I grew up to the age where I could toast with my parents, but I didn't become the great person I had in my heart when I was young.
Wu Xin's outfits suddenly became popular all over the Internet, why did she suddenly counterattack in middle age?
From the resident "i girl" of "Happy Camp" to the health "otaku girl" in variety shows, Wu Xin's impression of netizens is:
A middle-aged "unemployed girl".
However, since Wu Xin started the chattering live broadcast last year, her popularity on the Internet has exceeded 100 million.
Until last month, she had generated more than 35 million merchandise transactions......
It turned out that Wu Xin was not a product at all, but a story of an older ordinary young woman's counterattack.
Wu Xin's sudden explosion is not because of how good her skills are in bringing goods, but because the characteristics of her own story are attractive.
In her, the older young woman, who is an ordinary person, resonates.
Older single, emotionally unbelonging, working hard but still mediocre, and suddenly unemployed in middle age......
As an ordinary girl, how to counterattack?
Wu Xin, she gave a model.
01
From Transparent to "Open Life"
In 2006, Wu Xin joined Mango Channel's "Happy Camp".
Until the end of the show in 2021, for a full 15 years, Wu Xin has always been small and transparent with borders.
When hosting, there are only a few lines, and there is no sense of existence.
finally waited for an evening party, and she had the opportunity to host independently.
As a result, when he came on the field, he was withdrawn.
However, even if he is a little transparent, relying on the resources of the platform and the contacts he has made in the circle, in the past 15 years, Wu Xin has also earned a wealth that ordinary people can't earn in a lifetime.
From the immature graduates at the beginning, to the billionaire women who have money, leisure, and a house, they are already rich and difficult for us ordinary people to chase.
With the impact of the Internet and the audience's reduced interest in the show, "Kuaiben" had to be suspended.
For Wu Xin, who is 35+, there are only two choices he faces, continue to renew his contract and be the host of an unknown program.
Another option is to find another path and start anew.
Wu Xin decisively chose the second one, naked resignation.
No one knows whether the choice of naked words is correct this time, only the results will give the answer.
This naked resignation, on the contrary, gave the tense Wu Xin a chance to breathe for more than ten years, and he could set off again at any time after packing up.
In 2020, Wu Xin took advantage of the resources of his old club to appear on the stage of "Sister Lang 1".
She said:
"I am Wu Xin, the little sister of the Happy Camp, and I am also Wu Xin who is not much cruel on this stage. ”
"When I came to this stage, what I want to tell you most is: I don't sing out of tune, I don't have physical incoordination, I can do anything, I'm Wu Xin. ”
Wu Xin, who was standing on the stage, began to change his image and won everyone's recognition with his own efforts and sincerity.
Ride the wind, ride the waves, break free from the shackles, and transform into a different appearance.
Over the years, Wu Xin has been like a seed full of vitality, growing vigorously in his own soil, wanton and chic.
Maybe life is really a marathon, on this journey, we need to challenge our own limits, to refresh our own records, as long as we have been on the road, we can find more surprises and possibilities.
Don't rush, sometimes, it's faster to take your time.
02
Lower your expectations and be yourself
After leaving "Kuaiben", in the next two years, Wu Xin connected 8 variety shows.
Among them, he became a resident host and guest in 4 programs.
In various types of variety shows, she let everyone see that she can sing and dance, and she can toss and ridicule.
Without the scenes of He Jiong and Xie Na, Wu Xin, who was in charge alone, also began to radiate his own light.
In addition to the successful transformation of her career, she has also made greater breakthroughs in personal styling in recent years.
Wu Xin, who already has deep and foreign facial features, has a higher degree of fashion adaptability after successful weight loss.
She began to break into the fashion industry, participating in many fashion weeks and magazine covers.
Not only that, but she also opened her own clothing store, jewelry store, and doll shop.
In addition to her online store, she also has her own Thai restaurant chain brand, with a total of 8 branches in Changsha, Tianjin, Guangdong and Shanxi.
Over the years, Wu Xin has no longer had internal friction.
Faced with self-blame and internal friction, she said:
"What is internal friction? Internal friction is to compete with oneself, and this matter will not be able to get by, in fact, others do not feel anything. Internal friction is that you seem to be at that stage and don't quite identify with yourself. You have to accept some of your own shortcomings, accept some things that you just can't do. ”
Her "people-pleasing personality" has gradually faded into her life.
In the face of uncertainties in the outside world, she has long since stopped attributing to herself, but has learned to reconcile with herself.
At the age of 40, she is no longer afraid of emotional blanks, career troughs, and age anxiety......
She is no longer bound by public opinion, does not please indifference, and lives up to enthusiasm.
From the marginalized character of "Quick Book" to her own heroine.
03
平凡却不平庸
Some people say that there are three kinds of growth in life: one is to find that you are no longer the center of the world, the second is to find that no matter how hard you try, you can't do anything, and the third is to accept your ordinariness and enjoy it.
Not all ordinary people can succeed in counterattacking like Wu Xin.
But little by little, her experience of breaking the spell and reinventing herself is enough to be a refreshment for all ordinary girls.
When life is at a low point, improve yourself and save energy, so that you can be self-consistent, confident, and calm, and have a better sense of control over life than before.
The most difficult thing for people is not only to face their parents, but also to work hard to still be ordinary themselves.
Most of us in life, like Wu Xin, always believed that the future would shine when we were young, persevered, worked hard, and worked hard all the way, striving towards our ideal goals.
Perhaps, in the process of this chase, there are occasional highlight moments, or a little dessert given by life, which is also fleeting.
Most of the time, we are people struggling in the ravines at the foot of the mountain.
When people reach middle age, the gap between dreams and reality is getting bigger and bigger, and we have to recognize reality and live as it is.
In addition to facing the dreams in our hearts, we need to face aging parents behind us, and we need to face children waiting to be fed.
Most of us are finally defeated by reality, running around for life during the day, and occasionally taking out the dream that sinks in our hearts at night when no one is around, and remembering it.
When we became adults, we didn't live as we wanted, let alone the amazing person we had in our hearts when we were young.
But in the cruel real life, he seriously lived as his ordinary hero.
is like the highly praised comment under the song "Half of Life":
I grew up to the age where I could toast with my parents, but I didn't become the great person I had in my heart when I was young.
We who want to live an extraordinary life, have worked hard for many years, and finally live an ordinary life!
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Author: Wan Muzi, CCDM China Career Planner, BSC Senior Career Planner, American Shubo School Career Planner, more than 9 years of enterprise project management, registered international psychological counselor, more than 5 years of corporate training lecturer, platform contract author, second child mother.