Some time ago, a group of photos of Chen Yufan taking his son Yuanbao to the water park were exposed.
In the photo, a pair of men and women who make grimaces with their sons are named He Mouzhen and one is a relative of He Mouzhen.
It seems that everyone is having a lot of fun, and Yuanbao is making a grimace with great effort, very happy.
This is an ordinary photo of the game, but when it is linked to the news of 18 years, it is not so simple.
Chen Mou, a 43-year-old singer in 18 years, was administratively detained by the Beijing police for drug abuse and illegal drug possession.
This Chen Mou is Chen Yufan, and the drug-related offender who is with him is 25-year-old He Moumou.
Methamphetamine and marijuana were found at the scene. The test results of the two people also showed a positive drug reaction.
At the time, the news was hugely influential, and the media interviewed their neighbors about how they saw the two men.
In the news interview, a neighbor's grandfather often saw this woman surnamed He and a man surnamed Chen going in and out of this building for four years according to time.
I always thought it was an old husband and wife, but I didn't expect two people to do such a thing.
Judging from the play photos, Yuanbao seems to have been familiar with this He Mouzhen for a long time.
Coupled with the dictation of the neighbor, He Mouzhen and Chen Yufan seem to have been together very early.
Whether it was because of the woman surnamed He, Bai Baihe and Chen Yufan agreed to divorce everyone is unknown.
Just looking back at 17 years, Chen Yufan's recording of Bai Baihe's derailment after drinking was circulated on the Internet, which is very interesting.
When he understood that Bai He was with his new boyfriend, Chen Yufan also had his girlfriend surnamed He by his side.
How did it get into Chen Yufan's mouth, and it became that he had never been dirty, because his daughter-in-law put a green hat on him, which made him discredited?
As soon as the recording came out, Bai Baihe was attacked by the whole network, and the strength actress who had originally won the award and got the soft hand had to move from the front of the stage to the backstage, thanks to the good knife inserted by her ex-husband.
Later, Bai Baihe announced that she and Chen Yufan had agreed to divorce as early as 15 years. It's not marital infidelity.
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Why did Bai Baihe's career plummet?
1. Why doesn't Bai Bai argue
Before the derailment gate, Bai Baihe's box office performance was 2.5 billion.
In addition to Jia Ling's "Hello, Li Huanying" can surpass her, no female star has faded out of the screen for five years to surpass her earning power.
On acting, business, and earning power, Bai Baihe is one of the best among female stars.
Why did he and Chen Yufan agree to divorce for two years, and still pretend to be a loving couple in front of the public and self-destruct their future?
At that time, in addition to being a box office sister, Bai Baihe had no less than 10 endorsements in his hand.
Most of them are endorsements of yogurt, biscuits, skin care products and the like.
As Chen Yufan's wife and mother of children, her happy marriage can give her a better brand image.
In particular, she endorses more food and health things, a happy image, and more convincing brand.
In addition, the Hazumi group itself has a huge fan base.
If there is no divorce, for Bai Baihe, there are also The House and U of Theo of Hazumi fans.
For Bai Baihe, whose career is on the rise, it is understandable that he did not publish the divorce by agreement at that time.
For Chen Yufan, it is obvious that the two people have publicly stated that they have already agreed to divorce, and they still have to beat a rake, which is a bit incomprehensible.
At that time, Chen Yufan had announced that he would withdraw from the entertainment industry indefinitely, so no matter what he said, he would not have any impact on his career in the circle.
However, this act of his pushed Bai Baihe's career to another low.
However, soon Chen Yufan also paid a price for his behavior.
In 18 years, he was exposed by the police for drug possession and a long-time cohabitation girlfriend.
Falling in love, breaking up, getting married, divorcing. Men and women will walk together for a variety of reasons and will be separated for a variety of reasons.
No matter what the reason for separating, retaliating against the other party is to add hatred to this feeling.
The more people they hate, the more they can't forget, and the more they hate, the easier it is to recall.
Inappropriate people, incorrect feelings, it is best to forget about them quickly.
Only then can you give yourself a chance to start over. Cutting off the past is also giving yourself a chance to be born again.
2. What are the benefits of divorce not being made public?
Looking at the present, there are many couples like Bai Baihe who are divorced and not public.
Some do not want the elderly at home to know, worried that they will not be able to accept.
Some are jealous of the common friends of both sides, and they also want to support harmony in front of outsiders.
For some families, divorce is not public, because of the fear of affecting the child's reading mood.
I have a classmate who is a very delicate woman, thin and slender, and if others say a word out loud, they will scare her.
We went through the college entrance examination together and were comrades in arms who encouraged each other.
In addition to being timid and cowardly, she is very good at learning, memorizing English very well, and has her own methods for solving mathematical problems.
In the high-intensity training of the college entrance examination, we answered each other's questions every day in order to brush up on the questions. When I have time, I will make small talk.
She once revealed the secret of their family to me, and her mom had found evidence of her dad cheating two years earlier.
So, in the first two years, her grades have fallen sharply.
For a while, when Mom and Dad were arguing the hardest, she thought the family had dispersed.
Unexpectedly, mom just drove dad to another room and didn't bring up divorce again.
For two years, Mom and Dad were very polite and saw no signs of divorce.
Soon after the college entrance examination, her father often told her not to study too hard, otherwise her mother would worry about her.
Because there was no more quarrel at home, she got a good result in the college entrance examination.
The whole family was very happy for her, and then Dad moved back to Mom's room, as if nothing had happened.
To this day, she knows that her parents secretly divorced two years ago, only considering that she did not disclose it.
And two years of time, so that her father felt the importance of this family to him, after separation, only to perceive the good of his wife.
A year before the college entrance examination, Dad began to coax mom back, and Mom inspected her husband for a year before agreeing to get back together.
Sometimes, an unpublished divorce can bring lovers who have no end of their fate back together.
People are forgetful animals, together for a long time, always forget their partner is the most considerate, the most sincere, the most meticulous treatment of the person.
Women on the outside certainly have their freshness, but it is unknown whether they will wholeheartedly treat a cheating man.
Sometimes, two people are together every day, but there will be a lot of contradictions.
Occasionally pull away, watch the relationship between two people from a distance, maybe the contradiction will be solved.
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How to deal with being bitten by a cheating husband?
In the face of Chen Yufan's counter-bite, Bai Baihe did not publicly explain it again.
Her new boyfriend disappeared shortly after her accident, and she alone carried all the slander, the termination of the endorsement vendor, and never had the opportunity to choose the script.
She switched from front of the stage to behind the scenes, starring in stage plays, one-man shows, taking over some non-mainstream TV series, doing dubbing, and planning voice programs by herself.
She left the flow pool and still concentrated on doing her duty as an actor, studying acting skills and filming well.
She doesn't need to justify what she's done, she just needs to polish out good work.
No matter how she explains it to others, people who don't believe it still don't believe it.
All she wants is to try her best to create a perfect character image every time, so that she has participated in the works, and when she looks back, she will not regret it.
It wasn't until June this year that she finally started making TV dramas with Tong Dawei again after five years of leaving people's sight.
All silence, there is a response, all concentration, there is an echo.
Bai Baihe, back again, this time no longer whose wife, whose girlfriend.
She is the most powerful and attitude of the actress!
Bai Baihe proved with practical actions that no matter how many tribulations were encountered, how many plots were made. Women should be self-reliant and not give up.
Perhaps, other people will misunderstand you because of some things, which is unavoidable in life.
Only by encouraging yourself, insisting on yourself, doing what you can, and making achievements for others to see, time will tell us what is right and wrong!
The author | Yubing, graduated from Beijing Normal University majoring in finance, has been engaged in the financial industry, and then transferred to the media industry for 3 years, a film and television analysis researcher at home and abroad, good at thinking about life from watching dramas, as well as exploring realistic emotional values from the current situation of women's existence at home and abroad, deeply inspiring many women to marry and improve themselves.