon as possible.
Red Star News special commentator Hu Sheng
Edited by Guan Li
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