In the past few days, Shen Mengchen has caused controversy because of the sale of idle shirts, and the reason for the controversy is that she sold the price of idle shirts more expensive than the original price, and the frequent rumors of selling fake goods before made Shen Mengchen's few passers-by fall to the bottom. Coincidentally, some time ago, Wu Xin also caused controversy because she put the doll that Zhong Hanliang gave her on a second-hand platform for sale.
When it comes to the relationship between these two people, we have to mention Du Haitao, a member of the happy family who served as the host in "Happy Base Camp". Du Haitao and Shen Mengchen are boyfriend and girlfriend who have been in a relationship for nine years, and they have been friends with Wu Xin for many years from the small transparent who just debuted to the current, and Haitao has also confessed to Wu Xin five times. In short, the three have a close connection.
On May 13 of this year, Du Haitao used an intimate group photo to show love to respond to netizens' questions about the changes in the relationship between the two. But this response did not get the support of melon-eating netizens. After all, before Kan Qingzi and Ji Lingchen fell in love for many years, they did not break up against each other, and after the behavior of Huo Zun's scumbags, netizens were forgivable for the two people not to be optimistic about the two.
No matter how netizens questioned, he behaved quite calmly and basically ignored the rumors. This time the meeting came out to speak out only because the marketing number was spreading that the two people broke up the masses believed that it was true and had to be clarified, but for the marriage news, Du Haitao only responded with: "Has reached a consensus with Shen Mengchen, what stage to do, everything is gradually acting" to respond.
Is the stage of being in love for nine years and not entering the palace of marriage the result of joint consultation between the two? In fact, no, in the variety show, Shen Mengchen's response to the two people who have not yet developed further is "everyone around them is urging, netizens are also urging, but Haitao is indifferent to these news," I believe that this is Shen Mengchen's real thoughts.
Nine years of love and not married, more reason is not that there is an agreement between the two people but that one of them, Du Haitao, is not ready to enter the next step, and the relationship between the two people may still be stable, but they have not thought about when to get married. In fact, being in love for many years without marriage is a very dangerous signal, because feelings have a shelf life.
When you are more and more accustomed to a pattern of getting along with people, and feel that this model is comfortable, you do not want to change the mode, when you are used to the pattern of two people in love, you do not want to get used to the marriage of two families or do not have the energy to adapt to two families, so in this case contradiction is an unavoidable thing.
Girls' youth cannot withstand consumption, especially now that society is biased against girls' age, boys are reluctant to give girls a promise, and things are a great torture for girls.
Compared with Du Haitao's hesitation to enter the marriage hall, Shen Mengchen joked in many variety shows that Du Haitao did not marry himself. In 2018, Shen Mengchen posted a selfie wearing a wedding dress on the Internet with the text "Bridal Chen"
Seeing the photo, eating melon netizens thought that the relationship between the two had blossomed and borne fruit, Shen Mengchen became "Mrs. Du", but things often backfired, Shen Mengchen has not yet ushered in his identity in the transformation and has not waited for his real wedding dress for the time being, but just waited for the dress props of the show.
For this Oolong incident, Du Haitao responded online: "Not married, just recording a program", while Shen Mengchen did not have any response. In a certain episode of the program in 2019, Shen Mengchen's father carefully asked Shen Mengchen about the marriage plan, but Shen Mengchen only gave a vague answer and wanted to continue to ask, Shen Mengchen only said: "I don't know, I have to see him."
Some time ago, Shen Mengchen said something about his marriage in the "Listen to My Sister" program, and expressed his true thoughts in his heart with a joke, "There must be the idea of getting married for so many years, it depends on when he takes the initiative to mention marriage."
Shen Mengchen knows that netizens are depressed about the feelings of the two people, but she herself is still very optimistic about this feeling, and also uses the "sea of stars" to mark the feelings of the two people. When the host Wang Zijian asked her about the next step of the relationship, she only lightly said that everything followed the fate. But after seeing these words, Shen Mengchen's tears swirled in his eyes.
In the past, Shen Mengchen mentioned Du Haitao in the variety show to share the sweet daily life of the two people, but I don't know from when, the variety show mentioned that Haitao is a marriage urger, this transformation can be seen that Shen Mengchen really wants to have further ideas with Haitao, but Haitao has always maintained an ambiguous attitude.
Shen Mengchen has taken the initiative enough, and has urged marriage many times in variety shows, but her helpless boyfriend has no attitude, and he can only wait silently, and dare not have a more excessive marriage promotion. He even reflected on the show on whether he was in too much of a hurry.
Du Haitao's reluctance to marry must have his own reasons, but in Du Haitao's love life, in addition to Shen Mengchen, there is also one person who is often mentioned, that is, Wu Xin. The two stood out from the talent show "Shining New Anchor" and successfully signed a variety show "Happy Base Camp" at that time, becoming a newcomer host of Hunan Satellite TV.
The two have just come to the big city to work hard and the two live under the roof, the two from the initial colleague to the later friend, and grow up together in work and life, the two people's feelings are more intimate. It's just that this intimacy is in Wu Xin's view of friends or relatives, but in Haitao's view, this feeling is a bit "spoiled".
Many years ago, at the Happy Base Camp, Du Haitao blew himself up while playing a game, saying, "Because I think my feelings for her (Wu Xin) are more than just friends." At that time, Wu Xin, who was sitting next to him, was stunned, and the others around him were also stunned for a moment, but then the scene turned into a cacophony.
At that time, Du Haitao wanted to explain, but the more he explained, the more chaotic it became, not only did he not explain it to others, but he also wrapped others around, but fortunately He Jiong came out to help Haitao play the round, explaining, "It doesn't matter how Wu Xin looks at this feeling, what matters is that you will silently love her." Wu Xin on the side had an unbelievable expression on his face after hearing it, but Du Haitao affirmed this statement.
He Jiong teased, "Haitao, you have suffered for so many years!" Du Haitao only cared about expressing his feelings at that time but ignored the feelings of Wu Xin, the confessed whiteman, and publicly showing love was a good story for Lang you to have a concubine, but it was only embarrassing for only one party to passively accept.
Finally, under Xie Na's round field, Wu Xin had the opportunity to explain that in a gentle way, Haitao was rejected. But later Li Xiang broke the news that "Wu Xin had a boyfriend at that time, because this public confession led to the two breaking up", and Wu Xin still did not accept Haitao after returning to the single body.
After the first show of love was fruitless, Du Haitao also showed his love for Wu Xin several times in other programs, and even Shen Mengchen and Wu Xin participated in the "Sister Riding the Wind and Waves" in which Du Haitao promoted the two of them at the same time.
But Wu Xin only responded to the incident by jokingly saying: "Shen Mengchen is his daughter-in-law" to respond to this matter. Perhaps Wu Xin was once the white moonlight in Du Haitao's heart, but since he could have been in contact with Shen Mengchen for eight years, it meant that the two of them were no longer possible, and wu Xin was now more of a family-like concern.
Qian Zhongshu said in the novel "Siege of the City": Marriage does not need too great love, and mutual dislike is enough capital to get married. No one can fully empathize with others, Du Haitao must have his own considerations for the feelings of the two people, perhaps because the matter has not been fully discussed, resulting in the relationship not going any further.
Marriage was haitao's first words, but now he maintains an ambiguous attitude towards this matter, which adds a lot of uncertainty to the relationship between the two people. Now he and Shen Mengchen are "pretending to sleep", a person who wants to wake up and pretend to sleep, hoping that the two can draw a perfect end to this eight-year emotional gamble, and also hope that Shen Mengchen can wait for the answer she wants to wait for.